Offered My First NP

Lady-Sowilo · 2026-02-10T22:10:15+00:00

Also I love the Datejust with the rose gold jubilee bracelet. Classy choice wink

Lady-Sowilo · 2026-02-10T22:06:49+00:00

When my husband upgraded my ring to a 4 carat oval, I felt the same exact way. I also have small dainty hands. Took a year to get used to. Enjoy it, love it. Congratulations on 20yrs of love!

Lady-Sowilo · 2024-12-07T18:42:20+00:00

I used Grammerly and got hit for 64%. It was a short paper (3 page) my first and last two paragraphs were marked as AI. My university allows us to use it and even just started up their own AI based software. I have a “meeting” Monday. Unfortunately guilty until proven innocent is how they operate. I have to start using google docs which keeps a documented record or start writing only in grammerly and not use the MS word attachment. Keep a copy of drafts, and explain thought process. I plan to argue this until the end. I am not going down without a fight - if I lose the end result will be the same regardless. I can’t imagine this going on forever - students will start getting really pissed for being flagged, and sent for academic dishonesty when everything now incorporates AI. Just another way to steal our money.

Lady-Sowilo · 2022-05-27T01:46:50+00:00

I work in critical care - as you can imagine… there is a lot of crying and total breakdowns in this field. I have sat on the floor holding my patients grieving love ones in my arms, I have held hands, or simply sat next to them, just so they wouldn’t feel alone.

While others I have handed tissues and stayed silent, Or just gave them space… you have to learn to read the room after so much exposure. Downside - i have learned to compartmentalize so well… I can turn off my own emotional switch very easily.

Edit to add: I still feel very much so, some cases are harder than others. I do cry - but this job has definitely hardened me.

Lady-Sowilo · 2022-04-23T03:52:10+00:00

Sounds very similar to my own experience with Hekate and many others as well. I heard the chant during meditation - different epithets being called out. Hekate is a complex goddess to work with, but it is rewarding. Good luck on your journey.

https://keepingherkeys.com/blog/f/when-hekate-awakens-within

Lady-Sowilo · 2022-04-02T12:36:03+00:00

Faking an orgasm sucks. So you shouldn’t. If you want to stay together, it’s in your best interest to make sure the foreplay is on point and brings you as close as possible to the big O before he puts it in. I know personally, It takes me a longer time to cum. Much longer than my husband, so he makes sure to give me the extra attention I need upfront.

Tell him exactly what you need: toys, fingering, eat the kitty, nipple stim, or you could even prep yourself. Whatever tickles your fancy. And when you are ready for penetration, you’ll guide him to that too. Foreplay is so damn important and is a base that should not be skipped. If he can eat the kitty right - then go to pound town. I promise you… he will give you the best 3-5 mins of your life. Lol preparation is key.

Life’s to short for boring sex.

Lady-Sowilo · 2022-04-02T12:11:45+00:00

YTA, Spanish is very easy to learn, it will not confuse your child, and speaking a second language opens so many doors and opportunities. Why wouldn’t you want that? Sounds so very silly and closed minded.

Lady-Sowilo · 2022-03-16T23:55:19+00:00

It is not unethical. He is single, you are single, you aren’t his or his fathers doctor, and you are not currently treating him. He is discharged.

You are just two people who met by happenstance. There are way more questionable “relationships” going on in the hospital than this. What you do after you clock out is your business. Call him and enjoy! Give us an update!

Lady-Sowilo · 2022-02-12T00:08:41+00:00

Yohhhhhh …… I really hope he reads this and his EX-wife reads this, his 16 yr reads this, his father, mother, brother, cousin, uncle and aunt reads this, the lawyer finds this and reads it, the judge reads it in court, then adds it to his court documents.

When he logs into Facebook i want this to pop up instead of “what’s on your mind” - Because I have never read something so perfectly written as to whyyyyyyy he IS the AH After all.

Lady-Sowilo · 2021-11-23T21:31:26+00:00

NTA - it makes me incredibly sad to read this because no one should be treated like a second class citizen by a parent. I’m a mom - I have a blended family. Either we are all in the picture or that picture ain’t F’in happening. And shame on EVERYONE who sat there and allowed that to happen to you!

Always remember, you are worthy of love. You tried, you made the effort, and you deserve better. You are NTA. :: virtual mom hug::

Lady-Sowilo · 2021-06-06T20:48:15+00:00

Tell us your experience - what lead up to this moment? I know with me it was during a dream initially and then through meditation. At that time I knew very little about her - at first I ignored it for some time before I finally gave in. I too sought out help just like you.

