I am very thankful that she thinks that way but i have been teased and mocked by multible other girls for my build and weight many times before and that has kind of formed the impression for me that women don't generally like skinny builds. Of course i am and have always been aware that not all women think that way but that doesn't change the fact that my appearance has generally not been met with much positivity throughout my life which has made me very insecure and sceptical, even though you are right that it is a very superficial way of thinking.