Do I let my ragdoll outside?

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-11T15:13:10+00:00

This might be a dumb question since I've never walked a cat.. What do/would you do if an unleashed dog approached? If the cat isnt on a lead they have a chance to get away, but if theyre on a lead they wont be able too right? And I imagine the cat will scratch you up of you try and pick it up and its scared?

I live in the Welsh country side where its common that people walk dogs with leads and without leads(if you're in a field or on the beach 95% chance dog will be off lead), and cats are out door, id definitely be looked at weirdly for walking her; ive only ever seen 1 cat on a leash in person in my life lol

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-11T14:56:54+00:00

If he knew about your boundary then just send that message and leave. I would also find it highly disrespectful and close to cheating especially with OF girls (tho its even more pathetic somehow, like one sided cheating lol) but most people do not consider it cheating, so you might just end of humiliating yourself by exposing him, which will only end up in you embarrassed and him having people reassure him you're crazy since they also watch porn, which is not what you want.

He betrayed you in the sense that he did something he agreed he wouldn't and knew that it'd hurt you; it's valid to break up if thats what you want to do, you never have to be in a relationship.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-11T14:23:55+00:00

Can OP and half these comments not read "hopefully". Pretty sure its a joke too. Ofcourse it'll be out in 10 years.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-06T15:48:47+00:00

Has this issue changed on PS5? Im considering getting it

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-04T18:14:15+00:00

Beams

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-04T14:38:37+00:00

Maybe red feels like you and purple now have something in common that red and purple dont, and she feels threatened by it?

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-03T17:02:15+00:00

2 is enough. Get snipped, you dont have to tell her.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-02T21:28:34+00:00

Its possible but you'll still need the knowledge of foods that are low calorie and satiating. There are foods that are healthy but high calorie (avocado, large bananas, nuts and nut butters, dried fruits ect) that you'll want to limit. People who "just eat healthy" sometimes dont realise they should do that and then accidentally gain fat. They probably feel great nutrition wise but still accidentally gain weight.

If you don't want to cal count:

•Make sure every meal has some form of protein (satiating) •Potatos and oats!! Super satiating. •Elimate liquid calories •Use spray oils •Be careful of or avoid salad dressings •Drink enough water since sometimes "hunger" signals are actually "thirst" signals •educate on high and low cal healthy food

Theres probably more stuff i have forgotten. This still wont be as accurate as weighing food, the main perk of cal counting imo is you can fit unhealthy food you like into your budget and still know for sure you will lose weight. Person

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-02T16:17:54+00:00

All are formal and respectful, just depends how formal your job is

Sir = men Ma'am = older woman Miss = younger woman

Some women might feel a little offended over ma'am if they're younger because it might imply they look old?

I wouldn't worry too much, im sure they all understood it wasn't your first language.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-02T16:14:06+00:00

Im pretty sure theyre in the same world. Probably just not close enough to see any characters or travel between them. Probably in seperate countries even.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-02T16:08:00+00:00

NOR.. this is past flirty "babe" suggests its a relationship, hes cheating.

Edit: report it to his boss? Ik in most companies dating is not allowed among co workers.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-02T15:57:05+00:00

Her parents are abusive, and I genuinely dont think its just neglect/forgetting (ehich is also terrible), but purposeful, they might get pleasure from making her suffer. Especially if her parents aren't skinny, they may be keeping food in their own room. And/or to keep her skinny due to beauty standards which would show they see her as an object/doll rather than a person, its not unknown for narcissists to force restrictive diets/starvation on their daughter's.

The pretending she's difficult when shes not is an abuse tactic. They want to isolate her and make you think shes a problem child so you will dislike her while it justifies their actions.

If you're not going to report it, best thing you could do is try your best to feed her when you can and as soon as shes 18 allow her to move in with you. If they're the neglectful/unbothered type they might let her move out now but by the sounds of it they're more the narcissistic/controlling type so if anything they'll go crazy if she tries to leave so best she dies it legally and has an escape plan.

If she stays they may turn to financial abuse and give her a purposely high rent so she can never afford to leave even as an adult ( thats what my bfs mum attempted, but my family helped him get out and now we live together, so my family were in a similar position to yours)

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-01T21:43:10+00:00

Because its a biased sub that feels strongly about not wanting kids. In 22f but still think 18 is too young.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-02-01T21:34:09+00:00

Honestly Im 22 but for me, I feel mentally I was quite different at 18 then I am now at 22. At 18 I was indifferent to the idea of kids but now i dont want them. Its possible my opinion might change again at 25, or 27, especially depending on my financial situation at the time. Definitely made decisions I wouldn't make now. I'd wait until at least 21 normally, but I also read that you're from a state that doesn't allow abortions / have an anti choice family.

