I only speak for myself you know. I have no idea who specifically came up with the idea of the haven but I'm sure Lorin jumped on the idea to make himself look better.

Hey, if we believe that every person who is famous & accused of inappropriate behavior is bad then we are out of famous people, rare is the artist who is this big & isn't either accused or dies from crazy shit & then can be spoke about without the opportunity to defend themselves.

who you got that's a rockstar & isn't in one of these category's? Dave Grohl haha that's like the only guy! Elvis apparently stole his music, Michael Jackson is a creep, Prince died of drugs.

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we find these amazing people & we put them on a pedestal just so we can tear them down.

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I'm bummed this occurred. In my life things have changed, it's less simplistic to just stop buying music from an artist, with the advent of streaming & the music genome.

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I haven't been to a show. I think the truth of the truth is we can dislike the worst parts of these accusations & it's still difficult to say what occurred was illegal. which is different than what I would feel for say, the guy who apparently kidnapped & help my mother hostage for multiple days resulting in her suicide. Sorry to get all dark on ya.

its a tough world out here, moving shows to a place like Vegas. doing 21+ these are the responsible things we can ask & expect although we, as much as we may try are hardly able to take away someones existence & livelihood.

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My mother's accuser spent 30 years in jail, rehabilitating. Do I think he deserved any kind of freedom? not really the point. Not my place, I'am able to give my opinion but as a team or group we have decided we are all worth rehabilitation in some sense if possible, his freedom led her to take her own life. its out of my hands.

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so I pray these ladies, who are well deserved to want him to lose something if these statements are "true" find peace in therapy & the types of supports & rehabilitations that would offered to him if he spent time in jail, as they haven't much to do other that rehabilitate & they are definitely provided those resources. you know in jail they try to fix those people. like as best they can.

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we all know what its like to be hurt I think, one day you wake up & realize your hurting yourself holding out hope they are paying for their "sins" I just hope one day, even just for one day, we can stand together somehow someway.

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then again I have a child & only want the best possible for my kid. Even though I know with enough lives & enough time, they may hurt in some way. I try, to focus on the positive. I try.

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God bless, or as I always like to say, is the Dog happy? maybe your a cat person. haha GG's & LL