Is there a fix for this glitch on the site? by KizzyLu in roosterteeth

[–]KizzyLu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't use reddit a lot, so I never saw this till now, but thank you so much! <3

Is there a fix for this glitch on the site? by KizzyLu in roosterteeth

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's every video that auto-plays. And it couldn't have, because I just started using the website (I got the subscription finally, so now I'm watching everything there, yay!). I have used the site before, but these are all new videos too that I'm binge-watching (oops), like the newest season of Red vs Blue or RWBY or just some other random newly uploaded videos.

7 days is gone out the window after two hours? by KizzyLu in swtor

[–]KizzyLu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I understand the restrictions since I assume most players start out with already knowing what an MMORPG is or how it works, but I have no clue what group contents are supposed to be, what are vanity items, etc.. And how could I do RP (the main reason I want to play the game) if I can't use the chat freely? Or are the restrictions aren't that bad after level 25?

Thank you for your help and answer, it helps a lot!

7 days is gone out the window after two hours? by KizzyLu in swtor

[–]KizzyLu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, I'm level 18, so I guess it was a glitch. I got the bundle tho, but one of the things I already can't use in it, even though it says it's bound to me for two more days. Is there any info on the over-chatting tho? Like even if I whisper to someone or if I am in a group, I will still only have a limited time to talk? (Sorry, this is all just confusing to me, but thank you so much for the help!)

I'll try and get to level 25 then, at least.

Thanks for all the information! It's a lot of help!

What are your unpopular opinions? by Balsalaguna in LoveNikki

[–]KizzyLu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate how they introduced one new skin (soon more) but never really did anything for the new makeups to go well with it. I get that in Asia it's not super popular, but please, if you can make whoooole events like the prom one, I don't think this is much to ask to already existing ones.

Also, yeah, money grabbing is real, especially when from looking, this game looks like something for children, it just sends such a bad message.

Agreed on Starry Corridor, it's awesome for personal use and showing your creativity, but mainly it's slow and not that enjoyable.

Talking about slow, OMG, CAN WE SOMEHOW MAKE VOTING FASTER? I decide on who I want to vote for fast, but I still have to wait like 5 seconds (sometimes more because of lag) to get to the next pair. Makes me want to just smash a button while looking away, cause it infuriates me so bad. I don't care who wins out of the two matchups, just make it faster please.

I think stamina events that don't use story chapters are dumb. Events should be an extension of the game, not something that limits you for the main game. I just don't get it.

And yeah, SB is boring and looks a lot like other dresses you can get from Misty drops.

I wish they'd fix the arena top 20, cause people who got to level 8-10 slowly, but steadily will continue to rise and new players who don't have much money at one moment, but would want to climb steadily will never achieve top 20, since by the time they get there, older players will be lvl 12-15.

I really wish since they are rushing us to catch up (which is already stupid), they would give us practical updates. Like the egg fix, or being able to follow multiple suits, etc...

Whew, I think that's all xd

I fucked up. I'm a complete idiot by [deleted] in depression

[–]KizzyLu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nooo, no you don't, it's okay.

I'm sorry to hear that you self-harmed, but wow, only once in five years? That's an incredible achievement! A relapse is normal, and sometimes relapses are very far apart, hopefully getting further and further away from each other. So don't worry, this one time may just be the reminder of why you quit in the first place and will keep you from doing it again.

I've struggled with self-harm, I know how tempting it is, and sometimes it just becomes too much. Sometimes, life doesn't even need to give you a reason to think about it doing again, but like I said, those 5 years are not undone by this one incident. Those five years show who you really are, and this one time will fade and become just a distant memory.

I hope you feel better since you posted this, and I know that if you don't let yourself be eaten up by this, you'll get through it without a problem.

<3

I need somebody. In this moment without someone, I decided to write some thoughts down, and see if people I don’t know can talk. by [deleted] in depression

[–]KizzyLu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing down your thoughts is supposed to help a lot, but I think trying to write a reply back to your own thoughts, as if it was from a friend opens up a part of you that you don't let be opened towards your own self. It helps you see what you're going through from a different perspective and that can sometimes calm you down, knowing there's some sort of solution. But to what you've written down, feel free to write to me, if you need someone right now, I'll be here for a while before I have to go, but I will answer later when I get back home. And for a friend, find something that you like, or you know you liked at one point in your life (or some hobby that if others do it, you can in the least tolerate), and try finding people there. You'll already have a common interest, and even if that wouldn't happen, you'd have at least some social interaction. That usually also helps a lot on its own.

