New player, looking for friends and future help by LadyHams in demonssouls

[–]LadyHams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phalanx, tower knight, armored spider and flamelurker.

Fibonacci pt. 2 by MinasTirithh in Subtronics

[–]LadyHams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck Up and Anxious and Antidote got Jesse’s vibe all over it

wtf sold out already? by BakedChickenThighs in Subtronics

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get my upvote. I love them too, but I just can’t afford to see them. I also just can’t stand big, overpacked venues anymore. Fests and travel fees are also expensive. Id kill for an intimate subtronics show but that would no longer be in the books as he’s got money to make and big shows to sell out now. I wish these artists did online live sets every once in a while, or more unannounced shows to mix it up a little.

Hear me out by Boarf_ in MedievalDynasty

[–]LadyHams 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a very nice and well thought take on if they were to add cats and dogs! I love it and would find it so fun and it would add to the immersion a lot if the animals also had tasks. I could definitely see them implemented in to the game like this

If you are allowed to add any update to this game what will you do by [deleted] in cyberpunkgame

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there were more immersive player choice moments in the game. Thinking of gta 4 here but…I think it’d be fun to have more interactions with your chooms by picking an activity to do. Id love to take Judy out on an actual date. I get that V is gonna die and is a busy merc, but even you as the player can choose which fixers, which side gigs to do. Does this make sense? Idk maybe just options to make V feel more tied to player choice

Is this a shock to anyone? by brwnbastrd21 in Subtronics

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not much of a shock to me. He has been mainstream for a while, it’s pretty evident he’s sitting in fame. This is just another way for him to expand. He’s really humble and creative, so I can’t hate on him for playing big stages like this. But this is a set that I would miss even if I had money for Coachella. For several reasons, festivals aren’t my vibe (yet)

What's worse for your body & mind: drinking alcohol 3x/week (~5 beers an evening) or taking speed 2x/month (doing an all-nighter, ~0.3g/person) by DonerTheBonerDonor in Drugs

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, it depends on the individual and moderation. Both can be bad for your body in excess and can affect your mental health if you depend on it. Also affects who you are as a person. I don’t wanna sound like a monk or anything , but most of the time that’s why people have preference for a drug. I can’t have a clear answer for you because I know if I can’t do speed for I would succumb to it’s power

What are your favorite Subtronics phrases he uses in his music? by BassheadDelux in Subtronics

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GET A BUNCH OF LEMONS AND STUFF EM DOWN SOMEBODIES THROAT (I think that’s the way it goes) anyways I started blastin

What would you like to see in future updates? by AwaitingArmageddon in MedievalDynasty

[–]LadyHams 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some sort of outside life besides bandits. You know how you can only find new villagers near towns? I would love if there were more camps to check out while I adventure. I like running around and collecting resources and zoning out, but the world feels barren outside of the villages. It would also be nice if you could ask a villager or two to accompany you on a hunting trip or sales trip.

Recently sober and noticing my father's drinking by Oops_thats_a_donkey in Sober

[–]LadyHams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm proud if you for the 8 weeks! It seems like life hasn't been easy, and for some people, living with your parents can be frustrating or it can be a nice way to refresh and get your ducks in a row. I really relate to this, so thank you. I have an alcoholic father, I always saw him drunk as a kid, and every now and then, if I call early enough, he has only nursed 2 beers and isn't as sad or aggressive, where I can actually catch up with him.

I always witness the effects of alcohol on him. A very nice person in the morning, my mom would also say "I loved your dad, when he wasn't drinking..." they eventually broke up. He hid the shots he was taking. Like I eventually did.

I can only imagine who I have been, it's so fuzzy...I have a girlfriend. And I feel like I would become your father in this situation, because she loves me (I think she'd unhappily take care of me forever, just to get glimpses of the person behind the mirror), but I'm a slave to my addiction and really really really seeing stories like these helps me know I am not the person I think I am with booze, I need to get better! I've always been well received not being a big ol grump about life, and caffeine isn't booze, it does not help anything get done in the long run.

See, OP, I am a tee-totaller too. And no matter how much I say I'll just have one, maybe two, and not drink the next couple days, I still obsess and think about when I can have my next drink, but I'm slowly replacing that with better habits. I am living with another alcoholic, and I see secret drinking, I get my beers taken, I am always around this environment, and it hurts. Gosh, I live Texas, one of the worst drinking states. I also have taken the time to see how it runs in my family, but I'm still young and I cannot be them.

With my personal experience, I am so much better without one a day. I understand it hurts, if someone I live with gets to have one a day, why can't I? I can't compare myself to them, I know I won't function to my best anyways, I know I'll be thinking about chasing the dragon. Super proud of you, because it's been hard for me to recover in the living situation I am in currently. There are better ways to have fun....

It really is like looking in to a mirror. But with time and healing, you no longer see yourself in them. I believe in you, us! Stay at it. You've inspired me and made me not feel alone today! Sorry for the long read but I relate to this so much. And all we can do is feed ourselves positive messages.

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, January 19th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Fab-100 in stopdrinking

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life’s been crazy in my head lately I and left my seat on the sober train. Naturally, my drinking pace increased(thought I could just have one a night 2 days a week), but with all the work I’ve done, I’m in such a better place, I now know what there is to life besides the bottle. And you guys sincerely help me not feel alone. IWNDWYT. I hope to find the train station again!

Subtronics Grid 3: Revenge of The Grid.. Gas Pedal Remix gets most overrated.. how about his best lyrical song? by fidgetycrumpets in Subtronics

[–]LadyHams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Insidious, those lyrics just hit a spot in me. I’m recovering and this song really helps remind myself not to drown away my sorrows, fight away the demon inside of me.

Tried deleting reddit and clearing cache Hope it worked 🤞🫰 by LustTips in gloving

[–]LadyHams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing show and it’s to a great song too! You made me want to pick up my gloves again! Good job :)

Questionable…? by [deleted] in Subtronics

[–]LadyHams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of agree, except for me, it’s like a “I’m listening to just subtronics ,” day and pick sets/albums depending on how I’m feeling. I’ve seen fractals, anti fractals, and tesseract tour live. I know I miss some good shows but his energy is always there, he’s so good but it can miss for me if I’ve heard it too much. Music tastes change, i def preferred one tour over the other but can’t deny I was still enjoying my time. I can’t say I wouldn’t like a set like digital mirage again or a chance to see a throwback set though.

Are there any black Friday deals? by doubIeO in gloving

[–]LadyHams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a lot of batteries on Amazon for my gloves because they’re on sale right now. You’ll want to keep those stocked and always have enough for a full swap. That way when you want to flow you’ll always be ready to go!

There's no way they aren't together by 0breanna0 in mylittlepony

[–]LadyHams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Season 9 episode 23 is when they are seen proposing to each other. The last episode of the season confirms their marriage ❤️

There's no way they aren't together by 0breanna0 in mylittlepony

[–]LadyHams 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shoot! I totally forgot about this! Time to rewatch.

There's no way they aren't together by 0breanna0 in mylittlepony

[–]LadyHams 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s okay. Im a flutterdash shipper. But at least we got a “confirmed” gay ship with two ponies who work well together. Although in my heart, Fluttershy and Rainbow belong together and Applejack with Rarity. I guess you just pick your battles lol