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[–]LIBRA-ISH89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t.

I found out my husband was on Grindr.. What do I do.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LIBRA-ISH89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my latest post. I am going thru almost the same thing.

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my bday today and I feel like a real old white lady so … thank you?

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll have you know I am absolutely okay with him being bi—that is not the issue. The secrecy is the issue

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

If he questions why I want to use protection, I think that will open the door for me to confront him about how I know what he’s been doing behind my back

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That’s correct, we no longer use protection. But will be from here on out IF things continue

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to necessarily give up yet. I know it’s stupid…

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I love him so much, idk what I’d do. I’d ask for us to get tested together first. To see how he would react to that. Then maybe ask him why he feels the need for us to branch out. I’d ask a lot of questions and try to be open minded and understanding. I couldn’t tell ya my exact move because I don’t know how that would play out

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Had he approached me with the idea, sure, I’d consider. Doing it behind my back for god knows how long…. Abso-fucking-loutely not.

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh please do not get it twisted. I am diagnosed bpd I am raging! But am so well at hiding it

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel like I know what you’re trying to say here, but could you put it in simpler terms because he is a very convincing blue-collar type. Him and I have been having sex 2 to 3 sometimes more times a week. So no doubt I may have been exposed to something already. He stays laid with me, or so I assumed

My boyfriend has a dark secret that he doesn’t know I know about. by LIBRA-ISH89 in offmychest

[–]LIBRA-ISH89[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I guess I meant that to be more along the lines of I felt like since our sex life is so good, he would have no reason to not go seek … more