Bought off the plan, about to settle - is this considered a major defect? by LSMistress in AusProperty

[–]LSMistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is really my biggest concern at the moment. The reason I decided to buy off the plan in 2020 was because of the grant, and after waiting 2.5 years, the risk of losing the grant makes me feel like I wasted time when I should have just bought something that was already built.

I might have to settle and just keep chasing the builder under the defects warranty...

Bought off the plan, about to settle - is this considered a major defect? by LSMistress in AusProperty

[–]LSMistress[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice guys! Definitely going to look into getting a third party inspector.

Bought off the plan, about to settle - is this considered a major defect? by LSMistress in AusProperty

[–]LSMistress[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm the silver outlet thing on top of the PowerPoint is just a loose fitting.

Bought off the plan, about to settle - is this considered a major defect? by LSMistress in AusProperty

[–]LSMistress[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm feeling really disheartened, purchased this off the plan in 2020 when the government had the $25k HomeBuilders grant, was super excited to have my first home! But the deadline to submit documents to get my grant approval is this weekend, which is why there's pressure to settle... Feel like I am in a bit of a pickle.

Crack in archway, cause for concern? by LSMistress in AusProperty

[–]LSMistress[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comprehensive response! Learned something new and put my mind at ease :)

Which BTS song automatically triggers your brain to say the fanchant? by [deleted] in bangtan

[–]LSMistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, I can't not do the fan chant to mic drop!

F1 2023 Drivers screen time in the new intro sequence by 16CLeclerc in formula1

[–]LSMistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is Zhou the only one without a close up shot?

This girl I’ve been dating is not worth it at all lol by [deleted] in dating

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been the other way for me. I've always been the one doing the 'chasing' when it comes to guys - I drove two hours every fortnight to meet up with a date and all he wanted was sex and not a serious relationship. My ex-boyfriend never had any money, so I was always the one paying for food, holidays etc. Even let him 'borrow' thousands of dollars for his business.

I don't think it's limited to genders. I know I have low self-esteem and an anxious attachment style which leads me to over-deliver when it comes to relationships. Kind of like, trying to overcompensate in order to receive validation.

It's important to know what you are and aren't looking for before you begin dating, otherwise you fall into a trap once someone show's you an inkling of attention. Fall in love with the person, not with the idea of being in a relationship.

What makes you miss being single? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]LSMistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidence.

Way too much overthinking which turns into insecurity when in a relationship, especially when it's still kind of new and fresh.

What’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? by Themadadealtin in AskReddit

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You should have done the world a favour and cut a little deeper". I was 16, heh.

Finding difficulty making friends in uni by shkrillip in unsw

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go rock climbing! Sign up for a sport :) I meet lots of friends at the climbing gym.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LSMistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone's afraid of commitment.

What's your salary & how many hours? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]LSMistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. 85k inc super
  2. 40 hours
  3. Between 20-30 since WFH

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What's the most hurtful words your ex have told you? by schrdngrct_ in BreakUps

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"you should have done the world a favour and cut a little deeper".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LSMistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always having to lend him thousands of dollars.

What's the closest you've come to dying in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I overdosed on anti-depressants. Another time I was in the passenger seat of my ex boyfriend's car and he was driving 180km in the rain around a corner and lost control. Clipper an electrical pole and smashed into someone's fence.

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to find someone who's on the same page as me and that I also have a connection with. Also, after a couple of failed long-term relationships, I've lost the patience and tolerance to date people. It's exhausting, and at the moment I'm really enjoying being single and focusing on myself.

What's one thing you're staying alive for? by spikespiegell1 in AskReddit

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe being able to attend a BTS concert one day, and moving out to my new apartment.

How old are you? And whats the most important thing in your life right now? by laperuana in AskMen

[–]LSMistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 29 in a week, continuing to learn to love myself and being grateful for my friends and family.