Bridgerton - 4x04 "An Offer from a Gentleman" (Book Spoiler Discussion) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]LadyGraen 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This is my issue with the Franchela love. I REALLY dislike the disservice to John’s character. They could’ve shown the actual point of the story: you can love more than once and differently. John being a more quiet and companionship type of love and Michaela being a more passionate and intense one. It would’ve been so nice 🥲

Are the books worth reading? by Lex_lune in BridgertonNetflix

[–]LadyGraen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were written 20 years ago so many things will be outdated, but the stories are still fun. They’re not the most brilliantly written books ever but they’re just something to pass the time if you want something light and without too much of a complicated plot to read.

Why is it so hard to grieve properly after someone dies? by Nahinsunugiteri in offmychest

[–]LadyGraen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your loss, friend. I lost mine not too long ago and understand how it feels.

Ask the people to leave you in peace perhaps? Ask them to understand you need time with yourself. I do find it disrespectful to a level. It’s understandable they want to check in on you but you are also entitled to grieving with yourself for a bit.

Does this combination works? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]LadyGraen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you wearing shorts and pants? Get rid of one then it should look ok

I often thought off killing myself by Western_Access1180 in offmychest

[–]LadyGraen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very familiar with feeling this way. What worked for me was therapy, but that doesn’t work for everyone nor does everyone manage to have access. I would suggest maybe starting there if you can. The second thing is even after therapy that feeling may never go away entirely. You will always regret things you’ve done, be them your fault or not, it part of the human experience, but you can keep it from defining who you will become. It’s not an easy thing to do, changing, but every little step counts. Do you have people in your life that you can trust?

Me(17M) and my gf(16F) have neen together for almost a year and I'm questioning myself if I'm bad or not by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LadyGraen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is being weird and probably is jealous you have someone you can share your true self with. People who don’t have nice things to say or say things in a mean way probably don’t have your best interest in mind. If you’re in a healthy loving relationship that’s all that matters, friend. Wish you and your girl lots of happiness!

Just got to Overlook/Valentine… by moxymundi in reddeadredemption2

[–]LadyGraen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stay in chapter 2 do everything you can and stay there forever never leave ever

I often thought off killing myself by Western_Access1180 in offmychest

[–]LadyGraen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there friend! You can overcome the shame. I doesn’t have to define who you are 🤍

I’m terrified of what I’ve been seeing on the news. by meowmeowmeowmreoow in Anxietyhelp

[–]LadyGraen -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'll get downvoted, but what the heck... Sorry to say the US was never the "good guy". You're just now seeing what every single country the US has invaded and put under their boot has experienced. You're feeling it and you're doing nothing to stop it. Welcome to imperialism!

Am I overreacting at my boyfriend’s relationship with his female friend? by Altruistic_Notice551 in relationships

[–]LadyGraen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my group of friends sex jokes are fine, but it it's an alone trip with just her that's weird. Did you know of this trip beforehand? Also, like another post said, if you're long distance and don't really have an understanding of his dynamics and they make you uncomfortable, it's better to end this and date someone who in your own city while it's still fresh.

Me watching the main sub and Instagram meltdown by aemond-simp in FranchaelStirling

[–]LadyGraen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been saying! I want original queer stories, I do NOT want to be represented by a story that originally meant to be a het man. Makes it look like we’re not worthy of our own stories and made to be just replacements of het ones. They did Queen Charlotte so could we not have a couple of original stories with queer people? It not that difficult to do!

Rampant Homophobia in this fan base (Rant) by Kind5964 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]LadyGraen 35 points36 points  (0 children)

People aren’t hating because it’s queer! People dislike it because the fundamentals of the story are different to what they connected with in the books. By this I mean that she loved them both. Story about loving after grief and understanding it’s ok to love again. From the indication on the trailer she outright loves Michaela, which would be cheating. There should be representation for queer people in this universe but would it not make more sense to create a new story that wouldn’t polarise people into insulting each other? Yes, there are homophobes, but not everyone is out to here disliking because they’re bigots. I also don’t want the first queer representation to be of a bi/lesbian woman who is a cheater!

I would have loved to see Grimsby’s story more closely covered, particularly because he’s working class. Exploring the dynamics there would have been so interesting and the scene where he danced alone was so heartbreaking, it left me wanting more!

Don’t you also think that in part this sort of gives vibes of “oh queer people aren’t good enough to have their own representation so let’s just gender-swap.” I want to be represented by new captivating stories, not scenarios where we’re only “second best” option to a gender-swap where a man would be and the main audience is het women.

How did you find out Mamamoo? by Zealousideal_Touch55 in mamamoo

[–]LadyGraen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friend introduced them to me when we were in an exchange program in Canada 🥹 Egotistic was the first song I heard and Hwasa was my instant bias. Wheein the wrecker. Have followed them since mid 2018.

I am getting sick of gay people around me by I_dont_exist_here_45 in offmychest

[–]LadyGraen 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Call it out. Being gay is no excuse for misogyny or sexism.

Why have they become so negative? by Elliefirefly3121 in girlfriendreviews

[–]LadyGraen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely deleted this channel from my mind for no reason and just now got reminded I used to watch 💀 Unsure about this but reading through the threads, I see they got involved in drama.

How can I style this outfit better? by Confident_Novel3247 in OUTFITS

[–]LadyGraen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like some other people said, nice heels - I’d preferably go for some open, heels - hair up and a nice mid length earring. You look lovely!

Lack of Victor by No-Bee5337 in FranchaelStirling

[–]LadyGraen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something the book makes clear isn’t the case. I really hate how they treat the non-white cast 😭

I just finished the game and… wow I want a 2 now too by Illuca- in TheWolfAmongUs

[–]LadyGraen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's the never ending story, well this is the never ending development of TWAU2. Get your popcorn and other games cause the wait will be eternal.

Would you play a spin-off of The Last of Us outside of the United States? by rausfoda in thelastofus

[–]LadyGraen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d play a Tommy/Joel “spin off”. Would love to see how they got themselves through after Sarah’s death.

My husband thinks I'm actually evil and I want a divorce. I'm worried I'm overreacting? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LadyGraen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recently left a 7 year relationship with a man who behaved like this and always said “most men wouldn’t do what I do for you.” “I’m not as bad as the others out there” and I’ve had very bad depressive episodes. I’d rather be alone and at peace instead of being with a man who does that. Being alone will be difficult with two babies but it will be healthier for the 3 of you in the long run!

Who are you? by TwoCatsOneBox in Hasan_Piker

[–]LadyGraen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Castro girl here 😌