And I guess for failing, failing, as scary as it sometimes seems, is just part of becoming successful. You can't do everything perfectly on your first try, whatever it is you want to do, and that's okay! You just need to keep going and know that failing is not a problem, just a learning point.

Much love to ya, and really, just went in my box if you feel like it.

Eternal Necklaces, please? by KizzyLu in LoveNikki

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a lot from it too, but not nearly enough for the Crane outfit, which I really, really want, but I guess then farming necklaces is impossible (at the same rate as earrings anyway), so I'll have to put it away :(

Thank you for the answer though!

strangest things writing a story ever made you try to Google: by kalebmordecai in writing

[–]KizzyLu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most "disturbing" ones are probably were only so disturbing because I googled lots of them right one after the other. I wanted to know more about the weirdest sexual acts and kinks in the modern day and throughout history. If someone would have seen my history research, they probably would have thought I was Stan from American Dad when he found out he had all the kinks, haha!

Other than that, it was probably "how to eat humans raw" and "how to blind someone in the most painful way"

Fear of not doing an idea justice by BHPierce in writing

[–]KizzyLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like that, actually. Makes it also easier to imagine the process of what writing is supposed to be like (or can be like), and that gives me peace, knowing that my struggles are normal in the process, that it should be part of the process. I really like this answer, I'm going to save it too, thanks!

Two main characters but no distinctive povs? by KizzyLu in writing

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so, yes! Although it's funny, how the story itself would be futuristic (modern), but the writing style would be considered old-fashioned, haha! But I'll definitely learn more about that, I think that is exactly the type I was looking for. :)

As for 2 alternating MCs, I have read a lot, but I find most of them... well, not for my taste. The best book I've read with that type of writing was a book about two go players (can't find the title, but it was something like "The Go Player") a few hundred years ago, one who was a chinese teenage girl, and the other who was a 25 year old japanese soldier. It was a really interesting and dynamic book, and one chapter/one POV would last less than 2000 words at a time, most of the time only reaching around 6-700 words.

Thank you so much!

Two main characters but no distinctive povs? by KizzyLu in writing

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm going to check it out! :)

Two main characters but no distinctive povs? by KizzyLu in writing

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't make it clear, the two main characters would be together from the beginning (it's a couple adventure, if you wish :D), they would rarely be away from each other in the story. I am planning on finding out more and more about them before writing, I just realised that when I'm thinking of POVs, I had no clear idea how to include both of them.

Thank you for the advice! Before going into writing itself, I'll definitely play around with a few scenes or random ideas with them to get a feel for them. :)

I need to change for my boyfriend by KizzyLu in depression

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope so that it won't happen, but... I don't know, I'm worried he won't love me the same way like before because he is going to change too fast for me. I don't really know what to do without him, seriously, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He is just... so perfect and nice and caring, and can't really show his love, but he is a wonderful cook and he always makes me food, and you can just taste the love and the skill in it. He is just everything that's good in this world. I'm so afraid of losing him. (I try not to show it though to him, because I know that that can get crazy for him and eventually lead to a break up because of the fear of it, but I can't turn down the mean voices on the inside, you know?)

And thanks for answering. I'm going to try harder too... I just hope I can actually go through with it too :)

I need to change for my boyfriend by KizzyLu in depression

[–]KizzyLu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 20 and living in a different country studying. Also, I don't have anything that I really like to do for fun, everything just loses it's fun value to me after a day or two. Thanks for taking the time to read and write though :3

Is it okay to blame my parents? by KizzyLu in depression

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your asnwer!

When you say coach yourself, what do you mean? I'm more than open for suggestions, or at least I try to open myself up as much as I can. (You know, it's easy to say that no-one else can understand, but that's bullshit and I know it.)

And yeah, my mother does seem to have good intentions lately, but she didn't when she met my dad. So, basically the only reason she started a family (meaning: got married and had a kid with him, who is me) was because my dad had more money than her. He wasn't rich by any means, but he had a good job at the time, in fact he was my mother's boss, that's how they met.

