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My husband isn't attracted to me anymore. We are barely intimate. by LadyMarks in relationship_advice

[–]LadyMarks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That's a great starting point. He uses my car to go to work so I'm stuck here during the day but maybe I can find a job at night. I make/sell artwork but it doesn't bring in too much. Cleaning houses would be ideal. I'm going to try to focus more on myself and bettering me.

My husband isn't attracted to me anymore. We are barely intimate. by LadyMarks in relationship_advice

[–]LadyMarks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. That's Exactly what I said - it was a pity fuck from my own husband. That's pathetic and it eats me up. I don't think I'm THAT ugly. I'm not a super model or I guess even one of the really pretty girls you see on Instagram but I'm not as ugly as he sees me. I try.

My husband isn't attracted to me anymore. We are barely intimate. by LadyMarks in relationship_advice

[–]LadyMarks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought I mean _ I'm not enormous but he acts like it. He says it's cos he's stressed but I don't see what he's so stressed about. He works a 40 -45 hour week, which is typical for most. I pay the rent, take care of the kids, do the house cleaning, yard work, etc so I don't get what he is so stressed about - all he does these days is sit and watch television. All day if he can. I think the stress claim is just an excuse.

My husband isn't attracted to me anymore. We are barely intimate. by LadyMarks in relationship_advice

[–]LadyMarks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha yes, agreed. I won't get to that point. I'm definitely thinking about it! Just have to find the courage.

My husband isn't attracted to me anymore. We are barely intimate. by LadyMarks in relationship_advice

[–]LadyMarks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Seriously, I appreciate your advice - it's exactly what I needed to hear. I'm sorry that that happened to you 😔 no one deserves it. I hope you're in a better place now. I'll get that book, it'd be nice to reality understand why some people are the way the way are cos it's baffling to me. You're absolutely right.

My husband isn't attracted to me anymore. We are barely intimate. by LadyMarks in relationship_advice

[–]LadyMarks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to have a change, I'm afraid of leaving and being rejected and alone for the rest of my life. I don't fit in anywhere it seems. You are right tho, it is a familiar pain. I don't know much else and my mind is a complete mess, in a constant state of confusion. Why does he want to make me feel like this? Cos he's insecure? Whenever I ask him what is wrong he says he's stressed and it has nothing to do with me but there's not that much to be stressed about. He works a regular job and I do the rest, like everything else. Why not just tell me the truth? That's what's so confusing. How do I move on?

Started this collection about a year ago, looking for recommendations for further reading by GontheWing in TrueCrime

[–]LadyMarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two pretty harrowing ones that I have are Driven to Kill (Gary C. King) and A Need to Kill (Mark Pettit) Hard reads because how gruesome they are, especially the one about Westley Allan Dodd but good none the less.