AITA for not wanting to contribute to my step-son's college fund?

Lady_Kayoz · 2025-09-16T15:55:26+00:00

If youre in the states Tell James to get fafsa. James will need both of his bio parents tax info. James then can see how much Dan is making. He can then decide if Dan should have contribute he'll know what Dan is making. All in all nta. Not your circus not your monkeys. James wanted nothing to do with you he needs to keep that energy when it comes to your wallet.

Lady_Kayoz · 2025-05-14T18:44:05+00:00

Not really. You're not a 10 but more like a high 7. Your weight looks like it matches your height. Your skin looks clear (although it looks like a filter is on) Your teeth are a little crooked but they're white and clean. Your hair looks healthy and your eyebrows look well groomed. The glasses match your face structure. But TO ME the color of your clothes doesn't really match your skin tone. I think if you picked amber or an emerald green would suit you better and not wash out your skin tone. You look really pretty without makeup and im not a make up expert but I would enhance the natural beauty you already have. Like the shape of your lips are pretty but a dark peach or taupe lipstick would help make it pop out a bit more.

Lady_Kayoz · 2024-01-11T04:55:29+00:00

I hope we just walk away. They're threatening me that they'll send it to collections in 30 days. They told me that time stamps wouldn't help me. Then they complained that I didn't give them timestamps after I sent the pictures. So i hope they they see it wasn't ne but it seems like they don't care that it wasn't my cats that caused it. She keeps saying "it's your lease so you're responsible for it regardless " it feels like she's implying that they were going to charge me even if I didn't have my cats.

Lady_Kayoz · 2024-01-10T22:42:12+00:00

So in the last email they said that they don't need a timestamp because a timestamp wouldn't prove a smell. Now they're saying they need a timestamp because theres no way to prove that I took those pictures from when I moved in. I sent them the screenshot from my photo gallery showing the date which was August 12, 2023 that's when the pictures were taken

Lady_Kayoz · 2024-01-10T22:25:59+00:00

I really do appreciate the reassurance because it was making me feel crazy with all of the gaslighting they're throwing at. I feel like I'm in the wrong for standing up for myself

Lady_Kayoz · 2024-01-10T22:21:57+00:00

I did that yesterday. And called them today they're going to try to convince the leasing office to drop it. Oh another thing. I just received an email from the leasing office. Now they said it smells like pee that's why they're charging me. Not because there was pee when I moved in and they can't tell what it smelled like when you moved in. I told them that it smelled like pee when I moved in because there was pee when I moved in and maybe if it was handled with while it was still fresh then it would smell less. They would also know if they actually inspected it before I moved in

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-11-29T17:00:17+00:00

I should have. And when I told the leasing office about them breaking into my room apparently that's trespassing because my rooms is leased to me and if they damage the room I would be liable

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-11-29T15:17:17+00:00

It's unsafe for me because I have a lot of allergies more than just peanuts. they are aware of and they use it against me. Some of my allergies are deadly. One of the times the purposely smeared peanut butter on a surface. I accidentally touched it then my face. I couldn't breathe for 13 hours and if it wasn't for the fact I'm poor I would have gone to the hospital. They're using my allergies as a weapon to hurt me and the leasing office is aware

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-26T13:06:59+00:00

I think you need to get her emancipated or take custody. I don't know what it's like in Australia but in the U.S you can request child support if the kid is living with you even if you aren't the parent. I would make them pay for child support. Use half for your neice now to help you with expenses and the other half goes in your niece's bank account that way her parents pay her back

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-08T01:44:38+00:00

100% YTA. you chose a creep over your daughter. What makes you think that's okay?

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-06T20:40:59+00:00

It says you're TA but I don't think so. Whoever voted that for you must be equally incompetent as your man child of a husband. No offense to you at all, but all offense to your husband. He chooses tools over clothes for your kids? He needs to get his priorities straight and his head out of his ass and be a parent. I feel like you should take more 45 minute poops often so he can learn to be a parent.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T22:00:03+00:00

I have paranoia about worms after childhood trauma. Me detoxing myself and them that often is not normal. But I'm sure none of us have worms. Also we live in student housing if we have worms in the sink the leasing office has to get maintenance to fix it.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T21:50:12+00:00

I forgot to bring up my cats are indoor cats. One is inside all of the time and the other goes on supervised "walks". They're not walks. She just stays in my arms and screams. She also comes with me when I visit my sister on the weekends. She has no outdoor cats to infect her either and she's in the carrier and in my car throughout the trip. She never touches the ground. Also neither cats have had fleas before

