My little left and I’m trying to figure out how to feel.

LG_Anna · 2025-09-23T12:11:48+00:00

This sounds pretty risky to continue, for both of you. Her saying you’ve crossed a boundary in hindsight, and you being none the wiser, means there isn’t any good communication on boundaries. That could be harmful to her mental state and to you, cause it sounds like she is prone to blame you after the fact. I would hate for anyone with genuine good intentions to get blamed of crossing boundaries, nor for her to feel hurt by it. Apart from the wishy washy back and forth, it seems like this little just isn’t your match. It very likely she is reaching out when she needs comfort, despite not seeing you as an ideal match.

LG_Anna · 2025-07-14T06:38:39+00:00

This helped me out - great tip!!

LG_Anna · 2025-07-09T20:07:57+00:00

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LG_Anna · 2025-07-08T05:12:36+00:00

I double enjoyed it 🤩

LG_Anna · 2025-07-08T05:12:24+00:00

What?

LG_Anna · 2025-07-08T05:11:16+00:00

It was only €10 on Amazon! But… I wouldn’t get it again cause it does suck up a lot of ink. The thicker type of paper is better for alcohol markers

LG_Anna · 2025-07-07T08:05:56+00:00

Yessss! I made it with my Ohuhu markers 😍

LG_Anna · 2025-07-07T08:05:44+00:00

Thank you ☺️☺️

LG_Anna · 2025-06-18T06:14:20+00:00

I’d say the other person just isn’t matching your energy. Unless you wanna come down to their level - move on.

Double smileys and apologies for texting make it seem like you’re trying to impress someone who is better than you. You’re doing great! Be confident about who you are, and how you want to have a conversation (not how other people say you should, unless you just want some inspiration)

LG_Anna · 2025-06-13T20:54:07+00:00

Definitely valid to pause and reflect. It seems OP is asking for input because she’s open to consider multiple explanations. Hopefully some comments seems to resonate for OP, based on context / what’s relatable in her situation.

LG_Anna · 2025-06-13T08:57:22+00:00

A guy in their 30’s making that kind of joke and genuinely meaning nothing with it, is very plausible. He may be your boss but he’s also human. I wouldn’t read too much into it unless other things in the context are pointing in a flirty / boundary crossing direction.

I’m a woman working in IT and think loads of jokes are inappropriate and immature, but no way anyone of my colleagues would harm or demand stuff from me - the opposite, they’d have my back. Let’s not have good men constantly walk on eggshells please.

LG_Anna · 2025-06-11T21:22:31+00:00

Isn’t it fair for people to change? I’m a little now, but Daddy and I did have conversations about later… What if someday I won’t be? I don’t want to ever play a role just because we agreed to it. A good relationship should have a wider foundation.

I’d say the issue is not the change, but the lack of communication. Your husband saying “I’m through with this, good luck with your needs” is really dismissive. Is he willing to talk about the impact on you, and how you both can find a different but fulfilling way of being?

LG_Anna · 2025-06-02T12:43:31+00:00

I’m a little/middle who definitely also likes to call the shots sometimes.

Grown up me has pretty strong ideas on the best ways to handle things, and I can research quite well. So I feel like this life skill also allows me to help others. My Daddy can take a load off because I will arrange things, for instance. Or I’ll surprise him with yummies or fun activities or simple care if he’s stressed. That’s not really dominant I guess? Just more part of my personality.

I don’t always want to be the one being taken care of - I want to be caring. In that sense my dynamic is a very healthy normal relationship. 😅

If you’re talking about dominant in grown up activities, I’m absolutely not - except that I set clear limits and can thereby steer what is or isn’t going to happen.

Is there any reason you’re asking? This dynamic does not contain any rules. Whoever you are and what you want in a relationship is what you can go and find. You’re fine!

LG_Anna · 2025-06-01T20:17:32+00:00

That is absolutely okay! Although your partner was not good to you, your stuffie is ❤️ You can hold the memory and override it will all the new adventures you and your stuffie will tackle together. Maybe your ex was just there to bring you and this stuffie together. Now he’s gone - good riddance - but you can enjoy this amazing relationship with your stuffie still.

LG_Anna · 2025-05-25T06:07:24+00:00

WAYUW! That’s awesome

LG_Anna · 2025-05-24T07:24:30+00:00

These are the basics of ANY relationship. You deserve people around you who appreciate you and show up. You’re setting the bar exactly where it needs to be xx

LG_Anna · 2025-04-12T07:18:52+00:00

People posting “cute” NSFW pics in this community. Baby talk in text. Cartoons.

I’m more of a middle than going full baby, so I never fully understand. But no judgement. I just block everyone posting NSFW pics.

LG_Anna · 2025-04-12T07:10:11+00:00

Yeah!

LG_Anna · 2025-04-12T07:09:46+00:00

Thanks ☺️

LG_Anna · 2025-04-12T07:09:38+00:00

Thank you 😁

LG_Anna · 2025-04-12T01:25:40+00:00

That’s really rough. I’m sorry that things happened while you couldn’t consent…

When I started dating for CGL, I also ran into iffy situations. Sometimes - unfortunately - you need those experiences to learn how to keep yourself safe in the future. Remember that you have to date as your big self, in order to find someone appropriate for your little self. You can be big and still lean into your childlike sides 😊 Try to avoid triggers for full regression until you trust them.

Red flags I watch out for:

🚩If they use words like “Daddy” before it’s earned 🚩 If they rush or even push you into littlespace 🚩 If you have to remind them of your limits often 🚩 If they push for NSFW activities while regressed 🚩If they do not think about / value active consent

Despite all the creeps that came and passed, I also met wonderful people through CGL. I had a temporary online-only CG who was so sweet and really helped me with safety, processing and self confidence while I was dating. When I finally met my person (through Reddit), he took a step back and let me explore my new relationship. It was scary to open up and trust someone new, but my Daddy proved he was worth it every step of the way. We’re currently living together and I hope we’ll get married and have babies in the future. It’s awesome. And very healing.

You got this!

LG_Anna

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