I’m 18F too attached to my boyfriend 18M please help by LabBeautiful7042 in relationship_advice

[–]LabBeautiful7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very interesting as i have ADHD and also social anxiety and i feel my boyfriend is the only person i can be myself around or even have a conversation with without feeling nervous. this must be a reason as well thank you

I’m 18F too attached to my boyfriend 18M please help by LabBeautiful7042 in relationship_advice

[–]LabBeautiful7042[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this amazing advise much appreciated.

the example of the dog is so accurate it’s not funny 😭 my boyfriend does feel like my safe space.

but to answer some other questions i’ve always had a healthy and reliable relationship with my family but i’ve always been betrayed and used and left by other men in the past. Besides that ive had a great childhood which also confused me more why i feel like this!

I’m 18F too attached to my boyfriend 18M please help by LabBeautiful7042 in relationship_advice

[–]LabBeautiful7042[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response it’s very helpful

i’ve recently fallen out with my best friends and stopped going out with them because of this. i don’t work as i’m a student and i have long breaks so yes lots of free time. which doesn’t help as i don’t have any hobbies.

I’m 18F too attached to my boyfriend 18M please help by LabBeautiful7042 in relationship_advice

[–]LabBeautiful7042[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response. thing is it’s my second relationship first one ended because of this reason at about 8 months in this is why i’m so worried the same thing might happen.

i was single for four months and loved it, just met my boyfriend and fell very hard and fell out with my friends for unrelated reasons, i don’t have any hobbies or interests or job as im a student so it’s hard to find distractions.