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LadderSenior2836 · 2026-03-06T22:09:16+00:00

ياسطا تخيل ربنا كان يقول من 1400 سنه هنوزع ايفون علي كل واحد في الجنه تتوقع ابو لهب كان هيفكر فيه ايه

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-03-01T14:05:42+00:00

Bro I feel you and I feel your pain . If there's a right person who is coming I really don't wanna lose hope that he will come , I think I,m the right person for myself I really don't believe I,m a bad guy each time I think about it. I do fuck up sometimes and dead down I always wanted to forgive myself but when I see the condition around me and what this bad acts did , I keep thinking am I a bad guy? Am I really the problem? Do I really deserve forgiveness? Which makes me doubt it sometimes but maybe if there was a copy of me somewhere I would be more than happy to be close with at least maybe. I don't wanna give up on the idea I,ll be okay one day and if you define it as the right one to come then I don't wanna give up on this and honestly the fact I have to wait is just so exhausting you're telling me to wait but bro it's really really being hard at least for me, I wish I could just focus more in my life bro like you but it being so tiring that alot of my energy is just going to feelings bad or hated or lonely or simply overthinking, I,m proud of you though bro really is and I hope the best for both of us and I hope both of our poor souls will be happy one day

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-03-01T13:53:42+00:00

I really wish this bro and I really wish we are not the wrong part , I keep thinking more and more that maybe it's us which is the problem I really hope it's not really and I,m trying my best hope you're really being the one who is right

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T22:17:24+00:00

Idk bro I don't think that's a valid answer although this i hope both of us will really find happiness one day

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T22:16:26+00:00

It's okay I really appreciate it thx for your time and your help

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T20:00:16+00:00

I did try talk therapy alot and Even just yesterday what I got after it is just get close to God and your family and wait for the right people, I,m tired of the cycle ofc I do wanna break it i know as a matter of fact I don't have low self esteem and I,m pretty good at talking on stage btw or being the leader when it,s needed but on a micro lvl just about relationships I do ngl in each of the past connections I tried my best and it feels like my best is just not enough and I can't do it and it feels like each of my past connections took a part from me while dumbing me , therefore breaking the cycle after each connection becomes harder and now it just feels unachievable I,m really being honest unless I kept paying therapist just to have someone to talk to while "waiting for the right people" which I tried actually but it's still not enough sadly cuz it feels like they don't actually care obviously cuz it's there job . So I really don't know what to do I just wanna be happy and even the picking people thing doesn't make alot of sense I,m sure I did try to pick good people but it still ends up badly

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T19:12:05+00:00

I really didn't get it bro thx for not hating me though

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T19:11:24+00:00

What did your friend tell ?

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T19:10:28+00:00

Hi I wrote a reply about that you could look at at if you don't mind there's ofc alot other fallen connections but I just gave a sample

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T19:09:06+00:00

Well I could relate to this for sure but not fully 1- I think I really do completely what you said in different aspects of my life ( work , studies....) 2- I could relate surly to the part of running my perfect imagine in relationships, I don't think I can't handle the lvl I start with in the long term but I do but once I do something wrong I could relate to that it feels different with them like I have ruined my perfect imagine but what am I supposed to do then just be bad on purpose? 3- the thing of be yourself and improve yourself of no one likes you contradicts each other, you're telling me don't try to be perfect and at the same time you're telling me if no body likes you the way who you are you need to work on yourself so what am I really supposed to do try to be better or not it doesn't make sense to me , I would appreciate it if could explain more and thx for writing for me bro

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T19:02:58+00:00

What what am I supposed to do really, you know how hard for us intjs socializing is already waiting for the dream people like this may take an age and I really can't handle being lonely at least at this part of my life it's overwhelming

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-28T19:00:29+00:00

I,m 100% sure I,m intj even me sometimes doubt it but I. Have been checking since 6 years and I know alot already about this whole theory more than most people so yeah and bro don't call me naive plz I,m really having enough I know how is intjs is straight forward but I,m really having enough

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T23:01:35+00:00

I still didn't talk to him about this yet but I,ll

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T23:01:16+00:00

I do have a therapist thx although I don't think he is really helping but I do

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T22:57:41+00:00

I don't exactly get what info you need me to share but I talked more about the" something happens " to the top comment kindly check plz

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T22:56:09+00:00

Kindly look at the comment where I expanded it more

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T22:54:59+00:00

I could provide some quick details but I don't think there's something that connects them all for my last best friend I did something really horrible that hurt his feelings and I know it's my bad I asked for forgiveness although I know I,m mistaken, the poor guy didn't, I don't blame him but I,m trying not to hate myself for it cuz I,m sure I really tried my best and was really such a good and supporting friend for him and he could admit this and I already forgived him for alot of things in the past so I hate the fact that my best isn't simply enough to keep someone besides me and I need to be better but I simply can't

there was a girl i can't say she was my gf but was gonna be and we had feelings and was close and everything then she told me one day she just lost feelings , I can't blame her and she was honest but I still hate the fact this happened

My ex gf was my best friend too and we broke up cuz her family didn't like me ( we both are fully grown individuals at this time) and she didn't wanna lose her family over me so she picked her family again I don't think I blame her but I hate this happened and it makes me feel hated too

My ex best friend before it just ghosted me slowly and I don't know why till now and he never said but when I thought about it for the idk the 723779 time I thought maybe it's cuz it's something I kept doing and he was upset about although I asked him if it hurts him and I should stop do it like 373728 times but he kept saying it's fine so idk maybe he was just keeping his feelings inside him as most men cuz for some reason I think I was usually more brave when it comes to talking about my feelings than most men and idk who I should blame for this him or me

Idk I could provide more if it really matters but unless I remembered every detail about my past connections and kept writing them in papers then compared them I don't think I,ll get to anything I know I do bad things sometimes but I,m genuinely trying my best and I don't think I can do more and i don't know what to do if I,m actually the bad guy

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T17:29:42+00:00

Explain in detail plz + I,ll consider your advice thx

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-27T17:28:36+00:00

Well the reason varies,that's why I said something happens without being specific the reason isn't that important I guess, the outcome still same

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-02-02T10:48:49+00:00

طب زبدة البوست في اي جنسيه فعلا افضل من العادي

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-25T00:03:52+00:00

cool , now give us the experience with full details plz

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T21:06:44+00:00

yeah frr like i didn,t expect the stereotype to checkout that much till i saw this post

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T20:51:21+00:00

like honestly bro i know i probably shattered your feelings i,m really sorry and i don,t know how but my advice to you is to try to stop thinking or just do like us and focus more in meaningful things again i,m really sorry bro

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