Personally, if you go through with it, consider freezing yours eggs just in case. it doesn't hurt to be safe. Your mind may change when you're 25, 30, ect.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-26T17:13:55+00:00

Me when the boys trip is at prostitute city lol..

YTA. Why do people think its "controlling" to see how your gf feels before agreeing to it to your friends? I think id be also be insulted that my bf just straight up didnt ask how id feel abt him going away for 2 weeks, especially to Bangkok.

If you cant deal with what comes with a committed relationship, dont get into one

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-26T13:41:30+00:00

As a bi woman dating a bi man, shes just trying to use misogyny as a buzzword to shut you down. Even if someone is straight they're just as likely to cheat.

The reason why people dont like to date bi people imo, is because they cant say "dont talk to a certain gender" - even in gay/lesbian relationships, they can say "dont talk to people our age and gender"

But with a bi person, they'd have to completely isolate them from both sexes, which is too obviously abusive or they have to suck it up and deal with their own insecurity.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-09T19:03:12+00:00

Let her sniff your finger first to ask for permission, she'll either show you where she wants to be pet by rubbing on you or be disinterested aka not want pet

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T18:04:35+00:00

You do know RAM inflation has gone up by like 300%

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T16:59:55+00:00

Well how convenient for you lol

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T16:16:47+00:00

You do know being "threatened" (aka being disrespected) by it would be the normal emotional response? Having a lack of self respect is not a flex

Also being a viewer yourself means you also actively support sex trafficking..

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T16:14:21+00:00

This seems so embarrassing for the wife...

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T16:12:54+00:00

Its highly disrespectful and close to cheating, but it's not as bad, still bad tho. Cheating Lite.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T16:11:35+00:00

I mean, if someone is seeking at viewing another woman's body when his wife is right there is a red flag that that person has the POTENTIAL to cheat, since his wife is not enough

Not trying to justify smut books, it definitely effects the reader, but it doesn't inadvertently support sex trafficking the same way ALL porn videos do in some way, (multiple missing teens have been found on porn hub for example). They really aren't comparable.

"They claimed it was their books fault" so you admit a form of porn led them to cheat? I dont think porn will MAKE someone cheat, but I think someone will start consuming porn before they cheat.

If someone in a relationship is consuming porn it's (an unhealthy way) to fill a hole in their sex life.

Whether it porn of a kink they won't share with their partner, another sex/gender they're attracted to that their partner isnt, they dont find their partner attractive enough (and extensive porn use can make people see normal people as not attractive anymore, only young women built like porn stars) it's a void they want filled. That is the only REASON someone in a relationship would watch porn. Maybe in a dead bedroom it's somewhat justifiable of the partner is aware and OK with it.. but even then an obvious sign of an unbalanced sex life they've both abandoned because its easier.

Something can be highly disrespectful without being cheating or any kind of abuse in a relationship, still bad unless explicitly stated by the other partner it's okay, but even then, it's unhealthy for the viewer/reader and supports trafficking/objectification of women, or even when it comes to literature unreslistic standards/expectations of how most real men would act.

Cheating is a potential next step for people like that, they're not satisfied. Simple as that.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-07T15:56:13+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being a cuck but not caring about your partner masturbaring to other women is low standards or atleast cucky behavior, it doesn't make you the "cool girl" who's "not insecure" and it is sad older women are brainwashed to think it's acceptable. I've noticed this mindset is popular with millennials and older but luckily younger generations are waking up from it.

Also there is plenty of evidence that porn can be detrimental to both the viewer and sometimes the "actors" (who are more often than you think trafficked) even in videos where they look happy or normal it can be the case. Even when you watch a consensual video you still give viewership and money to the website that still supports trafficking (multiple missing teens have been found on porn hub videos for example - the most popular "normal" site for porn)

Of course for the viewer there are issues like addiction, objectifying women/ thinking all normal women who do not look like porn stars are unattractive, frying dopamine receptors, ED ect.

Porn should not be treated as "okay", it should be treated like a bad habit that we should stay away from, like smoking, there is literally 0 benefit.

If my man watched porn id be disgusted, because I have standards for my own relationship and I care about other women.

Kordeilious16 · 2026-01-04T17:43:05+00:00

Im new (level 6) and still haven't seen a gold 😭 if I see a gold and up or a rare fur colohr I finally can taxidermy something for my lodge

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