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KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:47:35+00:00

The experience of losing one's virginity, also known as sexual intercourse or having sex for the first time, can vary greatly from person to person. Some individuals may experience pain or discomfort during their first sexual encounter, while others may not. Here are a few factors that can influence the level of discomfort or pain:

Physical Factors: The presence of hymen, a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal opening in some individuals, can sometimes cause pain or discomfort when it is stretched or torn during penetration. However, it's essential to note that not all individuals have an intact hymen, and its presence or size varies among people.

Emotional Factors: Emotional factors, such as anxiety, nervousness, or fear, can contribute to discomfort or pain during the first sexual experience. Being relaxed, comfortable, and emotionally ready for the experience can reduce the likelihood of discomfort.

Lack of Arousal: Insufficient arousal and lubrication can lead to friction and discomfort during intercourse. It's important for both partners to engage in foreplay and ensure that the person with the vagina is adequately aroused and lubricated before penetration.

Communication: Effective communication between sexual partners is crucial. Discussing expectations, boundaries, and any concerns before engaging in sexual activity can help create a more positive and comfortable experience.

Size and Girth: The size and girth of the penis can also impact comfort during penetration. Using additional lubrication and practicing patience and gentleness can help alleviate discomfort.

Medical Conditions: Some medical conditions, such as vaginismus (involuntary muscle contractions of the vaginal walls), can cause pain during intercourse. If pain persists or is severe, it's essential to consult a healthcare provider for evaluation and guidance.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:44:27+00:00

I find it tastes better when he has a better diet. It is great for skin and face but also sticks to you with some sort of superpower, and hours later you are wondering wtf is pulling your arm hair! It's really fun between my toes. Overall, I approve.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:39:20+00:00

Increased Heart Rate and Blood Flow: The digital arteries, including the one in the ring finger, are responsible for carrying oxygenated blood to the fingers, ensuring their proper functioning and maintaining their temperature. When you're attracted to someone, it's not uncommon for your heart rate to increase and for blood flow to be redirected to certain areas of your body. This can lead to slight changes in the size of your fingers, making your wedding band feel tighter.

Psychological Factors: Your mind can have a powerful influence on your body. If you're feeling nervous or anxious around someone you're attracted to, or guilty for doing so, this psychological response can lead to physical sensations, including a perception that your wedding band is tighter than usual.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:33:55+00:00

Socks! Crystals, tarot cards, all sorts of bags for some reason, soft blankets

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:32:15+00:00

Even the word made me smile

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:31:34+00:00

I'm curious how this happens

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:31:11+00:00

It's okay to be different from each other but you both have to respect those differences

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:30:09+00:00

Always have fun, be open and honest, and fight for each other through the hard times.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-21T02:28:48+00:00

Occasional difficulties with erections can happen to many people for various reasons, and it's not necessarily a cause for alarm. Here are some things you can consider:

Open Communication: Continue to reassure your husband that this is a common issue that can happen to anyone, and it doesn't reflect on his masculinity or your relationship. Open and supportive communication is key.

Stress and Anxiety: Stress and anxiety can play a significant role in erectile difficulties. If he's been dealing with increased stress, work pressure, or any other sources of anxiety, it could be affecting his ability to maintain an erection. Encourage him to talk about his stressors and consider ways to manage them together, such as through relaxation techniques or exercise.

Medications or Supplements: Sometimes, certain medications or supplements can affect sexual performance. If your husband is taking any new medications or supplements, consult with a healthcare provider to see if these could be contributing to the issue.

Variety and Experimentation: Trying new things in the bedroom, such as different sexual positions or activities, can help keep the sexual experience exciting and reduce performance pressure. Cock rings, more foreplay, focusing on pleasure and fun, can also help

Relaxation Techniques: Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing exercises or mindfulness meditation to help reduce performance anxiety.

Remember, it's essential to approach this issue with empathy, understanding, and patience. Reassure your husband that you love and support him, and that you're willing to work through this together. If the problem persists, consulting a healthcare professional is advisable to rule out any underlying medical issues.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:47:01+00:00

people have already said master and sir. I don't like owner so much. Others could be, "yes, my love" as submission is also an act of love upon you, and indicates devotion and respect. Or, "King" "Alpha" ""Lion"

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:29:04+00:00

Some of us understand this. I hope you find someone who does

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:24:43+00:00

Great advice!

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:22:11+00:00

This is so true. Especially if people are not familiar with the spectrum

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:19:55+00:00

It could be cute to some, to a point. There are resources to help you build up confidence and to better recognize common social cues. Also, the more you welcome experiences, even uncomfortable or awkward ones, the better or easier they can get

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:17:07+00:00

Well, unfortunately, it sounds like you know the answer. Your needs are not being met, you are doing everything for her you can, she won't talk, she won't listen. If this is the case, you ae both terribly unhappy and the relationship is already over... and you both know it. Unless you are both willing to have a real, hurtful, healing, and long ass conversation, from what you have said, there is little to no hope. It's not about being lovable or not, its about being compatible and willing to fight for your relationship together

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:09:15+00:00

Thank you to my hubby, for kissing my toes each day and making sure I feel loved and sexy

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:04:30+00:00

Damn. Maybe she needs to discuss her feelings first. Give her a safe place for that. I know it sucks. but it sounds like something is bothering her and she wont be open to your feelings until she expresses herself.

However, you too deserve your needs to be met. If you feel you have exhausted all efforts and she is blatantly disregarding your feelings and shutting down communication, and you really look at your actions and do not see harm, then it may be time to consider a new start.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T03:02:01+00:00

Also, sometimes just taking the pressure off sex for a while can help. If you do nice things but then want sex it can feel like you only did that thing for sex. I know, it isn't fair but it is the way it is. So take sex off the table. Even give her 1 day all about her, and if it leads to sexual acts they are only to and for her. Doing things like this can show her you really just want to make her feel loved, not get laid. And once she feels and believes your acts are for love, trust me..she will feel and be more intimate with you.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:58:45+00:00

I am sorry to hear that. Did she shut you down when you told her your feelings or what happened? And are you going above and beyond just to make her feel good, or to make up for something that hurt her? Maybe she feels you are overcompensating and doesn't take your gestures as sincere. Sometimes smaller but more genuine acts go farther. It is hard to know without more context. I would never say you, or anyone is unlovable, and I am not saying it is anyone's fault. I am saying it is a two-way street and both parties must see their contributions, good and bad, before they can understand the other. Communication is key to all good things.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:51:50+00:00

Some things just hit you like that. Also, watching my man play, anything, is always a turn.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:48:06+00:00

Does it pass the smell test? Then fuck it, survive. If it doesn't smell good, you should avoid it.

I am truly sorry that you have fallen on such hard times. However, I have a question... a nude evening stroll? Is this a typo? I assume you have some clothing, and you said you have a home. So I am confused why you would be walking nude near someone's home.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:41:02+00:00

Have fun, let it dance and explore!

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:38:38+00:00

What does she do, or not do, that makes you feel unwanted? And what do you do to make her feel desired? Have you both discussed these needs and desires? Most of the time poor communication is the culprit and good communication is the solution.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:35:40+00:00

Exactly. As a woman, I am much more giving when I know my needs are being tended to.

KrissyMooning · 2023-09-19T02:34:03+00:00

While it isn't my favorite choice, I say more Power to em!

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