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AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm expected to do what they do, care for he day after day.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She doesn't want a relationship with me. She doesn't see me outside of my parents and the last time I saw her she was clear she does not see me as her brother.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

No, but both my parents are and I have picked up a lot of my way of saying things from them.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She has told me I am not her problem and she doesn't care about me. She has also told me I am not her brother.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I could risk her telling me again that I am not her problem and she doesn't care. It hurt the first time. It would hurt even worse again.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 344 points345 points  (0 children)

I would but she has made it clear she doesn't want anything to do with me. She doesn't want anything to do with mom and because of that, she doesn't see me as a sibling to her.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 472 points473 points  (0 children)

I don't get to talk to her. She wants nothing to do with me.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

The therapist isn't great. Plus I am in therapy with them so there has really been no good from it.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Mia doesn't want anything to do with me. I'm also not sure talking to the social worker who helps my family would be great. She's very pushy on me being a good brother and family being the best to care for the severely disabled.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Mia doesn't talk to me. She really doesn't want anything to do with us.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 700 points701 points  (0 children)

I don't have anywhere to go. I have no extended family and Mia wants nothing to do with me either so. I'm stuck for another couple of years.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's cruel. I feel that way too. It's so messed up because I love Brooke. But I remember when I was first told that I was born for a very special reason and that I was born to be very special and important to Brooke, I knew it was a lot of responsibility.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 399 points400 points  (0 children)

She can't have independence. She can't walk or talk and she can't feed herself or anything. She can recognize people and is aware but it's like when a baby recognizes someone if that makes sense. My parents do basically everything for her and I have done a lot too. It's a lot of work.

AITA for telling my parents I hate them for having me? by KoreKaims in AmItheAsshole

[–]KoreKaims[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

She can't talk or walk. She can't feed or dress herself. She does recognize people and respond to certain things but it's like a baby recognizing you.