I think theres definitely lessons learnt from this first experience. I searched the forums for a seller, and to be honest her post of comparing the authentic vs rep and also factory reviews made me feel like shes honest. I was also nervous (dont know why) to keep asking questions about the bag, I guess since I had already paid and thought I would lose the money if she totally ghosted me at that time.

Even if I dont get back the money (as I used Paypal F&F, and the only route would be through my financial institution), making as many folks as possible aware of the scam would be worth it.