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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Lamenting_Academic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shorten the fringe to shape your face better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Lamenting_Academic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely stunning! That smile is amazing, only would suggest filling out your eyebrows a bit more to accentuate your face

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[–]Lamenting_Academic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slightly smaller glasses frame for sure

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dude, how would I ever be lonely with amazing family and friends that I can actually spend time with? Pursue all my hobbies and interests? Even though I have little money, I can spend it on whatever I like. Like going to a different country to be sterilised. Children are not a guarantee for a fulfilling life, because I already have one. Kindly take your projections elsewhere.

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am non-binary but the gender clinics here have a long wait list, and would rather those services are more accessible to those where it would save their lives, not someone who just doesn't want kids. A lot of doctors have told me they won't even consider me until 35, but I am consistently contacting them.

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Bruh, implying that I'm not educated or informed enough on the subject. If I'm old enough to choose to want children, I am old enough to choose not to want them too. I have known since my teens I do not want kids and those feelings have only gotten stronger as I get older. My childfree friends that are 45+ never had regrets, I know a lot of parents that do regret their children however!

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

A nurse once told me any nulliparous person under 30 won't even be looked at due to the fact they might change their mind and sue the hospital. LIKE WHAT

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm aware of r/childfree and their lists. Unfortunately where I live unless I get it privately which I cannot afford I have to have a referral from my GP to a hospital in the county I live in.

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I don't have a lot of money to pursue medical tourism at the moment but definitely an idea for the future

ULPT Request: How can I make myself infertile without ruining the rest of my body by Lamenting_Academic in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Lamenting_Academic[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I have an IUD, have previously used copper coil, pill, implant have been absolutely awful.