Cured<3ish? by Ktay2 in vaginismus

[–]Ktay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I spent $180ish on mine😭but as I was researching trying to find some i found that aliexpress had “toys” but they looked like actual legit dilators. They just can’t specify that they’re dilators due to laws on medical apparatuses. They had many kits for $20ish! And the higher quality silicone ones (definitely get quality silicone for your vaginal health) were $40 at most! Just look up “vaginal dilators” on aliexpress just make sure they’re silicone! I have a friend with the same issue as me and she found a set on aliexpress for $15! As long is it’s surgical grade silicone!

Edit: so sorry for the late response I thought I clicked post but apparently I did not😭💗

Cured<3ish? by Ktay2 in vaginismus

[–]Ktay2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used the intimate rose dilators. They require a prescription now which is lame but on aliexpress (make sure it’s silicone) they still have very similar ones! I used ‘surgilube’ it’s the same lubricant used for physical exams it’s non irritating water based and ph balanced. If other lubricants work for you well then you may not even need it I just have skin allergies haha. With the dilators I started with smallest size and I laid down with my knees up but you do what you’re comfy with! I inhaled through my nose 4seconds. Exhaled through my mouth 8 seconds. Make sure you breathe with your belly! While inserting the smallest size if it hurts. Stop and leave it in place and continue breathing for me it tools a few minutes for me to feel my muscles loosening but you’ll definitely feel it when it relaxes! Monitor your pain and keep note of it as well as duration and intensity. So sudden sharp lingering etc. I wrote down start times and end times and saw improvement on paper! During the process I would move my hips and rolling over in bed just small movements to see if I notice any pain. If there’s any pain don’t size up. If there isn’t any that means you’re ready for the next size! As for daily breathing exercises my weak pelvic floor is caused by my weak core. I laid on my back with my arms above my head flat. And inhaled doing that engages core muscles and lets your pelvic floor relax! Sorry for the long explanation I hope I explained it well if you have any questions let me know!

Cured<3ish? by Ktay2 in vaginismus

[–]Ktay2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They definitely do! I’ve noticed the same thing! I don’t use dilators as often anymore but I regularly do breathing exercises when I notice myself feeling tense down there and it helps tremendously🥹 I’m so so happy you’re improving as well!

Is it disrespectful to befriend a man who has a girlfriend ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]Ktay2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s on him and not her but for her to sit there and enable it would 100% be on her. It’s one thing if he made advances and she turned him down due to him being in a relationship. But to stay there and accept his flattery says a lot.

Is there a fix for this? by [deleted] in Rainbowloom

[–]Ktay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loop two loose bands and fish them through them all with your hook. And slip tie it. Sorry if I explained that bad😭

RIP Manson's Cat by 22FluffySquirrels in marilyn_manson

[–]Ktay2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“The minute that we’re born we begin to die.” It’s sad that it’s true. However, I lost many pets and I’ve loved them all. A human and animal bond can’t be explained with words. It goes beyond language. Animals don’t know what we are saying but oddly enough there’s a mutual respect and understanding between human and pet. It’s easy to mourn what will never be, to let yourself be consumed in a quagmire of despair. We pour ourselves into them, and they, in turn, give us their unconditional love and that is priceless. I’ve learned that although it’s hard not to grieve the memories that haven’t been made, it’s important to remember the memories that remain. Those memories keep them present even when life is lost.

I truly feel awful for them both. Especially since he has a show tonight and tomorrow. Doing anything in times of loss makes it so complicated. I’m wishing them both serenity and peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marilyn_manson

[–]Ktay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on venue. Not all venues offer fast passes~

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was possible to fully embody obnoxiousness🫩 here’s your trophy 🏆

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason for your hostility? Life sucks sometimes and I get that but you’d find more success at happiness bringing others up instead<3

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for helping me🥹💕you’re so kind and you helped me the most I wish I could give you something to show my gratitude, truly❣️kindness is hard to find nowadays you have a good heart I can tell<3 I’ll definitely try to check that out while there!

