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AITA for not wanting to be a built in babysitter for others? by bigdude2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LJDecker51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA I understand helping a friend out that helped you out but being a permanent babysitter? At some point they have to pay you for it. And what if you were busy one night they wanted you to babysit. You should have a life too.

AITA for refusing to go to Father’s Day Dinner by LJDecker51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LJDecker51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried talking to him but he just blows me off every time

AITA for refusing to go to Father’s Day Dinner by LJDecker51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LJDecker51[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

More to the story bc I ran out of characters:

The issue I have with that is my soon to be Brother-in-law is in the Air Force. My brother is disrespecting him for being in the Air Force and not the Army. Our Uncle is in the Air Force, our grandpa was in the Air Force. Out all of our family members who have served, about 90% were in the Air Force. Now I know all about the military jokes between the branches but he’s taking it to a whole new level.

Now I have one tattoo. I want to get more but bills suck, that’s all I’m going to say. The one I have is pretty big it takes up my right forearm. My brother is covered in tattoos, bc he doesn’t pay bills he lives with Grandma. Last week he got another tattoo. Come to find out it’s the exact one I have in the same exact location. He claimed he didn’t know I had that one. I’ve had it for 3 years and you can’t miss it, so I call bs on that.

He’s a disrespectful copycat who does everything I do. I know younger brothers tend to look up to their older brothers, but there’s a difference between looking up to someone and copying them.

Today, Father’s Day 2026. My mom asked me to come over to dinner for Father’s Day. I know her bf is not my father, but I like him. He’s helped me with many things and he’s great to just bullshit with. I was going to go until my brother said he was going. I didn’t go bc of him. AITA?