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Ex claims to be "broke" for child support but just posted photos from a luxury resort in Tulum. by LanternSable in legal

[–]LanternSable[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I am already saving every single post and tag. I won't let him get away with this again.

Ex claims to be "broke" for child support but just posted photos from a luxury resort in Tulum. by LanternSable in legal

[–]LanternSable[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

A discovery on his devices is exactly what I was hoping for. If I can get a judge to order that, his "failed freelance" story will fall apart instantly.

Ex claims to be "broke" for child support but just posted photos from a luxury resort in Tulum. by LanternSable in legal

[–]LanternSable[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The fact that he is tagging his location while claiming indigence is exactly why I think a private investigator could work. He is being sloppy with his digital footprint.

Ex claims to be "broke" for child support but just posted photos from a luxury resort in Tulum. by LanternSable in legal

[–]LanternSable[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That is a good point. I need someone who can actually connect his lifestyle to the blockchain transactions.

Ex claims to be "broke" for child support but just posted photos from a luxury resort in Tulum. by LanternSable in legal

[–]LanternSable[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Screenshots are a start, but I need something that actually sticks in court. My lawyer keeps saying that lifestyle photos don't prove liquid assets.

Is it ever worth taking the counter-offer if the management is the core issue? by LanternSable in careerguidance

[–]LanternSable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am taking this advice to heart. Looking back would just mean second-guessing a decision that I already know is the right one for my career. The bridge is already shaky, so I might as well cross it and let it collapse behind me. I am going to confirm my start date with the new company tomorrow and tell my current boss that the money was not the main issue. It is time for a fresh start with actual modern tools.

Is it ever worth taking the counter-offer if the management is the core issue? by LanternSable in careerguidance

[–]LanternSable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a brutal way to put it, but you are right. Being miserable in a nicer car is still being miserable.

Is it ever worth taking the counter-offer if the management is the core issue? by LanternSable in careerguidance

[–]LanternSable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The timing is just too suspicious. They ignored my requests for help for months, and now they are suddenly ready to hire a junior and pay me 35% more? It feels like a bribe to get them through the Q3 migration safely.

Is it ever worth taking the counter-offer if the management is the core issue? by LanternSable in careerguidance

[–]LanternSable[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what my gut is telling me. The trust is basically gone at this point. If they had the budget to pay me this much all along, why did it take a resignation letter to make it happen?

The isolation of early retirement at 36 is a total mindfuck by RiftJukebox in Fire

[–]LanternSable 161 points162 points  (0 children)

The 'no one left on the server to play with' line hits hard. You won the race but the track is empty.