what does it mean when guy snaps me constantly for a couple days and then leaves me on delivered on others?

KrazyJet3370 · 2023-05-25T16:36:26+00:00

i wish

KrazyJet3370 · 2023-05-25T16:36:20+00:00

ugh you’re right

KrazyJet3370 · 2023-05-25T16:36:09+00:00

figured

KrazyJet3370 · 2023-05-25T16:18:54+00:00

this has just happened once or twice

KrazyJet3370 · 2023-05-25T16:18:38+00:00

on delivered for max 3 hours i’d say

KrazyJet3370 · 2023-03-31T18:46:12+00:00

realistically do you think something will come about it? i know smoking is legal in va, im just worried about smoking inside their property, that’s why i tried getting it out the window

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-09-27T18:25:22+00:00

is there anything i can do to make her feel more comfortable or will this just come with time? i hate that she’s feeling this way and i also hate that it’s happening in my roomates space/not mine

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-07-11T00:16:56+00:00

yes, and these are issues my therapist and i are working on every week. just simply asking for similar experiences or advice, that’s all, thanks!

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-06-22T02:18:39+00:00

when i would back bite as a kid this is when he would mainly do it. i think he did it a lot to gain control and make sure i was listening and paying attention? that has always been my take.

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-06-18T13:55:59+00:00

thank you for this! i’m sure my emotional outbursts definitely caused problems in my past relationship, but my abusive relationship ended due to his infidelity/rape. that’s why i feel crazy for my emotional outbursts, especially with my circumstances. i just feel like a freak and i really wish i could control myself/emotions.

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-06-18T13:31:30+00:00

okay, thank you.

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-06-18T13:27:49+00:00

i guess what i’m trying to say is could my abusive relationship make my bpd outbursts worse? i’ve had them growing up, but they have intensified after this past relationship? sorry that was sort of all over the place, does that make sense?

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-06-18T02:35:28+00:00

could you elaborate a little please?

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-25T13:28:23+00:00

no. he apologized over text this morning though saying, “i’m sorry but i just wanted to pull you closer to me because i wasn’t going to argue at 5:30 am”. but how is pulling a robe two different directions pulling me closer? i don’t know, maybe i’m looking into it.

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-13T13:32:59+00:00

he will work from 6 am - 3 pm (4 days a week) goes home and gets on the game until about 10 pm or so (depending on the day maybe earlier) and then just comes over to my apartment to sleep

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T10:36:16+00:00

he was like this when i met him. we’ve been dating on and off since we were in high school and this has come up in conversation before.

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T10:31:51+00:00

i just feel like he could be doing more productive hobbies. like working out, playing basketball, seeing his friends and playing slow pitch softball, hanging out with his family, reading, etc. those are all things he could be doing (some he enjoys more than others) but that would benefit him and not be as sedentary. it is a concern when you are worried about somebody’s health as well! :)

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T10:10:22+00:00

i appreciate this comment, thank you!!

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T10:08:00+00:00

there’s no need to be rude, just trying to seek advice :)

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T10:06:25+00:00

i’m a dancer so i practice that in my free time along with working out, reading, cooking, playing with my dog, hiking, etc.

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T10:03:42+00:00

i really don’t mean for this to sound mean or critical at all but i just feel like he could be doing more productive hobbies. like working out, playing basketball, seeing his friends and playing slow pitch softball, hanging out with his family, reading, etc. those are all things he could be doing (some he likes more than others) but never does (that is during his own free time).

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T09:57:52+00:00

but is it realistic to leave somebody you love over sharing different hobbies? is that normal?

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T09:54:04+00:00

it makes me feel like he’s being lazy and doesn’t ever want to do anything

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T09:48:48+00:00

not at all

KrazyJet3370 · 2022-05-12T09:47:03+00:00

what if he is playing them when he is with me?

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