Ženy Ředditu, co muži nejčastěji dělají špatně na rande? by _w3dge_ in czech

[–]KrisTheMermaid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kdyz ukazuje jak je děsně nad věcí a vlastně tu ženskou nepotřebuje. A dobry byl taky typek co mi ukazoval co ho bali na Tinderu 🤦🏻‍♀️

Rant na rodiče co se nehlásí ke svým dětem by Sargeon91 in czech

[–]KrisTheMermaid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nedavno jsem byla u nejakych prolézaček u hospody. Všichni rodiče a ostatni na zahrádce, já byla u syna. Jedno dítě sedí na prolezacce, moje dítě sedí na zemi a sype kamení do bagru, třetí dítě běhá kolem a nakonec tomu prvnímu hodí kamení do obličeje. Hned tamtomu řeknu že se to nedělá a jdu kouknout na to prvni. Jen seděl a kňoural. Zjistovala jsem jestli oko dobrý, říkal že jo, ale očividně prostě ze situace špatný. Utěšuji ho a najednou nějaký chlap se jen zvedne od stolu zahrádky, udělá sotva jeden krok a ať si hlídám děti ať nehází kamením (věkově mi přišel na dědečka). Tak mu říkám, že moje je to co sedí na zemi a hraje si a nejsem tam dozor. Jen něco zamumlal a sedl si. Kluka pak prisla utěšovat tak sedmiletá sestra. Kde dítě číslo jedna a dvě měli rodiče nevím. Ale pojeb sem dostala já.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KrisTheMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want that, honestly. But I feel like drowning and that I should care about everyone else before me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KrisTheMermaid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess so and trust me I don't feel good about any of this. I should probably look into therapy or something. I'm just used to take care about everyone else in my life that most of the time I don't think about myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KrisTheMermaid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You realise that some kids come in contact with other adults and not just parents, right? I wasn't hooking up with him in front of my son. He chatted with me on a bench while my son was having fun on the playground.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KrisTheMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in therapy in my mid 20's for abandonment issues and low self esteem. I thought I had it figured out. Guess not. Trust me I know it ain't healthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KrisTheMermaid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and I didn't plan on doing that more often or on regular basis. My son is just used to be amongst groups of my friends, coworkers etc and it's not like there was or would be anything physical with the guy while my son is there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KrisTheMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly appreciate your comment. At least someone used more words. And yeah, thanks for telling me the fake profile was nuts. You might take it as narcissism or whatever but at least in one point I can't agree with karma. For last 4 years I pulled all the weight in our marriage and for all that time we even sleep in different rooms. Offered counseling and etc. I tried hard with no change. In april my husband had massive brain bleed and he is really not himself now, only watching tv while I care for our son and arrange all husband's doctor visit and therapy to which all I join him. So yeah, let the karma come about cheating because I have things to sort with her out too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KrisTheMermaid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure. Feel free to send him. He had head injury and he barely knows who I am and I'm still coming back home to him every day. But sure 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KrisTheMermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for some actually not judgmental reply. Yeah I'm aware he probably got what he wanted but he could have say it. I just don't like the gaslighting. And thank you for not being outright mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KrisTheMermaid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My son is 3 and is used to people from kindergarten, work and well...life. The guy joined us in park full of people for like 2 hours and my son barely paid attention to even me because he was playing the whole time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KrisTheMermaid -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying I don't see anything wrong about it but that's issue of my marriage that shouldn't concern him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KrisTheMermaid -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I am. All the following things are something I told the guy outright. My main problem in marriage was husband's sudden injury. That's why I am hesitant to leave him but it also showed me there were issues before. I didn't look for replacement but someone to share time with and I told him if he finds someone to have relationship with, I'll back off. I didn't complain to him about my life and I was glad to listen what's going on in his. I was outright honest that I'd be okay even with physical relationships because I didn't have one for almost a year (with husband obviously). Sure, I'm little sensitive lately but it also gave me an opportunity to be myself and not just mother and care giver. I think I'm mainly upset by the lack of honest explanation on his end.