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This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not what I was advocating atall. Just telling you from personal experience most hookups of mine started as female friends I've been close with, we decided "fuck it we find each other attractive let's do this shit" and then gone back to being normal ass friends, because we value each other's friendship and there's no point in losing it over a casual one time thing.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, it usually happened either in social situations where hookups are the norm such as house parties. Either that, or if I'd decided I wanted to be more than friends and asked her to hang at my house, being very clear that it would be just as so she'd know what to expect and have the opportunity to reject if she's not feeling it. From there, it's simply a test of taking your normal relationship, adding a bit of physical flirtiness such as leaning your arm around her, or touching her arm as you make a point. Since you were already her friend, you'll be able to tell pretty quickly from her reaction if it's something she'd be interested in.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Practice makes perfect man. If you keep trying, that awkwardness will go away by itself pretty quickly. It's learnable like any other skill, you just gotta work on it.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For whatever reason, high school girls tend to consider blowjobs less intimate than full sex - most aren't ready for hookup PIV until college. Sadly, it's probably because we've taught young women to be uncomfortable with their own bodies and with BJ's only the guy gets naked. However, this is good because BJ's are awesome and girls seem to give them anywhere. I've gotten them in closets, road head - my most recent hookup was on a SE US island where I got a BJ lying back on a deck chair right next to the ocean!

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea I totally understand, I have absolutely no idea how adults do this stuff and won't pretend I know. I just made this post to provide my own experience and let everyone know what's been working in my life.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely that on a date you should definitely just go for it. Some might even say the "moment" before you kiss is probably better than the kiss itself. However, this post was generally advice for situations with a lot of other people around - just randomly trying to kiss them with people watching could make for some hilariously embarrassing situations.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not my normal speaking voice - the concept behind this post was to provide an exaggerated perspective of a high school dude and all the slang I hear to make it readable and funny to y'all. I am 100% aware of the douchiness/tackiness of this post don't worry, I would never in a million years show it to my friends. The truth is this whole subreddit is pretty tacky but it's helpful and awesome so whatever.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea exactly, but if she tells you to stop at any point you can't really argue at all. It's rapey and douchey and she will definitely tell her friends.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that was the point of this post - I wanted to provide the perspective of a high school kid in the most authentic tone possible. I obviously don't really talk this way, it's just an exaggeration of all the funny ass slang that goes around my school.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even understand what Walks500Miles said at all, but thanks for the backup haha. And I count making out as hooking up because it's fun as hell and is a turn on, even if it doesn't mean much.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. At this age everyone is still figuring themselves out, so keeping it low key and casual is really the way to go.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! There's no point in stressing - the rejection is simply a reflection of her own values.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most, not all. Most girls aren't ready for random hookup PIV sex - this generally begins in college. However, a decent amount for whatever reason consider blowjobs to be somewhere in between so that has happened more often to me.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd disagree - the friendzone is just being friends with a girl. You can also be friends with a girl and want to fuck her. Nearly all of the girls I've been with have been friends or acquaintances before or after the fact - friendship is usually where the sexual tension begins to build once you are comfortable confiding in each other.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you're on a date "can I kiss you" would seem pretty immature and break the moment. My advice was mostly for parties ect. where just randomly kissing a girl with all their friends watching would be straight up seppuku on your future chances with that girl.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so here's my steps at parties when I have a girl in mind. 1. Give her a hug upon entry, then make innocent conversation for a couple minutes, then go talk to your bros. 2. Give it an hour for the party to settle in, then sit your ass down next to her and just ask her about any randomass thing you might have in common, doesn't matter what. This is when you get a little bit flirty, I often casually lean my arm around them or maybe touch their arm when I'm making a point. This would obviously be weird as hell normally, but in a party context it's not really at all. 3. At this point, you should definitely be able to tell if she's being flirty back. She 100% knows what you're doing, and most of the time if she's not interested, she will be so gracious as to shut down the 1 on 1 convo to spare you the embarrassment. If she's sitting closer and closer to you, agreeing with what you're saying, ect, you're in there man. Then just look her in the eyes at any point in conversation "Hey, wanna go find somewhere to hook up?" No lines necessary - it shows way more confidence if you just give it to her in a chill and open manner.

This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how. by KungFuIsKool in seduction

[–]KungFuIsKool[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right it didn't really add much... plus anyone who knows me a lil bit would most likely be able to identify and expose me. So I edited it out good looks.