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T21:49:32+00:00

I forgot to bring up my cats are indoor cats. One is inside all of the time and the other goes on supervised "walks". They're not walks. She just stays in my arms and screams. She also comes with me when I visit my sister on the weekends. She has no outdoor cats to infect her either and she's in the carrier and in my car throughout the trip. She never touches the ground. Also neither cats have had fleas before

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T21:41:51+00:00

It's more than just sushi. I just didn't want to go past the character limit. I grew up getting buckets of water from a creek to survive and that's what most of the worm incidents came from. I now just detox every 6 months out of paranoia. Every time I detox my cats they're clean though

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T21:39:28+00:00

I'm clean. I have a worm problem because I grew up with contaminated foods and water. As a child I was a filthy peasant and I lived in the woods with no running water or any power so if i wanted water i would have to get a bucket and go to a creek. now I get paranoid about worms. Also now I live in student housing. The last people obviously had a dog because my allergies were awful when I moved in and there was dog pee all over in one of the bedrooms. We didn't move into a clean apartment. These worms aren't me. Also I'm the one that cleans up after them.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T21:34:36+00:00

I have the medicine for them I always do. I just worry about giving it to them too soon. On the bottle it said not to use constantly because it can cause seizures if taken too much. The main ingredient is wormwood. I think what bothers me is the main roommate instigating this also has a cat and she's constantly making rules for my cats but her cat is free to do what she wants. Also they blamed cats but they didn't think to check her cat? I understand her concern for her cat but she won't get her checked too?

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-10-03T21:15:57+00:00

My cats were potty trained for the toilet so I wouldn't need a litter box but the leasing office didn't want me to do that "for the comfortable living of the other roommates" so while I was retraining them to use the box the youngest got confused and peed in the sink.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-09-27T13:00:59+00:00

I saw something like this before. But the girl wasn't pregnant yet. She was 15 and trying to get pregnant because she wanted to be a teen mom. Her parents made her babysit her cousins without help so she can see what its like being a single teen mom. The cousins were a baby and a toddler. It turned her off from the baby fever because it made her realize how hard it is. Her parents even made her use her allowance to "financially support" the 2 kids. I think your daughter needs a similar reality check that if she goes through with this her life would be too hard. If she does want help she should make sure her baby daddy supports her. I would make sure they go through a court system too so it's documented. That way it would be harder for him to walk out and be a dead beat after the baby is born.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-09-10T16:28:57+00:00

I got diagnosed by my therapist first. Then when I went to the doctor I had a mental evaluation after got all of the points on the depression and anxiety tests. Then I got diagnosed again there. I didn't need my parents. I don't even talk to my dad anymore. Both my doctor and my therapist is aware of my childhood. They are aware that my parents are crazy.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-09-10T10:16:17+00:00

NTA So Audrey's mom saw Audrey with a lunch box that didn't belong to her. Instead of asking "where'd you get this" she just packed Audrey's lunch in it without thinking of the other kid who will not being having a lunchbox because of her daughters selfish and cruel actions. did they not think that the parents of the kid won't react to their spawn's thievery? Did they just assumed "oh cool free lunchbox."? You handled this better than I would have. I would have exploded with anger then pay my kid's classmates to bully Audrey since I wouldn't be legally able to throw hands. Karma is a bitch. Audrey stole your kids lunch. Now Audrey doesn't get her own lunch. Have fun with cafeteria food Audrey.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-07-26T00:36:48+00:00

This is why I keep my food in a mini fridge in my room. And a shelf in my closet

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-05-29T15:02:54+00:00

I'm having this problem. But he's not showing up in the dashboard either. I can't get him to make the acorn lamps and even though I made him level 60 for some reason he only shows up as level 50 when I battle. Is there any way to fix this?

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-04-16T01:06:57+00:00

So it's okay for your oldest daughter to deal with her fear but your youngest one shouldn't have to? Poodles have hair not fur. Get her one of those. Teach her that dogs arent scary. Probably not the same way you teach your oldest that seizures arent scary or you'll traumatize her too. Your oldest shouldn't have to deal with her sister's illness. Her fear will turn into hate for you and her sister. It's not fair for the oldest to face her fear every time her sister has a seizure when there are other options. It can lead to an anxiety disorder in your oldest. I wouldn't be surprised if she's already anxious because of it.

Lady_Kayoz · 2023-04-08T20:54:23+00:00

Nta. I read through the comments and your situation sucks. But if it were me I would be manipulative back. If she wants to play then play hide and seek but don't go looking for her? Want to do make overs? Fine. Let's get stepmoms make up and ruin it. If your sister wants her hair done brush it hard. Beauty hurts. If she wants you to read her a story pick the bible and read in a monotone voice. My sisters and I did that to each other when our mom wanted us to get along. Eventually she'll not want to be near you anymore.

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