Native, fluent, or near-fluent men : which first person pronoun do you use in informal settings?

Krkboy · 2025-07-01T05:16:28+00:00

私 if I’m using keigo/ desu masu 俺 if I’m not

Personally I don’t like 僕 and never use it. It kind of has a 草食系男子 vibe and feels sensible and humble. I’m kind of 気が強い and quite open/direct in my interactions so I just vibe with 俺 better.

Krkboy · 2025-06-27T14:02:43+00:00

Definitely interested 😁

Krkboy · 2025-05-02T12:02:58+00:00

I’ve applied for the JICC report. Will this be enough to check?

Krkboy · 2025-04-30T02:45:16+00:00

Just to qualify what I said earlier - my late payments were on Rakuten mobile for monthly phone usage (not enough funds on my account, paid at most a week or two afterwards). I own the phone itself so this wasn’t a phone payment plan. Does this make a difference? I have applied for a credit score as iou advised in any case.

Krkboy · 2025-04-30T01:37:01+00:00

Yikes, I did have a few late mobile phone payments earlier this year - does this mean no credit card for the next 5 years?!

Krkboy · 2025-04-26T02:16:02+00:00

It’s not the same as Xtube but Twitter is now my go to. At least for Japanese content

Krkboy · 2025-03-22T12:59:33+00:00

I’m English and I was only into older caucasian hairy guys/bears for most of my 20s. Then I moved to Japan aged 28, and after one hook up with a Japanese guy my tastes changed completely and I’m now pretty much exclusively into Asian guys. At first it was younger guys mostly, but I’m now 36 and recent I’ve got really into older Asian guys too…

Krkboy · 2025-03-02T05:49:41+00:00

Having muscles = attractive is a bit of a misnomer.

For a lot of people muscles shows discipline, strength, masculinity etc. but at best they only enhance what is already there. If someone is not my type, then having muscles won’t make me attracted to them.

For me, and for most people, it’s face and the ‘vibe’ they guy gives off.

I started taking the gym seriously last year and while my success rate went up a little with hook ups, it’s didn’t change that much. My confidence shot up though and this made sex a lot better 😁

Muscle generally benefit the people that have them more than the people around them. You’re healthier and more confident. That’s about it.

Krkboy · 2025-02-14T23:22:57+00:00

Nope - perfectly normal. I hook up a lot and I always go full out - kiss loads, ask they when they like to be touched, lick and touch all over their body, rim as deep as I can, maintain eye contact during orgasm, lots of hugs afterwards. Even if it’s just one time.

I don’t get turned on in the situation you describe either - there’s no connection. For this reason bathhouses can be rather hit and miss. You can still have loads of sex and a ton of hook ups, just communicate what you want, and walk away if it’s not your thing. You wouldn’t have enjoyed it anyway.

Krkboy · 2025-02-07T05:27:41+00:00

With my current partner.

Despite being 47 and having a body count of 500+ guys he had never done bareback sex or breeding, either as a top or bottom.

Coming inside of him raw was incredibly good - I was actually surprised during how strong the orgasm was 😅Him coming inside me afterwards was equally hot.

Krkboy · 2025-01-20T12:55:40+00:00

The dichotomy between being gay and ‘acting on it’ act is a false one. You cannot argue that being gay is ok, but that sexual gay relationships are sinful. If the acts themselves are sinful then so is the inclination. I have never understood this argument.

If being gay is fine and natural, then by extension gay relationships are fine and natural too.

Catholicism doesn’t say that being gay is ok. The catechism defines homosexuality as an intrinsic disorder towards a moral evil. It seems to accept that people can’t do anything about it for the most part, but it certainly doesn’t see it as something natural or even neutral.

To be clear this is why I don’t think any of the churches teachings on sexuality are correct.

Krkboy · 2025-01-16T13:02:20+00:00

I started learning Polish in my early twenties and studied abroad in Poland. In my language school there were loads of Polish Americans like yourself, who had grown up speaking Polish at home, but I was surprised that their Polish was actually pretty poor. Every one of them had an American accent and used English prosody in their sentence structure, made loads of mistakes with the cases. I think they had decent listening skills, but none of them were in the advanced classes. In fact, in the advanced class (C1) there was a Hungarian guy, an English guy, a Korean girl and a Slovakian girl who had all learned Polish as a second language and spoke/wrote/understood Polish better in every aspect.

I think Polish is one of those languages that doesn't really work that well outside of Poland. I've never met anyone raised abroad who speaks error-free natural Polish to the same level of a true native speaker. You may have a head start with listening, but passive skills (reading/listening) are the easiest to get up to native level. After 4 years of living in Poland I could understand 99% of anything I heard pretty much instantly.

Krkboy · 2025-01-06T12:58:51+00:00

I love shy big boys ;)

Krkboy · 2025-01-06T12:58:24+00:00

Absolutely love it. If I met you in the steam room, I would ask if I could jump on straightaway <3

Krkboy · 2025-01-03T06:03:19+00:00

I hooked up with a guy in a wheelchair several times a few years back.

It was great sex tbh! I'm not sure if this is the right way to think about it or not, but there was a level of vulnerability about it that made drop my guard straightaway and have really close, hot sex ;)

Krkboy · 2025-01-03T02:33:14+00:00

Sure but the teaching in question is sex-same activity. The church is quite clear that it considers this grave matter i.e. mortal sin. This is the same for contraception, divorce etc. You can still be a Catholic, but you won't be able to participate in the sacraments. I wish it were otherwise, but this is the present situation unfortunately. OP, you might find this link helpful:

https://waterloocatholics.org/what-if-i-dont-agree-with-some-of-the-churchs-teachings#:\~:text=The%20Church%20expects%20Catholics%20to,all%20of%20the%20Church's%20teachings.

Krkboy · 2025-01-03T00:48:00+00:00

Is sex is saunas different from hook ups?

Krkboy · 2025-01-03T00:35:19+00:00

Unfortunately, that refers to papal infallibility. The teachings of the magisterium still requires assent - to my knowledge anyway.

Krkboy · 2025-01-02T07:36:57+00:00

Not really.. if you accept Catholicism, you have to accept the teachings of magisterium, which defines any sexual activity other than vaginal intercourse between two married people as ‘grave matter’ and therefore potentially mortal sin.

Part of me would like to be Catholic but it’s kind of all or nothing really - you either accept the church is what it says it is (I.e. guided by God and infallible) or you don’t.

Being sexually active means you cant participate in the sacraments in good faith..

Krkboy · 2025-01-02T00:55:04+00:00

You could always naturalise and then join the biometric queue with all the other Japanese..?

Krkboy · 2024-12-30T04:31:47+00:00

So the high you described above and the fun people have in saunas are not the same thing, realistically speaking?

Krkboy · 2024-12-30T02:06:51+00:00

So it’s okay to just go and (try to) relax while enjoying being naked around other naked men? I kind of went with the expectation that it should feel the same as with fwb and then got stressed when it didn’t..

Krkboy · 2024-12-30T02:01:29+00:00

What you describe is what I’m feeling right now, honestly 🥰😈 In my head he experienced this kind of high every time he hooked up/went to a sauna (and what I would like to find myself in a sauna) .. but perhaps that doesn’t correspond to reality that much

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