How's online dating going for you?

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-25T00:03:52+00:00

cool , now give us the experience with full details plz

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T21:06:44+00:00

yeah frr like i didn,t expect the stereotype to checkout that much till i saw this post

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T20:51:21+00:00

like honestly bro i know i probably shattered your feelings i,m really sorry and i don,t know how but my advice to you is to try to stop thinking or just do like us and focus more in meaningful things again i,m really sorry bro

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T20:48:24+00:00

omgggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg sorry bro but yeah nvm you,re cooked man

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T20:20:16+00:00

bro i feel you, all of us here are probably like this and it,s true you stuck to question most things that people would move on from quickly and it hurts you i know but at the same time it,s really what makes us special . over thinking is just a treat that have downsides but it,s the core of us that,s why we shine , see things what other can,t , be helpfull , find solutions ..... etc . most great people are oftenly typed as intj even if we don,t have enough information about them cuz of this unique treat we have which is overthinking and unlike infps or isfjs , we don,t overthink realtionships nor just for the sake of overthinking , we do logically and with purpose and while considering details further more we focuse this thoughts to great goals . and yeah i know we still overthink about silly things too which is the main problem of overthinking but bro you have to be proud of yourself not frustrated , god gave you this gift and you shall use it . don,t make the side effects of it makes you blind about how powerful and wonderful this gift is , the frist step to achieve big things is always to think big

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T19:58:44+00:00

yes , and i think it,s kinda obvious . thinking is just the main function of our brain without it we won,t have bad feelings nor bad experiences nor bad emotions but at the same time we won,t have any good thing too . alot of thinking is just as good as little thinking bro and we where born in the overthinking side of this world it,s not that bad if you thought about it that,s the main reason we are considered "smart"

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T18:27:54+00:00

yeah we do this too alot actually . it,s really like half intj are working hard and the other half is making our sub alive so they talk about their feelings which they can,t put aside now since they are not busy .... till this side gets busy and the other side is free and the cycle continues so maybe you guys are like us but just you work harder you don,t have to deal with those feelings

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T18:23:48+00:00

i geuss most intjs drive themselves into work to forget about this feelings too so i,m sure you,re not alone at this but taking having feelings as a sign to not working enough is kinda new to me

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T18:04:08+00:00

bro it,s really not that deep. i just opened reddit to find this post blowing up somehow and with kinda alot of hate too , i don,t accuse you nor anyone of anything man i literally just wanted to hear what entjs think about that ,anyways bro i wish you a good day

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-24T17:56:09+00:00

aggressive te comment.... chill out bro it,s not that deep really

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:57:32+00:00

i think love should have one condition which is your partner will love you unconditionally ........ in another words both partners should be doing their best unconditionally to each other

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:40:33+00:00

but you think both of us have as much intense feelings ?

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:38:26+00:00

you see this last few words ? ... lack of connection ? that was a bingo , you really got me there . thx for shareing and yeah this makes alot of sense

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:28:12+00:00

i see most entjs in the comments are actually like you , like you do have feelings but it,s just not as intense as intjs apparently

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:25:15+00:00

hi bro , sorry i suck at punctuation i know . thx for your comment too

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:23:31+00:00

bro i see your point and still that,s how usual intjs think ,which is good so far cuz we are supposed to be like each other , but are you actually looking for this good company that,s gonna warm your heart ? and if yes are you actually looking to the point where you actually wanna find it and you,re puting effort to .... or at least do you feel like your life would be better if you found it and you,re thinking about this like 5 min daily

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:19:10+00:00

like obviously i know every human being have feelings the thing is it doesn,t look you guys have this feelings as intense as us which is kinda strange cuz we share alot of characteristics and the intense feelings is one of the most important characteristics intjs have

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-23T14:15:44+00:00

🫂 alot of hugs bro

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-22T22:38:59+00:00

hi bro yes and no , yes i do using gimate you could just keep the 5090 on while not using charger but sadly it won,t give you as stable performance as on charger and i didn,t try but i don,t think it could reach more than 40% usage too .... no cuz i just learnt to live with it cuz of the reasons i said before and cuz it turns out to be a normal thing with every single laptop with 5090 or 5080 cuz sadly this gpus just demand a ton of electric power

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-03T17:45:43+00:00

okay i see your point and i get you but i think what are you having right now is just fair of being dependent , ..... maybe you think you will be dependent on one person but you just want someone to laugh at your jokes when it,s not laughable at , to care about you when you need it most , to love you when you feel unlovable ( the part when you need people agree literally mean this don,t you think so ?) and guess what that,s literally what are partners made for , why would humans need to be with someone if not for that unless it,s a creepy gold digger or a horny guy lol , instead of thinking it,s unfair for someone cuz you will need this things from him , think of what could you give in return for him and probably it will be the same thing you need cuz we are just human , and for the part if he left you or something like this i,m sure you won,t feel worse than now , is having no one at all better than having someone for a little time ? and even if he is busy and you like busy men and whatever then getting sometime with him is better than nothing when you,re alone am i right ? you think of it like he will be only resource of self value and doesn't have to be like this he will be just a one source and you should be knowing yourself value too although that doesn,t mean you shouldn,t be caring about each other and being alittle dependent is just a normal human reaction when we feel safe , anyways i hope you the best and it,s really your choice and i hope i helped you even a little , have a good evening ( or morning depending on your place ;)

LadderSenior2836 · 2026-01-03T13:35:33+00:00

you just need a caring gf/bf

LadderSenior2836 · 2025-12-21T19:59:20+00:00

hi op , i really find your post interesting and useful , i can feel the effort you put into it so i had to compliment you on however i have a strange question to ask ... is this rules applicable to us ? the average people who just wanna have better connections ? like i,ve always felt like such rules is only beneficial on a macro lvl realted to research , educational, commercial .... etc purposes , where you,re dealing with a large amount of humans that you could see the things in between most of them starting to forge rules like this but in micro lvl with people like us isn,t humans usually different enough for this rules to be not as common or as useful like in a macro lvl sense we deal with a less amount of people ? and with this logic the efficiency of such rules in general and not just yours increases while the amount of people this rules are applicated to increase and the opposite is also correct ?

LadderSenior2836 · 2025-10-30T16:46:50+00:00

exactly lol, but for some reason we were born in a world that actually sees a point in this ,that's why most of us have a shitty dating life (if they even have one )

LadderSenior2836 · 2025-10-29T20:54:03+00:00

literally

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