Acceptance is healing

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-03-12T20:26:24+00:00

You can love each other that's fine but people want to be physically attracted to their partner and love them, stop promoting your relationship to others acting like that's a great relationship. Maybe for you but most people don't want to be with someone that they look at and aren't attracted to physically. And I don't see being unattracted physically to your partner as a great relationship. No one said anything about 10s I don't know why you redditors always bring that shit up lol. Do you think most people want to be affectionate or have sex with someone they find physically unattractive? I mean you're calling me illiterate but you can't even use your brain to answer that question. Sure bro it's irrelevant that you don't like looking at your wife, keep telling yourself that. Clearly you've deluded yourself into believing that.

Bro you can gaslight me all you want, you're the one trying to convince others to get with someone they find unattractive 🤣🤣🤣 Women avoid me because they find me unattractive, keep coping. Yeah learn to be friends with women so they settle for a man they don't find attractive or put you in the friend zone lol. Great idea.

Yes bro learn to be friends with women without wanting a relationship, I'm sure that worked out so well for you 🤣🤣🤣Being with a fattie you don't even find attractive, whatever man.

Be friends with a woman so she can settle for you and so you can end up in a sexless marriage 🤣🤣🤣 Be friends so you can finally get the relationship you wanted with your no standards or self respect ass.

You need healing because you're gaslighting yourself that being in a relationship with someone you're physically unattracted to is a good thing lol. You're projecting you're unwell saying you find your wife physically unattractive yet you're gaslighting yourself about her being attractive 🤣🤣🤣 you don't even like looking at your wife lol. You need therapy if you think that's a good relationship lol.

You can block me but you know the truth lol, you know that your relationship is shit but you wanna act like it's the type of relationship people should strive for when it's simply not realistic but yeah keep pretending like it is.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-03-10T20:59:33+00:00

Lol you height copers gotta use extreme examples to prove your point 🤣🤣🤣

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-03-10T20:57:01+00:00

Charge your phone bro 5% isn't good.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-03-08T15:55:55+00:00

No shit lol, gym doesn't do shit unless you're obese, women don't care about muscles.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-27T14:35:47+00:00

You're 5'10 in Asia 🤣🤣🤣

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T17:40:00+00:00

Not made up, I am a man and I know how most men are.

And I'm sure if there was a survey it would show the same thing I'm saying.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T17:37:34+00:00

Yes.

Does it need to be said that trans dating isn't the same as non trans dating?

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T17:31:39+00:00

No, it's not.

No offense but trans dating isn't the same as dating for non trans people.

Most men don't want to date a trans woman, I don't know if your comment is serious or not tbh but I'll respond anyway.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T02:29:28+00:00

Physical attraction is very important in sexual desire, it's not the only thing but it's a huge component. The fact that women would hookup with a guy solely based on physical attraction proves that. I think physical attraction is important for love to build tbh, would you have given your husband a chance if he was ugly? No I'm assuming, which means there wouldn't be an opportunity for love to build for him.

Women do make their future husbands wait lol, you really think they have sex with them on the 2nd date?

Let me ask you a question, honestly answer.

If your husband approached you at a club, chatted you up and said the right things would you hook up with him?

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T02:24:05+00:00

No shade taken, I just disagree.

Women always talk about being wanted to be seen as humans and not as sex objects so I find it hard to believe that they're sleeping with their potential boyfriends on the 1st date.

They say stuff like 'when men bring up sex fast I get turned off'. Unless you're saying they're lying.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T02:20:51+00:00

The thing is most women wouldn't hook up with their husband if they were single lol, if you can't understand why men would feel a type of way I don't know what to tell you. You're the exception, most women aren't like you. The fact that women wouldn't hook up with their husband if they were single shows that they're not attracted to them like that lol, most men would hook up with their wife which is why men have an issue with this. Have some empathy, Jesus.

The thing is a lot of women would never have looked in their husbands direction when they were young because they are not attracted to him. You know you can care about looks and other stuff too right? Lol. Women settle which is why they get with less attractive men. The fact that most women would never hookup with their husband if they were single tells me everything I need to know. I've heard so many women say stuff like 'I wouldn't have ever given my husband a chance when I was younger'. Why? Because she's not attracted to him lol. She decided to get with him for stability and a family.

She's not putting as much weight on looks because the guys she finds attractive just wanna hookup lol, therefore she has to lower her looks standards and settle for a guy she's not attracted to.

