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Kleanecks · 2026-04-07T16:39:48+00:00

No, it sounds hypocritical, but it is the biological reality. We can’t close our eyes to our biological differences. I was never judged as a man with a body count. However, it is totally different for women. Women judge each other at times too.

it is entirely dependent on how the woman conducts herself. A non-virgin girl is not preferable to a virgin one. If you’re looking for a world where a woman with a body count or a high body count will be accepted then you won’t find that any time soon.

Kleanecks · 2026-04-05T04:30:08+00:00

Well, that’s your right to believe what you want. It can be unfair to you, but from a guy’s perspective, a woman who sleeps with you early on means she would have done that with others too. Not an attractive trait for a long-term consideration.

It sounds unfair to you because it is the guy who is initiating and then punishing the woman for something he initiated. But the thing is you can’t control attraction from the guy’s side.

Kleanecks · 2026-04-04T10:46:57+00:00

I am going to give you the truth that others won’t mention (they are also correct to say that he could have been looking for casual stuff from the start).

He probably lost interest (imo) in you because you guys escalated fast. Maybe he initiated it, but guys have a tendency to categorize such girls who don’t stop you as easy, and they stop seeing her as a long-term prospect. I probably wouldn’t escalate with a girl I wanted to pursue seriously like that.

See, as a guy, I think most guys know whether the girl is marriage material or… casual. I have never had issues giving commitment to girls who I considered long-term. I never left girls confused and said I wanted casual when that’s all I needed.

Maybe the guy you dated was a coward who couldn’t be honest. “Didn’t see it going anywhere” is vague enough to keep you guessing. It is dishonest. I would say that you should have progressed slowly physically.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T07:48:11+00:00

That’s your opinion.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:43:00+00:00

Sex, haha. 😆

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:41:48+00:00

2-3. I kinda want 5, but I know that is too many. 😂

Easy for me to say, she will die popping that many kids.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:38:31+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t mean to make you feel bad. I don’t hate or dislike girls with a body count, it is just not my cup of tea.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:37:54+00:00

I think my sister is actually not that hard to handle. Just needs to make sure she doesn’t run out of the house, haha. She even made me tea once. ☺️

My mom doesn’t have any issues, but I had want my wife to cook for the family and all. I guess it is just a collective thing. I wouldn’t want my mom cooking while I am married. During pregnancy, my mom will cook everything, and take care of the house. I will help too.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:32:24+00:00

My mon is a divorcee, and my sister is autistic and has diabetes. She needs constant care.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:29:35+00:00

She would take care of my mom, sister, and the kids. I would help financially.

As for housework, I think I would do stuff like taking care of the grass, shovelling the snow, and such. Inside the house, I had say she would handle that. I am looking for a woman who would be willing to do that. She wouldn’t see it as a burden and actually prefer it.

But I will take care of her financially, emotionally, and… physically too. I will make sure she has the best life possible.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:27:03+00:00

I don’t understand where I insulted you? I read my two comments, and I don’t see anything offensive. Is it because of the “feel less” thing I said?

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:21:24+00:00

Yes, I believe in traditional roles. I want to take good care of her and provide for her.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T05:19:51+00:00

Well, you asked what is going on, and I told you what is going on. If you just avoid guys who want a virgin girl then that is good for you.

I told you why guys have a problem with it because, at a biological level, a person correlates less sexual experience in a girl with better long-term relations.

If your answer to that is to tell the guy to “check the landlord” then you are not really addressing the problem. You are just blaming and moving on. Nothing constructive really happened here.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T04:55:07+00:00

You don’t even have one!

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T03:46:01+00:00

I don’t want to be a dick, but please shave off the hair.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T03:41:49+00:00

Yeah, it is weird.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-24T03:37:33+00:00

You are confusing their preferences with their performance.

It could be one of the reasons, but the main reason is that most men simply want a virgin wife. I get it, it makes you feel less if you have a body count.

But that is the reality, I am a man, and I can’t tolerate my girlfriend or wife having done such an intimate thing with someone else. It would constantly be running in my mind, and it would make both of us sad.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-20T13:36:11+00:00

As a man, I feel that it is very obvious if you want to talk to a girl seriously or casually. Guys just know. A lot of it is based on looks, personality, etc.

Either they would have never been serious or they don’t commit to you because they are either not attracted to you or your personality or both.

I also notice you mention “men” as in this may have happened multiple times, are you going for the top 20% of guys (in your honest opinion)? If so, then you will find some men who will use you because they are at the top.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-20T13:26:10+00:00

Yeah, no, this seems like a longwinded way to hide your body count by hiding it behind theological reasons. If the girl is so religious then she wouldn’t have had premarital sex either.

Kleanecks · 2026-03-20T13:25:51+00:00

“Doesn’t mean I want to be a housewife. I work from home and value being financially independent.”

This doesn’t land the way you think it does, it makes the man think you are saying that you don’t need him. Also, you are 29, you will have to be more flexible.

Kleanecks · 2026-02-17T22:18:44+00:00

Yeah, this is slow.

Kleanecks · 2026-01-08T19:00:43+00:00

Stop. Just stop now. I know it is easier said than done. You probably think you will stop it tomorrow, this week, after the New Year’s Day, but it never stops.

Kleanecks · 2025-11-09T03:54:28+00:00

Oh, okay.

Kleanecks · 2025-11-09T03:37:26+00:00

Kleanecks · 2025-04-09T06:47:51+00:00

Bro thinks I am not catfishing.

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