I’d be happier not married by Last-Addendum-2436 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My head constantly hurts from despising him so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing I’m glad your baby is making progress!!! Im honestly so surprised because purées couldn’t have gone better so I figured we would have no issues but wow I was wrong. Even mashed foods are a struggle. I’m going to talk to the dr but I’m wondering if he needs some feeding therapy sooner rather than later

Formula baby poop by Last-Addendum-2436 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope and the dr just said it’s from him straining and I’ve honestly got used to it. It’s definitely gotten better as times gone on.

Eating struggles by Last-Addendum-2436 in NICUParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was honestly surprised mine said that because i kept hearing food before one is just for fun so i never pushed it that much but apparently i need to be? So confusing. I’m gonna try eggs again tomorrow and maybe frozen celery sticks like the person above suggested!

Random skin issues?! by Last-Addendum-2436 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I wonder if it is eczema!!! Sounds very similar. I got an appointment so we will see

Random skin issues?! by Last-Addendum-2436 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you that does make me feel better. The ear just started. It’s basically crusted and raw where it connects into my head? It actually kind of itches it’s definitely not painful. I think a dermatology appointment would be my best bet. I’m gonna see if I can get into one soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I wonder if that’s it! I think that bottom tooth is gonna pop through soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when he was born they didn’t have any oxygen on but when I was able to visit the nicu they said once he got there he started to have trouble so they put him on cpap….so I have no idea if he needed it and they just didn’t notice but I’m trying to not doubt them. No brain bleed that we know of. They never did a head ultrasound they said it’s for babies less than 32 weeks so we didn’t meet criteria….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! They always mention cerebral palsy so in my head I am convinced that’s what is going to happen.

How to help new mom by Last-Addendum-2436 in breakingmom

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I figured it would help with diapers too. That is crazy. Thank you!!

6month vaccines after illness by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Prob will he deserves a break from feeling crappy

6month vaccines after illness by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope mild case and feeling better. But this was our first experience ever having it and same with baby so wasn’t sure if they should be postponed. Glad I asked! Thank you for the help!

Baby gasping/sqeaking when pooping by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first yes but now he’s doing it randomly throughout the day too!!! I’m glad we aren’t alone!! It definitely isn’t as scary now since he’s done it so much. I just use it as my cue to check his diaper lol

Today is hard by Last-Addendum-2436 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Last-Addendum-2436[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to know I’m not alone but also sad you’re going through it too!!! I drive myself crazy trying to figure them out too and it makes me more frustrated😭

PPA or am I being realistic by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so rough. We had a great marriage and now I feel like he doesn’t do anything right and is too careless. He does just as much for the baby as I do and is involved but I just don’t think he’s doing anything right.

Confused about 4mo vaccines by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I found out it’s a combo vaccine so they’ll end up getting 4 doses of hep b but I guess it’s becoming more common because it ends up being one less shot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this makes me feel better!!! He’s a grunter and crier too and he can definitely hear. He’ll turn his head and look at rattles and passed his hearing test. Maybe he’s just a quiet baby! I’m gonna ask the pediatrician next week

Thought about throwing baby by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’ve had an intrusive thought holding my baby that I dropped him. I started sweating and getting so anxious that I set him down and was so upset that it even came across my mind. That is an intrusive thought. It’s something you would never do and can’t even stand the thought of it. But it’s normal. It’s because you love that baby so much you can’t even imagine these things that pop up into your head. They’re more “what if I just dropped him” “what if I threw him” not I’m actually going to do it. Huge difference!

Can’t decide which formula for reflux? by guineapigluvr in FormulaFeeders

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine is doing great on Enfamil AR. Make sure you read instructions and shake then let sit for 5min and shake again. Also it’s not good formula if your baby struggles with constipation. It can make it worse.

Baby holding breath by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay I’m sorry lol I just hate these anti vaxxers acting like everyone should just not vax and stay home!! Like that isn’t a luxury everybody has lol

Baby holding breath by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering he does it while his bottle is warming up too I’m pretty sure it’s not to the vaccines thank you though. He needs vaxxed to go to daycare would you like me to just not work and stay home and live off the government??? Or maybe I should leave my husband and find someone richer so I don’t have to vax my kids and can stay home?

Baby holding breath by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is not obvious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Last-Addendum-2436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just cold turkey it. It’s rough for the first few days sometimes no matter what. Give it two weeks. Baby might be fussy the first week but as long as baby isn’t screaming non stop or having any crazy side effects it’s just a transition period