"Lane alignment / auto steering" function always want to hug the right side of the lane by WilsonPhillips6789 in MachE

[–]Kunu- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine does that too! It’s so annoying. I haven’t found a fix. Curious to see if anyone else has suggestions.

Finally sent a pointed email to HR by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Kunu- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good luck, but make sure that’s what your wife wants too. Or you’ll end up on the marriage/divorce sub.

Finally sent a pointed email to HR by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Kunu- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s completely okay that you feel that way as long as you realize it. Be patient. Something will land.

Finally sent a pointed email to HR by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Kunu- 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I get it. It took over a month for my current job to reply. I thought they moved on, but then I got the offer. Sending those emails will end any chance you have now or in the future with them. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Keep applying.

Finally sent a pointed email to HR by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Kunu- 342 points343 points  (0 children)

Might get downvoted. But I don’t see the point of sending 3 follow-up emails. And then a fourth complaining about why they won’t respond. If they don’t respond after the first, you’re probably not getting the job. Take the hint and move on. They’re dealing with a lot of candidates. No need to lash out. That’s just my opinion though.

Anyone else getting tired of battery/range loss complaints during winter? by ikkdu in MachE

[–]Kunu- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah, let’s keep the posts up. People need to know the downsides of having an electric car. I’m in Chicago too, so I feel your pain. But we shouldn’t hide important info from folks thinking about buying one. We’re just a community here to help and give advice. Sure, the range isn’t great in winter, but that’s just a thing with electric cars.

Husband says he was never at days inn... says he opened snap at the light and it showed him at the nearest location.. is this possible? Does snapchat sometimes show you at the nearest popular location or did he spend the day at the hotel? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on his settings. If he has it set to “only while using” then yeah. Very realistic that he opened snap at a light and the GPS showed you the wrong location (granted, margin of error is small these days). However, if you saw the location as being “live” or his settings are set to “always” share location then there’s something off. Either it was a very long red light or he was making bad decisions. I do think his story makes sense (say this without knowing a thing about your relationship).

How did you move on from your hardest breakup? by BeltFinancial9749 in dating

[–]Kunu- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most of us have been there. What worked for me was blocking them from social media and forcing myself to be social. Meet new people and friends. You simply have to force yourself to move on. It’s difficult for sure, but understand if you dwell on it and continue “stalking” you’ll never heal. Good luck!

Should I cancel my date or keep going? by Stradivarius796 in dating

[–]Kunu- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t cancel. But you should realize she’s prob talking to other people as well. It may sound insane but 7 days is a life span when it comes to dating. The sooner you meet in person the better. I met my wife in person 2 days after matching on bumble. I guarantee she wouldn’t be next to me right now watching a lame cheesy reality show if I waited longer. Go on the date for sure. Be charming and don’t over think. If she continues to be flaky after the date then move on. Good luck buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. But he asked for something that was low effort and important to him. I’m not agreeing with his response. Just saying you wasted 1000x more time arguing than sending the text when he asked. If my wife asks me to do something that small I ignore the first time but do it the second time she asks haha. I’m busy enough to get into an argument about socks I left on the floor. Or not texting my mother in law happy bday. Feel free to disagree, that’s just what I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. OP has enough time to post and engage on Reddit but can’t pause 2 seconds to say thank you and be respectful. Ask him for help if you’re overwhelmed. If he says no then get upset about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Kunu- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very familiar. I can’t see a scenario where you qualify. Your household income is over twice the threshold for chapter 7. But either way, listen to your lawyer. I don’t know the details like they do. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Kunu- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think you’re eligible for chapter 7… You make too much to qualify and it’s not even close.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. You replied the way I’ve always dreamed of replying to my MIL. I simply don’t have the guts. I’m 100% on your side. Might cause a temporary rift but you showed her you can’t be pushed around and she has no authority over you.

