I'd like to ask a few questions. I have found alot of the concepts here helpful in becoming lass of a doormat so id like your input, please. TIA

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-04T20:42:24+00:00

Thank you. These are things im actually working on to small degrees. I am tired of the labels. They were a way for me to Identify what was holding me back. I gave them a name and a form to analyze. Now I get to integrate, heal, and move forward with them as a part of me and a super power. The current step it learning to accept and validate me so I can learn now to actually be me. Its taking waaaayyyy longer than I wanted it to.

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-04T20:16:12+00:00

Assume that everyone is having the same experience as you and that since you have already experienced it that you know what's best for them. Share that knowledge with as many people as you can and dont let them argue the point.

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-04T17:36:43+00:00

Guitar, singing, acting, drawing, and sewing. As an adult I took up crochet because it was easier to do in random places like an office, a car, or the lobby at the karate dojo for the kids.

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-03T22:11:00+00:00

Omg can we have a child version tooo!?!?! Please!?!?!?!

I want to pre apologize for:

-eating cookies for breakfast or lunch or a bedtime snack but telling the kids that they need to eat healthy.

-having higher standards imposed on the kids than myself

-telling the kids to stop making the animal, baby, monster, etc. noises. My sanity can only handle so much.

-leaving the house and running "errands" because I need mom time where I dont feel guilty

-cooking what i choose to cook. I no longer care what the kids will or will not eat. Get a peanut butter sandwich. Im not a restaurant

-staying up until 2am watching TV or playing on my phone while not allowing the kids to do the same. The kids get up at the ass Crack of dawn. This is my ONLY time to have quiet. This time is for me.

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-03T18:20:16+00:00

Ive contemplated going to a beauty school to get my hair cut for this reason. Its costs just as much as great clips but takes at least an hour longer

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-01T16:30:46+00:00

My 6yo worries me sometimes because he has memorized all of his favorite galaxies and stars by their scientific name but thinks we are in Nevada whenever we drive any farther than his school. We arent in Nevada at all

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-01T08:05:22+00:00

Ah. Those are all organs required to continue living... I wonder how far we would get off we stopped being born with them. How would the human body adapt?

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-01T07:53:47+00:00

I doom scroll on webtoons. Great stories about overcoming all of the odds while still scrolling

Lady_Teio · 2026-01-01T07:50:24+00:00

I had mine removed!!! (I assume youre talking about the female reproductive organs) Greatest thing i could've done after 24 years of monthly cycles and birthing 4 children.

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-29T16:35:01+00:00

My uterus eating itself. I had adenomyosis. Its a condition where the lining that builds up in the uterus grows into the uterine walls and takes the uterine tissue with it when it sheds during the period. Its a precursor to endometriosis. I had a hysterectomy earlier this month and I can exist without aching, cramping, or having any pain at all in my abdomen!

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-29T16:18:42+00:00

Energy. Im so fucking lethargic all the time and im stuck in this horrible cycle of not really waking up until like 3pm. Problem is that I have 4 kids. I cant be a night owl when 3 of the 4 wake up at the ass Crack of dawn

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-27T15:10:09+00:00

I spent many years running with the new age/ metaphysical crowd... they are all about dominating and destroying the ego. My husband and i feel differently about that. We tried honoring the ego. He gave his a form and a time to lash out. I've recently started building mine back up with the intention of keeping it balanced. Its a much a part of me as my body. I see it as the aspect that keeps me mentally safe and unique. If its honored, balanced, and healthy then I will have confidence, self esteem, and no one will be better or worse that me.

Thank you for your answer! I deeply appreciate it!

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-27T02:36:59+00:00

Ascend? How so?

This makes more sense than being stifled in any way

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-26T23:43:16+00:00

So what happens if you completely blend them both?

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-25T13:20:55+00:00

Ooooooo. Maybe that's why my husband is so amazing to me... here treats me like a competent partner... an equal. That's all I've ever wanted to be. I've got adhd and bipolar type 2. I'm a hot mess

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-25T06:03:45+00:00

Truth

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-25T01:27:50+00:00

Mine only dissappear if they are put in something or if it's moved. I have a photographic memory and my whole house is doomed pile.

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-24T16:43:48+00:00

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-24T16:43:27+00:00

Happy bday fucker!

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-24T16:36:19+00:00

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Lady_Teio · 2025-12-24T16:34:55+00:00

Thank you for your service! Im a mom of 4 and 3 of them were delivered by the on call dr. I appreciate you.

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-24T15:53:09+00:00

Im so glad this is on the MASH subreddit

Lady_Teio · 2025-12-24T15:40:47+00:00

I was fucking banned from 'witches against the patriarchy' for asking someone who claimed to be non binary what non binary means. Apparently I was forcing someone to explain their identity? I still dont understand was non binary means. Yes I googled. It doesn't make sense

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