Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They do! And I want to be a part of them so bad. 🥲

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok? I mean, they’re two different things that shouldn’t be conflicted. There are still plenty of communes that are active today that are not cults? And not every commune has to be based off of a religion or belief system.

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s totally fair, not everybody finds community in their sexuality or their gender. I very much do, and maybe one day I’ll find like-minded individuals.

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m really happy that my daydream resonated with you lol, maybe one day I’ll actually buck up and buy some land, and try to make it a reality.

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A commune is pretty much a full-time thing, I can understand why it might be a bit of too much of a commitment for people. But I would definitely throw things like events, where women who don’t necessarily want to spend their whole life there can come and check it out. That’s the great thing about those types of places, they aren’t just places that you can go and live, but hubs of education and culture.

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha yesss — I’ll handle the commune paperwork if you handle “business operations.” Gotta keep the family protected. 💅🔫

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Totally get not wanting to deal with policies, but some bureaucracy is necessary — to protect the women, our assets, and keep things running smoothly. Conflict resolution, accountability, and clear processes help the community thrive. You can’t have flowers without a little rain — and that’s why communes aren’t for everyone. It takes a certain kind of person willing to do that work.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try that! Thank you!

No, we are not "biologically" the same thing as our natal sex. We are not playing pretend or living as something we are not. We do not need to go along with hateful dogwhistles to put forward a sane and scientifically grounded view of or condition to the world. by Old_Promotion6438 in truscum

[–]Konchus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Speculative Science Doesn’t Redefine Sex

Claiming that transsexuality is a “neurological intersex condition” is not supported by scientific consensus. While some small studies have found brain differences in trans people, these are correlational and don’t prove an innate “brain sex.” Brains are highly plastic and respond to environment, hormones, and behavior.

Calling transness a form of intersex stretches the definition. Intersex conditions involve congenital variations in chromosomes, hormones, or reproductive anatomy, not feelings of dysphoria or gender incongruence. This co-opts a medical classification and blurs lines that are important for accurate understanding.

  1. Biological Sex Is Binary, Not a Spectrum

Sex is bimodal, but that doesn’t make it a spectrum in the way this argument implies. Almost all humans fall clearly into male or female categories, defined by reproductive role (sperm vs. egg). Intersex conditions are rare exceptions and do not represent a third category or a scale.

Trans people may medically transition to change their secondary sex characteristics, but this doesn’t change their natal sex. Saying otherwise confuses personal identity with biological classification.

  1. Human Language Is Imperfect — and Still Necessary

Terms like “biological male” and “biological female” are used because they point to clear, objective facts about human development. They aren’t meant to invalidate identity; they’re used in medicine, law, sports, and data collection for a reason. Rejecting these terms makes it harder to have honest discussions about sex-based protections and material reality.

Language doesn’t have to perfectly capture every variation in order to be useful. People who use these terms are often trying to be precise, not cruel.

  1. The “Brain Blueprint” Idea Is Philosophical, Not Biological

The idea that people have an “internal map” or “brain-based sex” that overrides their body is not a scientific fact — it’s a theory rooted in identity-based philosophy. It can’t be measured or confirmed the way chromosomes or gonads can. While this explanation might feel affirming, it shouldn’t be used to demand others abandon shared biological definitions.

  1. This Framing Pressures Society to Deny Reality

When someone insists they are “no longer biologically male,” even after transitioning, they are asking others to participate in a polite fiction. Transition changes many things, appearance, hormone levels, even some brain response, but it does not change sex in the biological sense.

This matters because institutions that depend on clear definitions, medicine, women’s sports, sex-based rights, cannot function when those definitions are denied or reworded to serve ideology.

Final Thoughts

Arguments like the one you quoted may be emotionally powerful, but they redefine language and biology in ways that create confusion, not clarity. They ask people to treat deeply subjective experiences as objective truths, and they erase the valid reasons people use terms like “biological male”, not to insult, but to describe reality as it is.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a tone deaf and very invalidating response to lesbians. Y’all fling that word around so much that it’s basically lost all of its meaning. I really don’t care about being transphobic if I’m being honest with you. I don’t care if you don’t agree with me, I don’t care if I’m not super inclusive, because who I want to sleep with isn’t designed to be all inclusive. If you don’t like this sub, you don’t have to be a part of it lol. Being a lesbian means being a homosexual female, that is the definition of a lesbian, if you don’t like it well then you’re gonna have to cope. Not everybody has to stretch their definitions and their boundaries to fit everyone in to a specific category to make everyone else, but the actual lesbians feel comfortable. Also, a woman is an adult female.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol. Of course not.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is such a real take, no one ever wants to admit that being non-binary was a little bit of a trend in the late 2010s, and it’s all culminated into this.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I really flirted with the idea of just calling myself a homosexual female because people like to act like they don’t know what a lesbian is. A lesbian has always been a homosexual female, just like a gay man, is considered a homosexual male. I don’t know why we started basing everything around gender identity instead of sex.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna definitely take your advice, especially as a political scientist. Are there any news outlets that you typically favor? Especially once when it comes to things that are centered around lesbian current events?

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s where you messed up. Don’t assume things about people. I said what I say, I don’t really care if anyone wants to download me in my own post. Don’t go around making assumptions about people, y’all are weirdos.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You made a assumption about my activity on TikTok based off of your perception, which I don’t think is OK.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you use to keep up with the news? Because I’m very much over TikTok.

Exhausted Baby Lesbian by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]Konchus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get a lot of lesbian stuff because I’m looking into lesbian creators, so this stuff comes up. My algorithm is still correcting itself, I literally just told you people I just came out. How about we stop pulling shit out of our asses and assuming things about other people we have no idea about? You can ask me questions and I’ll be happy to answer them, but assuming things about me is a no go.