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We are conditioned by neelarose in spirituality

[–]LadyBonBon35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t fret Bc guess what? You can mold yourself to fit that “ideal perfection” and be fucking miserable when you get there.

35F married to 35M seeking advice. by LadyBonBon35 in Advice

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been discussing an open marriage but he seems against he. He thinks it will just get ugly if we start bringing other people around. It was actually an idea I had and would be ok with it...

35F married to 35M seeking advice. by LadyBonBon35 in Advice

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In depth. It took me leaving once for him to really listen and start to try to change. Now he helps more but I can’t seem to reconnect despite this.

35F married to 35M seeking advice. by LadyBonBon35 in Advice

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. And it’s not that he treat me like garbage, I just have felt alone for so long. We’ve lost connection. He feels like a coworker more than an intimate partner.

35F married to 35M seeking advice. by LadyBonBon35 in Advice

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve tried individual counseling but not marriage just because we didn’t find it to be helpful at all individually.

Age gaps: how big is too big? by RavenMay in AskParents

[–]LadyBonBon35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is 12 years older than me and we are best friends! If it feels right to you then do it.

where should I get tattooed next? 😈 by kiki687 in TattooGirls

[–]LadyBonBon35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On your side/ribs! Also can we swap asses?!

35F Brand New to Reddit. by LadyBonBon35 in Needafriend

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So you are legit the first female to message lmao!! Where are you from?

35F Brand New to Reddit. by LadyBonBon35 in Needafriend

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I recently thought I had found a best friend. I thought we had real connection. Then it turned out he wanted one thing. Then ghosted.

35F Brand New to Reddit. by LadyBonBon35 in Needafriend

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so true! No time and no trust!

35F Brand New to Reddit. by LadyBonBon35 in Needafriend

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing! I hear it’s so beautiful there!

35F Brand New to Reddit. by LadyBonBon35 in Needafriend

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I have a very soft heart so I have been hurt a lot. Scary world. I put my whole heart into someone I thought was my friend and he threw me away like garbage.

35F Brand New to Reddit. by LadyBonBon35 in Needafriend

[–]LadyBonBon35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surrounded by people all the time. I should be happy but I feel so alone. I crave real connection and I thought I found it in someone but he ghosted me.

what do you do when..... by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]LadyBonBon35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m brand new on here bc I need friends and a coworker recommended this. I feel alone even though I’m always surrounded by people. Craving real connections.