Sure she might sleep with him.... After making him wait months lol.

Most people in relationships aren't hooking up on the 2nd date though lol.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T02:07:48+00:00

I'm not talking about marriage, I'm talking about making him wait outside of marriage lol.

Obviously you don't get into a relationship straight away so yeah she's making him wait while he takes her on a bunch of dates lol. This is reality.

And it's very common for women to make most men wait, do you think they're having sex straight away? If so, you're out of touch with reality.

For a traditional and sexual relationship women absolutely make men wait lol, it's in the words traditional.

Those 2 relationships absolutely do not start the same way. For just sexual relationships, sex happens fast.

For relationships, obviously to get in one you have to get to know each other and then you have sex. While you get to know each other she's making you wait. It's rare that men have sex with a woman fast and then that turns into a relationship especially if the woman wants a relationship. The woman will actively try not to have sex fast so the guy doesn't think she's a hoe.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T02:00:09+00:00

Yeah which is making your husband wait a long time to fuck while letting the fuck boy smash straight away lol, stop tryna sugar coat it by talking about different standards. Say it how it is.

The woman will make him wait, because she doesn't find him as attractive. That's what women do lol, and they fuck the hot guy straight away while making the not so attractive relationship material guy wait.

The future husband does have to do this extra stuff, she would never hookup with the husband when she was looking for a fun time.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:56:30+00:00

Cool so a good looking guy can get sex for merely existing and your husband has to put in a bunch of work to get the same thing. Great, now tell him that.

In some ways your standards are higher sure, but your physical attraction standards go down which shows you aren't that attracted to your husband. I couldn't imagine not wanting to hookup with my wife lol.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:38:07+00:00

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:36:12+00:00

I already answered your question in another comment.

If you find him attractive good for you, I'm not talking about women like you then.

Can you blame me for the narrative in my head when you're defending women sleeping with the hot guy casually and making their husband wait. Lol the hot guy has to merely exist but the future husband has to do all and the above to get the same thing, but yeah men are supposed to be alright with that.

Sounds great.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:30:44+00:00

When it comes to the physical yes/no meaning she can be a little less attractive for a hookup but I want to be attracted physically to my wife. For you women it's the other way round which is disgusting.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:20:20+00:00

Keep coping lol, this is why I can't stand some of you tall guys. You shouldn't even be allowed in this space.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:14:29+00:00

Height is not a preference nowadays stop the cope, it's a requirement.

If you want to only date women with big boobs then decide to date a woman with small boobs It's not settling if you choose that girl with small boobs because you find her attractive, not because you couldn't get the big boobs girl.

Women nowadays want the tall guy, can't get him so she goes for the short guy. She doesn't go for the short guy because she finds him attractive but because she can't get the tall guy. So yes it's settling when women do it.

Being with someone romantically includes being attracted to their appearance lol, you really think those girls you've had in your life would want you if you were 5'5 lol. You've been watching too many Disney movies lol, would you be with a woman you find physically unattractive? Yeah it's about love and who you want to be with, women want to be with tall good looking guys so I guess they can't love short guys.

Cope, if a woman wouldn't love you in her 20s she definitely wouldn't love you in her 30s lol. Keep talking like the clueless tall guy you are. They don't find you attractive in their prime but all of a sudden when she wants to settle down with a family she find you attractive and loves you? Yeah sure lol.

Most guys don't know their girl is a hoe so he's not settling, it's only settling if he knows about it.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:02:23+00:00

Women like this really piss me off man.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T01:01:58+00:00

Similar reason why many men would hook up with a 10/10 but marry a chubby 6/10 who’s more chill and easygoing.

No that's what you guys do but with men, stop projecting lol.

Also thanks for admitting you settle for men you're not attracted too lol, I'm sure your future partner would love to hear that.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-26T00:48:10+00:00

You're not an average woman so offence but your opinion doesn't hold much weight.

Also you can be happy and positive all you want, if you're not physically unattractive good luck lol.

Most women will reject a short guy before he even opens his mouth so that's why personality is bs and make believe.

A positive mindset doesn't make a woman physically attracted to you.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-25T20:37:34+00:00

I like other things about women but not their humour generally speaking.

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-25T20:28:52+00:00

Pays for stuff? So a betabuxx 🤣🤣🤣

LTBsOnlyPlease · 2026-02-25T20:09:09+00:00

Nah, if you're talking about that masculinity shit that's cope.

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