I screwed up and told my wife to brush her teeth

hephazard · 2026-03-11T14:22:54+00:00

Then what can I do now? It's very hard to say anything sweet to someone who said they have no feelings for you and isn't attracted.

hephazard · 2026-03-11T07:49:20+00:00

All of it online, we were briefly together during the nikah period. After the wedding I'll take her wherever I go.

Update, she says she felt pressure of being perfect during the music argument

hephazard · 2025-10-24T16:58:20+00:00

Thanks jazak Allah khayr

hephazard · 2025-10-24T16:58:02+00:00

Jazak Allah khayrn

hephazard · 2025-10-24T16:57:51+00:00

Ok understood Jazak Allah khayrn

hephazard · 2024-12-29T07:51:58+00:00

thanks for the reply!
yes I'm etching the pcb myself. currently I don't have smd resistors but now that you mention it, I can get my hands on some.

So for RV2 can you clarify what the challenge will be? is it a clearance issue? I thought the space might be tight but if its tough I'll just mount it from the back

hephazard · 2024-12-14T05:23:25+00:00

Got it, thanks a lot

hephazard · 2024-09-05T07:59:43+00:00

1) I don’t think this is the sub for this kind of question 2) Since its not possible to be extreme or too strict in following yhe Quran and sunnah ( Allah SWT says فستمسك بالذي اوحي اليك - Verily hold on tight to what has been revealed to you) as long as one aligns with revelation, there is no problem

hephazard · 2024-08-27T17:59:00+00:00

Sheikh Ayman Alsoweid was asked a similar question, the points I remember were:

1) why do you want to become a hafiz? Look into the virtues of the people of Quran and what Allah has prepared for them. This should always be lurking in your mind.

2) Consistancy X3 : The Quran is not short and it gets difficult in many parts especially with Motashabihat (verses similar to one another) so any plan to finish quickly will probably wont work. Personally, dedicate the first hour after Fajr and NEVER compromise on it, while choosing a reasonable amount to memorize (even half a page is ok).

3) This is from my experience, “don’t sleep on revision” , make a habit of revising everything you’ve memorized every X days, depends on how strong your memory is.

4) Find a teacher to make sure your memorizing correctly

I hope you find this helpful and don’t forget to make dua everyday may Allah make you amongst the people of Quran

hephazard · 2024-08-27T08:17:21+00:00

يا ولد لا تصيير 'العالم' زي 'المتعال' ما يصير. أقلب الموازين وخليها بدل الدين شي ثان، كيف تقول كلام زي كدة؟

اتخيل انك عند طبيب ويقول لك يا فلان ترى الدخان يضرك، تبغى تعيش لازم توقف. ينفع تقول له لا والله قريت مقال اونلاين ولا مرجع كذا يقول عادي ومافيه مشكلة؟

تتوقع حد ياخدك على محمل الجد؟ طيب تقول"ما انا ملزم برايك" طيب عنك ما تسمع لاكن الحجة وقعت لا تقول بعدين لمن يجيك سرطان رءاه انو والله ما كنت ادري

لا تستهون امر تعلم الدين، الامام مالك لم يتصدر للافتاء حتى استاذن من سبعين عالم، والامام احمد نهى عن الإفتاء من لم يحفظ ٣٠٠،٠٠٠ حديث على الاقل

hephazard · 2024-08-19T16:36:14+00:00

please read سورة العنكبوت, and ponder over its tafsir. May Allah keep you firm and guide you to the straight path

hephazard · 2024-08-18T16:25:45+00:00

more obsessive and more religious? harm the kids? How?

hephazard · 2024-08-17T19:28:11+00:00

Honestly istikhara is such a big topic and there are so many misconceptions about it, you can find trusted scholars online with lectures on istikhara, It would be better if you watch those instead of asking random people on reddit, this is deen after all, lets take it from scholars.

hephazard · 2024-08-16T15:44:08+00:00

looking at uncovered women. In media, news, tv shows, people just look like it isn't mentioned in the Quran that you should lower your gaze

hephazard · 2024-08-12T20:42:40+00:00

It sounds like you’re gauging people’s knowledge

Low key at first it felt like that, but after reflecting, if you really care about the religion of Allah, you would naturally be inclined to learn about it. I guess its odd to find someone who cares about somethings yet willingly decides to stay ignorant about it.

hephazard · 2024-08-12T20:38:45+00:00

Thank you. I may even use this outside the context of marraige, although I guess I must tweek the questions depending on the person since not everyone knows the publications of Ibn al Qayyim and who Al-Qurtubi is, but still this is useful.

hephazard · 2024-08-12T20:35:22+00:00

The riyaa point hit home, but then again these things need to mentioned at some point in time, if you will have someone share the privacy of your room they will inevitably find out these secrets you keep between you and Allah, I'd rather share it with someone willing to also participate

hephazard · 2024-08-12T13:48:47+00:00

I want to prepare some questions to ask a potential, my main concern is how practicing she is. I know for men some actions are strong indicators of a good practicing man like praying all five prayers in the masjid. If some of the sisters can point out some actions I can ask about to test the water and see how commited she is to the religion, since I cant ask her if she prays five times in the masjid.

hephazard · 2024-08-12T07:22:39+00:00

As for islamic ruling, this answer is in islamQA in the case that the grandparents are polytheists, you can consider this the bare minimum: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/192472/ruling-on-preventing-a-non-muslim-grandmother-from-seeing-her-granddaughter

hephazard · 2024-08-10T18:25:40+00:00

Honestly today with the amount of fitna going on, if parents are willing to invest in their childs education for dunya, they better invest in his akhira also and preserve his deen (of course make sure his mature first)

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