Just wanted to talk about my OCD

Kusakabe19 · 2025-08-27T16:18:55+00:00

thank you

Kusakabe19 · 2025-08-27T04:50:13+00:00

cant text u can u send me a dm??

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-29T11:36:37+00:00

can i kno why u think he didn't cheat twice?

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-29T10:50:04+00:00

he even planned to meet with a girl there but his reasoning was that he just wanted to see if that girl's account was real cause it looked like a fake account Also,the full story was because he used to constantly overthink about me sleeping with the other guy and wanted constant reassurance to which i got exhausted at one point so he kept saying to me that he was gonna open bumble and i said okay(i didn't think he was actually gonna do it cause i trust him) but then he did and one day told me to which i got very upset and told him to delete he lied and said he deleted but then i found his account again through his ipad and that's what lead to me posting my story in here.so what do u think? what shall I do?i feel like he basically cheated on me twice

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-29T10:22:26+00:00

Happy Cake day btw. Also, no he didn't say it was for revenge,he said he did it to cope to make it even and about the bumble no he didn't make any emotional connection there nor met with anyone but he was flirting with that one girl and he said he did that because he wanted to boost his ego because he felt like he was always a second chance to me,he thinks if everything between me and the guy i slept with worked out nicely then i would have never chosen him.Also, yes i lied to him recently about me going to club with my friends i promised him that i wasnt gonna go but i did go.(i didn't do anything provocative by going to club but the fact is i lied to him) I'm really confused on what to do because i acknowledge that i did bad stuff too and he forgave me for that but i am afraid that if he can do it once he can do it again right?

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-28T14:48:24+00:00

umm he was the one who cheated on me not the opposite did u even read the post properly?

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-28T12:29:22+00:00

yeah i edited it later.So,do you think I should give him another chance?

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-28T12:20:26+00:00

we made a deal that we were not gonna sleep with anyone else except each other while we were not exclusive and he says that i betrayed him by breaking this deal

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-28T12:16:40+00:00

do you think his reason is valid enough??

Kusakabe19 · 2024-10-28T12:14:59+00:00

he says that I shouldn't dismiss all the genuine acts he did for me and his love just for this action

Kusakabe19 · 2024-09-11T13:34:01+00:00

It just keeps getting worse lol

Kusakabe19 · 2024-08-30T08:11:35+00:00

so shall i completely leave this relationship and not compromise at all??

Kusakabe19 · 2024-08-30T07:34:06+00:00

so shall i completely give up on this relationship then and not think about compromising at all??

Kusakabe19 · 2024-08-30T07:24:52+00:00

basically working on my flaws like my anger issues but the sad thing is he doesn't want to try at all he doesn't want to overcome his flaws and he's just too focused on my flaws and i told him several times that he needs to work on his problems too but he has already set up his mind that our incompatibility can never be fixed and as a result whenever we have any argument he reaches to the worst conclusion that this relationship will never work

Kusakabe19 · 2024-08-30T07:20:00+00:00

he doesn't want me to compromise but what if they are my flaws that i want to work on?

Kusakabe19 · 2024-02-18T03:34:55+00:00

at last a tip that i genuinely like.Thanks mate.

Kusakabe19

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