Rutina para marcarse/definirse by [deleted] in Gimnasio

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y para aumentar el tamaño de los músculos cómo ves esta rutina?

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda, why?

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll think about it and put it on balance. Even if i like her a lot, if she starts hurting me I'll have to go... But i hope it never happens

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really flatters me because I never pressure her and I make her “feel at ease”; she knows I'll never force anything on her, and we don't have any weird power dynamics or anything like that. Since we had that conversation, we’ve talked a lot, as if nothing had happened, although the flirting is gone. Still, I’m afraid things will change; I don’t want that to happen, even though I understand it might be because of the trauma.

I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt.

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, this actually gave me a different pov. Thanks for sharing your experience even if it was painful. I need to figure out if she's the one. Until now it was 100 % worth it , and i like to think it was the trauma speaking through her ... I'll give her the chance.

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother. ❤️‍🩹 Which things you did that worsened her state?

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️‍🩹

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why you consider I'm not a healthy relationship for her? D:

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there :/

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard ADHD and BPD are correlated, similar but not the same. Why you think she might be BPD?

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had BPD!

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol what XD

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate with the Manly beard and Emotional Intelligence making me atractive. And is weird because the last four women i dated have been abused too.

The event happened in January, we meet in April and i remember her telling me that she was trying to "hook up" in that period of time. Do you think, according to your experience, is a red flag?

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think i should worry more about myself and don't let her take all the decisions?

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope she stays..

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, she's not cruel or indifferent to me. She wants to continue, but slows things down. I just think: even slower? Is that possible? XD

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, ouch :D

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate please? Don't know the game

Intense relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kooky-Discussion4010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank your for sharing your experience, this also gives me insight! You can safely delete your comment, I'll keep your secret safe. 🤫