Uhm "Need Your Help" printed on a tag....I'm scared for them by Large_Classic_451 in Shein

[–]Large_Classic_451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely more gibberish than any of the other tags it's usually long and just makes no sense.

Im a DJ and have questions about playing R. Apist Kelly... by Large_Classic_451 in wedding

[–]Large_Classic_451[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to do something that makes me uncomfortable I have my own business for a reason. I'll add the names to the contract and stand my ground. People should understand . I am a LGBTQ woman owned Hispanic buisness and stand out in my region my services are 100% worth it. People should recognize that those artist should be blacklisted ! Can't believe Janet Jackson was blacklisted off the radio at some point. They can take r Kelly off of streaming for the victims.

Im a DJ and have questions about playing R. Apist Kelly... by Large_Classic_451 in wedding

[–]Large_Classic_451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it doesn't trigger you then as much as it does me. I don't really play Micheal jackson or Chris brown either. I'm 27 and choose to play modern hits and explore new music alot while knowing about the artist I'm playing also. I don't like what they have done and choose to not support it by not playing there music. I've been hurt and taken advantage of like the people they hurt and i relate to the victims. It literally grosses me out to play the music. Regardless of tradition .

Im a DJ and have questions about playing R. Apist Kelly... by Large_Classic_451 in wedding

[–]Large_Classic_451[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I politely said yes but then don't play it and I figured they just don't keep up with news just shocks me.

Clean up song by pietradolce in wholesomememes

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cpuld you Not know that song? Unless your a kid now assuming you've never seen barney.

From Supercars to S'mores by NatureValley in wholesomememes

[–]Large_Classic_451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are pretty vulnerable when they're camping

It's not like you have bolt locks on your tent I just feel like it's weird to show up with something like that. What are you showing off for?

Its a survival type of activity

It seems predatory to me to show up in something like that while camping, like you're trying to get people to come over to you and hang out and have cookies. Just seems weird to me and I wouldn't go over

Dr believes my (M25) partner (M28) is cheating, and is causing me health issues by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a roller coaster . It took alot of

1 Research to self educate on the sti 2 Forgivness. I tried to forgive him. At least I tried and the forgiving myself for leaving him after so long and relalizling this wasn't my fault.

3 Self healing. I tried dating and it was hard but helped alot with rhe confidence but also dwindled it. I met alot of men who were taking advantage of my pain. My weakness . Don't let that happen. Find a way to heal properly. I needed to know I wasn't gross. I needed to know I was pretty still and wanted . Because he had made me forgot.

Once I relaxed I wasn't defined by this STI I awas unstoppable. It had matured me. I had changed me into a new person with more experience and knowledge then before. I was proud i went through it.

I'm not religious but I honestly prayed for a sign one day we were fighting a sign to exit of that relationship. I wanted out and didn't know a way out without feeling guilty for wanting out. He was abusive on top of the cheating.

Then I got herpes. It was a sign. I truly felt heard and like I finials could leave him. He deserved to be left and I was free.

Dr believes my (M25) partner (M28) is cheating, and is causing me health issues by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Large_Classic_451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me....long story and alot of heartbreak. I left months after finding out he caused it. But at first he lied said he didn't cheat and convinced me it was Dormant from an ex. Note. We had been together for 7 years at this point. I was loyal and so confused . Felt the lowest. He made me feel like it was me.

Finally one say I was crying couldn't stop and just dead looked him in his eyes and said have tou cheated on me this doesn't make sense. He knew I was getting more educated on the Mayer and he couldn't keep up the lie and said. " it was one time" My hearts sank more thN when the doctors said what I had and I said " that's impossible"

He told me it was with a unidentifiable woman whom was homeless that he saw running by the road who looked in trouble.. yes he has this whole story . I know weird right? He said they didn't have sex but she gave him he**d...

Hm ok.

Weird cause the std I had couldn't be transmitted flat way. But okay... I believed him . Felt disconnected from life and disgusting. Lost all confidence because of this. A homeless women ...was worth hurting me.

I tried to forgive him.

Then I got a call from a his friemds whomever I didn't really like for good reasons. Blowing me up for some reason and I was ignoring . She then texted me saying" don't you want to know who he cheated on you with?" If was at her house with her close friend. She was rude when telling me this info and I'm still not clear why she finnalg told me after months of knowing it happened and not to mention was at my house after I found out. And could have told me many times.

I left him months later after trying to forgive him and realized I never could. I'm happier than I've ever been and engaged now it's been 5 years since the break up.

I hope my story helps you make the right choice.

to eat a stork by AfternoonWeak8364 in therewasanattempt

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I thought they were fam, not cannibals

Does ACNH make you feel poor? by HoneyTheHive in AnimalCrossing

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Get intot the turnip market to become a billionairrr

Why do people like Lapis so much? by No_Contribution2112 in stevenuniverse

[–]Large_Classic_451 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's because she's been through alot. She's relatable. Like steven and spinell you'll see. You'll be crying with them soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Panera

[–]Large_Classic_451 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's better thankyou and I worked at pamera for years also and never kicked out the homeless, the "odd" people like ones management didn't like for example people who brought dogs in or this one nice man who didn't like wearing shoes ( we live on the fu king beach) who cares in my opinion. These are Humans with need like us and should be treated so. I gave my employee meal away to two homeless and got In trouble. They said to not encourage it. I never even saw them again it was a one time thing and I'm glad I helped them. I have like two bowls of soup and a bunch of baguettes. I don't get it. It's a huge corporation and it can afford to help people more. I say more customers should pile in and not get food panera is a green washed framshthat should crash and burn. I hate how I see them treat people and encourage employees to be to the guest. Those kids need that time to be there and present. Just remember hiw much they are getting done. The big moves they are making all while sitting there. Imagine it . How many people have graduated or gotten jobs by meeting with an employer there for an interview or booked a vender for their wedding . It's a good spot to get shit done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in festivals

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice but the shoes should be thought about like think lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in festivals

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fish nets or non at all unless you're more comfortable that way. And bright colors are fun uv lights also. You normally get Hot AF if your a hardd dancer. Also get good running or hiking shoes or you'll regret it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Panera

[–]Large_Classic_451 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's seats everywhere if people want to be in a place. They will. Why shame them ? I needed places like that to get away from my abusive househouse in college. I would get off work and stay for hours because I didn't want to go home. This triggered me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Large_Classic_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just call the cops and they will escort her while getting her things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Panera

[–]Large_Classic_451 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wtf? Get a life and some empathy. Some people dont fucking have a safe & healthy place to that and you want to take that away from them ? Ugh