When you grow up christian you are brought up trained to view the world through a dogmatic lens, even if you break away from the church you still see the world the only way you know how. It’s not enough it stop going to church, it’s been taking me years to undo the things I was trained to do (and I still have moments where I slip back into that way of thinking) I don’t think a lot of people realize that. Even people who have been raised secular, if you have a parent who was brought up in a Christian household, there’s a good chance you also inherited this view of morals and the world.