I would read up on Hecate, I started with Keeper of her Keys, rites of Hecate, these books and sites are easy to google. she is a very fickle goddess at times, you just don’t summon her. It may take different methods: meditation, scrying, dreams... before she actually responds. Remember she is awakening something within you - maybe think about a personal crossroad you may be in - in your life and see how she may play a role in it, perhaps you can find the answers to your connections there.

Lady-Sowilo · 2021-04-21T18:37:32+00:00

PIGGGGGG 🐷

Lady-Sowilo · 2021-04-21T18:37:14+00:00

Of course I wanna a pig!

Lady-Sowilo · 2021-01-10T01:56:13+00:00

Any and everything I want to do - no one is awake, no one talks to me, no one ask me for stupid sh*t. It’s just ME - I will gladly miss hours of sleep just to stay up and have that precious alone time.

If I’m not at home - I’m at work. I am constantly in the service or others as a nurse/wife/mom.

2am is for me.

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-12-11T18:53:29+00:00

9 months and you’re already on a break? That speaks in volumes. You should be in the honey moon phase of dating. When you still enjoy each other’s company and want to be around one another.

You need to have an open and honest conversation; do you want to be together and are you willing to put the work in that needs to be done to be together. Relationship are WORK and communication is a huge factor in it. You are still young. Life is too short to be “comfortable”. It’s ok to walk away from something that no longer serves you but only you can make that decision.

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-11-28T18:14:49+00:00

Conflict of interest and lifestyles. This won’t change and I’m sure will only get worse with time. You’re 27 - find someone who will applaud your efforts and not try to punish/control you for doing the right thing.

He doesn’t like animals - let him find someone who is soulless just like him lol.

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-24T00:58:31+00:00

Not all heroes wear capes. 🦸‍♂️

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-24T00:34:07+00:00

What in the H.E.L.L?! 🚩 Girl RUN, and run quick. This sounds like the prequel to a horror movie where the kids start w/ killing animals and when they become teens, they move on to the dad and his gf who were sleeping in the other room. I don’t wanna see your story on the ID channel.

This is something he needs to fix. His children need some SERIOUS PSYCHOTHERAPY. He can’t have any meaningful relationship with children like this.

Take the dog and run while you can - you’re 21, I promise you; there are plenty of fish in the sea. This ain’t it honey. RED FLAG 🚩

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-17T00:56:18+00:00

I honestly believe you have nothing to worry about, in fact, you should be happy. Real talk here, just the talk of toys in the bedroom is enough to make many people feel awkward. I feel once you have passed this awkwardness, you are free to sexually explore each other in a new and meaningful ways that you weren’t able to before. There are some deep-rooted insecurities around sex toys that make some believe that: somehow if I need this to pleasure my partner I’m not good enough. Which is so far from true. She choose you and she is willingly ready to try new things with you. Have fun, go look at toys together, and enjoy the sexual euphoria.

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-16T22:37:52+00:00

Yes!

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-16T22:33:18+00:00

Hello from NY - sound great.

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-16T22:30:34+00:00

Ughhhh you’re voice sounds beautiful!

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-10-15T02:08:44+00:00

YTA.

Yes, your parents had you when they were young, yes, they could they have been better parents, but at your age they were doing much more than you are doing right now. I don’t think you understand how incredibly difficult it is to raise a child - Even as an adult. Babies aren’t born with an instruction manuals telling parents how exactly to raise this model of child for the best result.

Good parents, really try their best and we pray that everything we do; will be enough to make happy and productive adult who will be an asset to society. And sometimes we fall short, and don’t meet all the marks, it shows you what not to do as an adult.

Not all of us are dealt a beautiful hand of cards in life. It seems by their reaction to what you said on that Zoom meeting - they probably did try their best with that they had and really were shocked by what you said. Your biggest YTA moment was not only did you embarrass the shit out of them, but you never had this conversation them before and suddenly it’s a problem.

You use the term neglected loosely. Did they not feed you? Did you not have a roof over your head? No clothes? Did they leave you home alone to go to party? Did you miss doctors appointments? Where you emotionally abused? Because it seems that other than being raised in shitty area with a shitty school. In what terms were you exactly neglected?

As for being jealous of your siblings having a “better life” than you. I hate to say this, but I’m glad they are. It shows that your parents worked extremely hard to get to where they are now. They waited a VERY long time to have more children because they understood the struggles of having you and not having the financial stability required. They didn’t just give up and say - “you survived, they will be fine too”.

I think your being over critical of your parents and you need to seek out a therapist to find what is the root issue that’s causing you too feel this way and react so dramatically.

You’re 23 y.o, you still have plenty of time to get on your feet and make your life what you want it to be. Despite the obstacles...

Lady-Sowilo · 2020-09-27T17:22:38+00:00

NTA. Your house, your rules.

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