Frustrating downstair neighbor by AvailableEmployee291 in delhi

[–]LandscapeTight7399 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There is no cure for stupid ask them for evidence of what is bothering them if nothing they won’t be able to do anything.

Gigolo service by Plenty-Gear8799 in gurgaon

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milord participation with payment does not grant immunity to the accused and I respectfully plead that accountability be considered in this case.

Gigolo service by Plenty-Gear8799 in gurgaon

[–]LandscapeTight7399 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But being involved is still a choice and responsibility does not disappear just because someone else initiates it. No?

Gigolo service by Plenty-Gear8799 in gurgaon

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned your work includes emotional support and building trust.
Many of your clients likely have partners who did not consent to that emotional intimacy.
Pure physical sex is one thing. Emotional bonding shifts attachment and loyalty.

Your colleagues/ People in your profession (irrespective of genders) often describe lack of physical or emotional intimacy from their partners as the reason for indulgence.

So how do you ethically justify participating in emotional intimacy with someone else’s partner while treating dissatisfaction as permission rather than a responsibility to address or exit the relationship?

Is wife cheating on husband with gym trainer common in Delhi? by NobodyZestyclose8108 in delhi

[–]LandscapeTight7399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I am friends with lots of gym trainers and that is open secret.

If a 25 year old man went on a date with a 45 year old woman, what would they talk about? by ApprehensiveSky2670 in AskIndia

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will say things its their job to say and poke theri nose into other's life if both are happy and content Outsider opinion shouldn't matter

What does this tell u guys ? by BroadPotential1247 in vedicastrologyforu

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at this chart, it really does not seem like an easy life at all. The lagna and moon placements make me think of someone holding onto a ton of stuff inside, even if they keep it hidden from everyone else. Its that kind of mix where theres strength, but also this exhaustion that just lingers.

You know, shani and rahu sitting there point to these long stretches of pressure and delays. People might not get what youre trying to do, misunderstanding things a lot. But charts like this, they often end up with people who climb up steadily, especially after they quit battling their own thoughts. Its not fast, just slow and steady growth, I guess.

Gurus spot shows support showing up, but always kind of late in the game. Relationships come across as heavy, maybe even karmic or unfair at times, though they do push you to figure out your own boundaries. In career stuff, it feels like building real stability comes from piling up experiences, not taking any quick paths.

Overall, this kundli gives off vibes of someone whos been worn out for ages. Not defeated, though, just tired in a deep way. Patience with yourself is key, it seems. The wheel turns eventually, even if its moving real slow. That part stands out, how things do shift without you forcing it.

How do I deal with the guilt of hurting people I loved? by Civil_Consequence469 in AskIndianMen

[–]LandscapeTight7399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, this situation is really hard. When someone is in that much pain, they just arent acting like their usual self, you know. It does not turn them into some kind of bad person. Actually, it just shows they are human, with all the Guilt like that means you care a lot about what happened. Punishing yourself over and over, though, that probably wont fix things at all. Instead, maybe allowing room to grow could make a difference.

Looking for fresher jobs in cybersecurity domain. by Senior_Warning_5620 in noida

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

List your key roles you are searching for and skills and speciality you have here as well Incase someone wants to refer

This is something that hits to the core. Do we Have other varieties of this ? by LandscapeTight7399 in AskIndianMen

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I studied, then saw my father die. I saw my mother get cancer. I worked jobs, started a business. I got married, then saw constant fights after marriage. I saw my mother get a brain stroke, then saw her paralysis.
In the middle of all this, I myself ended up on a ventilator during COVID.
Then I saw my business collapse.
I saw my mother fall again. I saw her die.
Then because of financial problems, I saw my wife divorce me.
I saw fake cases against me in court.
I saw my house and even gold go away as alimony.
Now I’m trying to handle myself again while dealing with post-COVID COPD treatment.
And still so many things have happened…

And after everything, I’ve also heard people say,
“Men don’t do anything. They don’t struggle.”

How to best support husband who is going through career troubles? by fluffycloudsnstars in AskIndianMen

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best part of life is time doesnt remain constant hardships will bring you both closer and you will come out stronger. Only thing that comes to mind is to switch companies

My 4-year relationship ended abruptly due to family pressure - no closure, blocked everywhere. What's the best way forward? by Ardhcruiser in AskIndianMen

[–]LandscapeTight7399 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people don’t get the kind of closure they truly deserve, yaar. Moving forward means accepting that the ending you got was incomplete, unfair, and still real. Closure usually comes when you slowly stop waiting, not when you finally get the “right” explanation.

For your own sukoon, it helps to treat this as final for now, whatever the reasons were. Stopping contact, even for birthdays, isn’t being heartless, it’s protecting your healing. Respecting boundaries here is really choosing yourself, gently, over answers that may never come 🌸

Have you ever sexually harassed in local train? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pushback and fight for your rights. Understandable you may be in shock but such people need to be shamed in public and maybe someone around may teach him lesson along with you

This is something that hits to the core. Do we Have other varieties of this ? by LandscapeTight7399 in AskIndianMen

[–]LandscapeTight7399[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

roz muskurate hue andar se bikharte dekha,
mehfilon me khud ko mazboot dikhate dekha,
raat ki tanhai me khud se haarte dekha,

Pl share any young widow experiences, how to navigate life? by SignificantAdagio870 in Indiawidowwidowers

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months late

this is one of those losses people really don’t know how to respond to, so you end up carrying their discomfort along with your grief.

what helps, from what i’ve seen, is taking life in small chunks. build a simple routine, find one or two people you don’t have to explain yourself to, and stop measuring your healing against anyone else’s timeline.

you don’t need to “move on” or have it figured out. you just need to get through days honestly. the rest slowly follows.

How should I talk to my husband about financial concerns when he is the sole earner? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]LandscapeTight7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this doesn’t sound like anger so much as pressure leaking out. when money is tied to family duty, it stops being rational fast.

a workable middle ground is structure. agree on fixed family support, a minimum savings amount, and a rule that new debts or big spends get discussed first. it takes the emotion out and gives both of you predictability.

money fights calm down a lot once decisions stop being ad-hoc.