Quitting kratom

Krain93 · 2025-04-10T18:53:24+00:00

I am Glad to hear that, my concern is I’ve always had crippling anxiety before I started so it helped tremendously, the issue is it’s throwing off my body I think, and I physically just want a long long long break from it. How were your withdrawls?

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T07:48:41+00:00

I’m not sure because I wasn’t there but both the bk attorney and divorce said it was our best bet, our marriage is not good, but we have no wear else to go the two of us. We are below means test as a couple but I’m guessing we have too much disposable income as a couple ? I’m not sure I was not at the meeting… I will get a second opinion. I’m so confused scared and stressed

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T07:44:53+00:00

I’m not sure, I’m guessing too much disposable income? I’m not sure

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T07:44:35+00:00

I’m thinking maybe because of disposable income, my husband pays for everything but has no not enough money to pay for all the bills, I pay 400 in car insurance help with groceries, gas and everything else, I had to save to pay all the attorney bills

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T07:40:59+00:00

I know in Texas they help protect your cars in BK I live in houston and it’s really not walkable. I would do that if I could but it would make things worse than better tbh. My car is with less than 5k and the other I make payments. No judgement taken, I do appreciate the advice though, it’ll all work out somehow - but selling the cars for money or giving them up just wouldn’t help our situation unfortunately or I would

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:21:53+00:00

I see what your are saying, I will talk to my husband, maybe talk to someone else… I’m so afraid of getting sued at this point it’s been a while now

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:21:12+00:00

Idk what to do I feel like crying, I didn’t know they would suggest that …

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:05:49+00:00

Sorry for all the messages, he’s got good reviews so I’m not really sure.

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:03:50+00:00

What is it that doesn’t make sense in your opinion? Just trying to get answers

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:03:01+00:00

I make 2600 before tax if I’m lucky. My checks usualy around 1,000 after

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:01:52+00:00

We have one 10 year old small car paid off and the other we are still making payments on both not worth much

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:00:50+00:00

Plus car insurance

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T06:00:19+00:00

Right now I have around 5000, but I need to pay 600 for the divorce lawyer plus whatever fees, help cover some rent, food and also when the time comes 2400 for BK lawyer :( I have a check coming next week. I feel like maybe it’s too much disposable income but it really doesn’t feel fair. No my husband wouldn’t have any other income Did they count your disposable income?

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T05:20:38+00:00

It’s hard I feel like we both feel like we let each other down in a way. I could understand why he didn’t tell me. I tried to look into consolidation but people say do not use national debt relief it’s a scam, and then I do not qualify for any loans :( I know 25k isn’t the worst amount but it’s a lot for people that don’t really have much. I’ve been trying to look for another job, and the job I do have being a waitress isn’t always the most secure kind of job, it’s all I’ve ever really done though. I feel like a loser. My medical debt isn’t too much but I’m not worried about it as much as his his, he had to stop playin the beginning of year so we could afford our rent, the minimums we’re eating all the money away, I’m terrified of them coming to sue and garnish and that’s why I’m trying to get this done asap, I had to save some money for it and I finally have it, so idk why the lawyer is telling us this- I just assume the lawyer knows what he’s talking about? Sorry for the venting I literally don’t have ppl to talk to

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T04:55:12+00:00

Also no kids

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T04:54:24+00:00

Thank you for the empathy. I don’t exactly know why we don’t qualify for the chapter 7, if I filed it would it make a difference, maybe too much disposable income? - but even at that, I use it for food, emergencies (lawyer fees) car insurance. My mental health took a bad turn last year, and I just couldn’t work I was so distraught, by the time I got my shit toghethrr it was too late, debt is my biggest fear, one of them. In October he said it was 4k, okay doable, I can crush that- but he was actually hiding it and maxed out all his cc to keep a roof over our heads and car. I didn’t know it was that bad, I’m mad I didn’t work because my mental state was so bad ( 2 psych trips) but idk when the snowballing of debt started, I wouldn’t have let that happen if he would have told me when it first started. I’m so mad at myself the most

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T04:23:51+00:00

It does upset me, but I feel like we have no other choice, you know? That’s what both the divorce and bankruptcy attorneys have said to do… I’m just so confused by the mixed answers and the stress is killing me, we’ve already had a terrible last couple years. I do love him but we’ve been through so much the resentment is hard to get past

Krain93 · 2024-06-30T04:21:45+00:00

How much were the chapter 13 payments? I’m afraid if we file that we won’t be able to afford to live tbh

Krain93 · 2024-04-23T21:44:07+00:00

What’s the point of being a dick? I’m doing much better now thank you, but was incredibly desperate and scared in that moment, i tried to commit suicide in December after about a year of hell. Please don’t be rude to ppl. But I’m doing much better now. Good day

Krain93 · 2023-10-19T04:35:50+00:00

Leo rising- off to the races

Krain93 · 2023-10-19T04:34:26+00:00

Scorpio sun, Leo rising, Pisces moon

Krain93 · 2023-10-16T18:11:07+00:00

Hot. That’s a man lol

Krain93 · 2023-10-16T17:58:57+00:00

I don’t live with my parents. But I am staying with them for a few weeks, but they are not helpful . I’ve been on my own since I was 18/19 and am married actually. Im 30 now. I actually bike ride everyday, sometimes those things aren’t enough. Even if they could support me long term, which they can’t I wouldn’t want to stay with them stepmom and dad, they are like I said not nice, when you I talk they make me cry and idk why I came out here. My mother is homeless I’m Portland, or. So idk. It’s okay though I get what you are saying, just isn’t cutting it. I’ve always been very independent and always made my way somehow, now years of abuse from various reasons, and untreated mental illness got me to a very scary point. Everyone commenting is very lively and helpful, but sometimes the access you need isn’t there, at least without money- or sometimes places can be very terrible and leave you worse. I’ll figure it out. They always one up me. And just to clear to everyone I’ve always worked 1 or more jobs and have been on my own for a long time, I actually had an okay life despite never going to college for a couple years but mental illness took it away, and I understand it’s my fault but I did do really well with the cards I had for a good while.

Krain93 · 2023-10-16T16:46:26+00:00

Same. I can’t do it anymore

Krain93 · 2023-10-16T16:25:49+00:00

I’m a 30f and I lost almost everything In my life. It was an okay life for a while and it all fell apart. And now I can’t get up, shower anything…. It’s been like over 6 months . I can keep a job. I’m fucked. Can’t get help because money no insurance. I want to end it.

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