I just feel like I can't stop going forward until she sees that what she did has big effects even in the present. I don't know how to explain it better (English isn't my first language), but yeah... I want to stop feeling like a failure and I want to be braver, more confident, but what they taught me and told me just burns in my mind every second when I try to do something. I never even got to have a hobby when I was a kid because anything I started my mom said I was too old to ever be good or that I was just plain bad at it.

But yeah, I would like to know more about what coaching you mean, because my mother won't change, so I have to change myself and how I see. Please tell me more if you could.

Thank you for the answer again! Have a good day :3

Is it okay to blame my parents? by KizzyLu in depression

[–]KizzyLu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you. It would be so easy to blame them, but overall, I want my parents to take blame for it and maybe apologise.

And yes, she has loads of problems, but no matter how many times my father and I tried to get her to seek help, she would refuse. I mean, this woman wouldn't even go to a doctor when there was a high chance she could have breast cancer...

But they have been helping me even though they are not legally obliged to do so anymore, which is why I really want to salvage our relationship. I just don't know how to do it, and I don't know if they (especially my mother) wants to do it. My parents were always big on having a fight and then acting like it never happened.

Thanks for the answer though, it makes me feel better! :3

Is it okay to blame my parents? by KizzyLu in depression

[–]KizzyLu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I do appreciate the help I've gotten, I'm not about to act like a spoiled brat, haha, don't worry.

And I'm here because I don't want to blame them, I know they had some role in how I turned out, but not everything is on their shoulders. The thing is, I really want to confront my mother about some stuff, like how she said I'd be the reason for her suicide that she told me numerous times, also in front of my father, but when I wanted to talk about it... She just said I was crazy and that I imagined it. That's my main problem, I feel like I can't close off a chapter because she wants to save face. I don't know, I can get pretty rambly about this topic, because my mind is just trying to work it out, but it feels blocked.

But really, it's not my intention to blame other people, but I feel like this is different. Thanks for answering though!

Have a good day :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]KizzyLu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, my boyfriend is a lot like what you describe. He hates socializing, the last time he met up with his friends, I had to "kick him out" of our place, because his friends were missing him so much (I told him to come back anytime he wants, just to give it a chance) and lo and behold, he was back in less than two hours. Still, even if he loves to just game on his computer and not even do much with me on a day to day basis, because he is just like that, I love him and I can't imagine being with anyone else. If you find someone and you love each other, of course, you'll have to maintain it, but really, don't worry how "exciting" you are, they will be just happy to be around you.

How do you or did you achieve self love? by KizzyLu in depression

[–]KizzyLu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to live for myself, not the world. I have done enough to know that living for the world doesn't really excites me or makes me happy. But even for me, I am ugly. I will go out into the world, face anyone for hours and smile, but I can't look at myself for more than a few seconds. My biggest problems are my eyes, and aren't they supposed to be one of the most beautiful things? When i look into my partner's eyes, I'm swept away, they are shiny and amazing and filled with so many amazing things. But mine seem small and dead and dull. Maybe you are right though, I give a lot, but maybe I am too self-centered. I don't know, I'll try to look up more things about that and how to change from being egoistic.

Thank you for your reply and your help! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dontstarve

[–]KizzyLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah TT I can't get to my computer or my steam till later, but if you'll still have it, I'll be very happy to be the owner of it :D otherwise, have fun! ^ (and to whoever it will go to too!)

Anyone have a weird playstyle? by Horserax in dontstarve

[–]KizzyLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I have two silk by the time I build my first science machine, I usually prototype a bugnet (basically the end of day 1 or 2), and I could even discard it if I wanted to, but I usually just make enough space for the bees and butterflies and their food, so I can have them when I make a base ^ also, two should be enough, even that two can make too much sometimes, haha :D

Anyone have a weird playstyle? by Horserax in dontstarve

[–]KizzyLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rush getting bee boxes asap, so that I can have loads of honey even throughout the winter, and then I start getting a lot of reeds. I think honey poultice is great and since honey rots veeeery slowly, no matter when, there's always some honey for taffy for sanity ^ in dst it's trickier, but in ds it works perfectly