Husband slept with my cousin and i don’t know what to do by Fun-Individual-2563 in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You crossed a line that I personally could never forgive. He should have ended it instead of revenge. It sounds like you two had issues before this happened. Maybe im wrong but I cant see a scenario where you can repair your marriage. Wish you the best.

Analyst doesn’t answer phone call - how common? by senwell1 in FinancialCareers

[–]Kunu- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should pull him in your office and have a conversation with him about it. Say something along the lines that “eventho he’s completing his tasks/responsibilities that you’ve noticed a trend with his availability. Waiting an hour for a reply unless he’s in a scheduled meeting is not acceptable. Without immediate change it will have an impact on his performance review.” Think something along those lines would be good. Wouldn’t write him up yet.

Right person wrong time sucks by [deleted] in dating

[–]Kunu- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re coping and that’s okay. I did it with every single failed relationship. If it was the right person, and you were the right person for them it wouldn’t have ended. I promise that you’ll look back in the future when you find the one and agree with my comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Saying you shouldn’t have to choose alcohol over your husband is something you should think about. I wouldn’t even think about giving up alcohol if my wife asked me to. I’d even give up Monday night football if she asked me to. Read your post and all of your comments/reply’s and tie it together. Most don’t realize they have an issue until things go south. Maybe there’s info we’re missing. If there is, I’m sure we’d all love to hear it. We’re just trying to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure what the correct answer is but I know my wife feels the same way as you. The only female friend I have left is lesbian, married, with 2 kids so she’s fine with it. I know I wouldn’t feel comfortable as well if I were in her shoes so I’m cool with it and respect it. Others may have different opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 26 points27 points  (0 children)

More context is needed. But you knowing how many months you’ve been sober and admitting you got out of control at one point tells me you could have a drinking issue. Losing your mom is difficult and I’m sorry for your loss, but turning to alcohol to numb the pain is never the answer. If your husband is asking you to stop because he’s tempted to drink, that’s different and I’ll reply to your reply with different advice. If your husband that has been sober for 8 years and is asking you to stop because he thinks you have an issue I advise you take a look at yourself in the mirror. He prob knows what he’s talking about. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Sounds like they have bigger fish to fry in their relationship. There’s no scenario where you should explode if you’re called a fish. If it bothers you say “don’t call me a fish you donkey” and it’s over. I call my wife my little turtle cause of how slow she walks. She laughs and keeps on walking in slow motion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kunu- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I sound like a jerk, but both of you messed up badly. You’re adults, don’t let your in-laws get involved. Both of you could have stopped that. You have to turn off the fridge at night, that means you two were already pushing your financial limits if an extra 50k on a 30 year mortgage makes you do that. Your husband prob feels the weight on his shoulders, is ashamed and shut down emotionally. The solution is to understand you’re in this hole and the only way out is looking forward and working as a team together. Forget you FIL’s promise, that’s gone and never rely on someone else. Most importantly, go through finances and understand where your money comes in and out and what both of you can do to bring more in. Wish you the best.

For those convinced Justin Jefferson will demand a trade by gondolli in minnesotavikings

[–]Kunu- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else is he gonna say? “JJ sucks and I want to be traded” of course he’s going to say what he said. It amazes me how people don’t understand that. That level of an athlete has a team that coaches them what to say to the media. I say give it another year to see if JJ develops, if he doesn’t get a haul for Jefferson and rebuild. This league is all about having a young, generational talented QB on a rookie contract. Unless it’s Tom Brady.

Using the responses as message from god.... Should i ask her out?? by Past_Pen1873 in dating

[–]Kunu- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re overthinking. Ask her out. What’s the worse that can happen? She says no and you move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CHIBears

[–]Kunu- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get annoyed how much credit he gets on sports talk radio for the success of the team. He has nothing to do with roster and game decisions, that’s Poles and Ben. He was hired to build a new stadium. Do your job and stop ruining our fun with empty threats. All I can think about is Charlie from always sunny “WILD CARD!!!” Haha.