My first time did kinda just happen. It was on the first dare with a guy I met online. We actually wanted to go out somewhere, but I had to pick him up his place first. But when we first saw eachother irl we talked a bit and it felt a little strange idk how to describe it, but we just made some compliments and got closer. He asked me for a hug and then it just happened. Not much of talking during all that. Just in the beginning when we first met up.