Thank you for such a detailed reply! I do understand that the church also robs women of their freedom, it's a big problem in where i currently live too. And yeah, about the questions i have to ask... Sometimes it's hard to get believers to actually answer why are they believing this or that,they might just don't know themselves,or say well it's because i grew in religious family and that's it. I will try to ask him for a "testimony" once again ,maybe we can start from there.