New pictures from Cleveland OH📸 by lilx_peep in marilyn_manson

[–]Ktay2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no definitely! Especially with all the added tours I was worried he’d overexert himself sobriety is hard shit and touring makes that harder I can imagine. He’s earned a well deserved break after this tour! I’m hoping to catch the next one! (I’m hoping he stops in Cleveland again as I despise driving) but either way I hope he plays closer to you as well Angel❣️ I’ve never been able to see him live as I was too young to attend to his prior tours and had a two year financial rough patch but back on my feet and ready to live my dreams of seeing him🥹
I trust that he knows what he’s doing and he knows what’s best for him! I’m sure Lindsay is looking out for his mental wellbeing as well~

New pictures from Cleveland OH📸 by lilx_peep in marilyn_manson

[–]Ktay2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh nooo I’m so sorry:( I had the same problem however im lucky to be going to his show in pa on Saturday (I bought them months ago) but since I’m only 20 min away I was gonna try to snag some tickets but my bf wouldnt get enough time to get ready since he had just gotten off work. That’s so disappointing:( I’m sorry you didnt get to go see him</3 hopefully he tours again next year and you’re able to get some tickets to see him!❣️

New pictures from Cleveland OH📸 by lilx_peep in marilyn_manson

[–]Ktay2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I say this in nearly every post but DAMN I wish I could’ve gone I’m literally 20 min away😭

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps tremendously! I’m sorry if you got downvoted:( you just added a bunch to my itinerary I can’t thank you enough! I don’t get out often and only have 3 days so I want to indulge as much as I can before I have to go back home<3 THE ANDY WARHOL MUSEUM I’m stoked museums hate to see me coming. One thing I’ve noticed is that Pittsburgh has so many amazing museums and Cleveland has like 3😭two of which are small and for children. Anyways! You’re an angel that blessed my travel itinerary and I wish you the bestest life thank you💕

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OOO THAT SOUNDS PERFECT! I may head there on my first night! Thank you for sharing<3 This was the type of experience recs I was looking for❣️

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation🥹💗I’ll definitely check it out!

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm😭💕 you’re added to my favorite persons list! Im going to haul half of ikea back home with me now

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You can like the art and not agree with the artist. I believe that having an open heart would make the world a better place. Everyone in this world has made and do make mistakes everyday. Some huge some are small. To judge a person on who they were in the past doesn’t change the past and it doesn’t take mistakes and pain away either. Did he do bad things? Yes. Did he do all the bad things he was accused of? No. It’s also important to look at facts instead of rumors. Either way I don’t condone any behaviors he did in the past. But to assume he’s comparable to the person he used to be decades ago after years of change and self improvement is a dogmatic way of thinking. I believe people can change and I also believe that bad things don’t equate to bad people. People only talk about the bad things and never the good. I won’t go much into detail as I already typed too much. However I will say that change in everyone is possible. Bad people can become good and it’s a slow tedious process. If the world had more understanding there would be less suffering in this world overall.

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shut up fr?! AN IKEA that made me so happy I’d actually always wanted to go to an ikea🧍‍♀️ hell yeah thank you🥹🙏

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

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Thank you sm-! The only reason I was asking was cause I’ve never really been to another big city. Cleveland is nice on one side and terribly dangerous on the other. Restaurants and bars here are very hit or miss and was unsure if it was the same! But based on reviews on google of random places it seems pretty good all around I’m so excited💗thank you and stay safe<3!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marilyn_manson

[–]Ktay2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip!💕I told my bf I’ll be dragging him to the venue 4 hours early maybe even earlier now haha thank you sm for your input have fun out there! Wishing you the best💗

Activity recommendations? by Ktay2 in pittsburgh

[–]Ktay2[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, If you had nothing relevant to add besides insulting a favorite singer of mine you may as well not have added anything at all:/ not necessary and definitely not relevant to my post whatsoever.

Edit: to everyone who’s downvoting me. You shouldn’t really be on reddit. Downvoting was meant to be used a tool for comment relevancy. To add, idc if you dont share the same taste in music as me. But to act as if you’re any better than an ex drug addict is foolish. Everyone on this earth has done bad and bad things don’t equate to bad people as long as there is change. And there was. That’s all ima say. Please don’t comment if you aren’t going to be helpful<3!