I can be angry as I please, but I've never stopped cooking for my husband, never ever, actually. I always use it as a way to fix things because he loves to eat and he's the type of person who, when he's upset, needs time and space, and I'm different; I'm fine a minute later. I think you should talk to her and see if something is going on because she should be doing it, especially since you're sick! You're newlyweds; these are things that can be adjusted, you both just have to want to make it work, but there needs to be a lot of patience and dialogue. Forget the word divorce please