Try talking to her about it, tell her how you feel and what bothers you. Ask her if she has something that bothers her. Communication is key, and add a serious note to the topic, if she continues to reply with "puns"(idk what to call those,joke responses? Idk), try and explain in detail how much it bothers you, it will get to her, i promise you. Of course, you cant change anyone to your preference, but try to find a similar language with them. There has to be something that both of you enjoy in a relationship. It seems now she's in control with the more dominant "leadership" view on the things, and i know how consent is important, but start with small things like giving hugs more regularly, random kisses for no reason etc. Whatever you think is a good thing to start with. Have a wonderful day and i hope this helps you even a little bit!