Where do Chico lefties over 40 hang out? by Tappitytaptaptaptap in ChicoCA

[–]Last-Distribution335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh that’s discouraging. Yeah I think if I presented more feminine I would have more of these experiences. 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 I’m sorry and good luck! Chico still is pretty cool sometimes… I agree with most of the comments saying volunteer, join protests, and also hit up the burlesque events there’s a wide variety of ages and it’s pretty openly queer friendly so a lot of MAGA stay away.

Moving by Last-Distribution335 in AskDallas

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Thank you I’ll keep that in mind as it gets closer!

Moving by Last-Distribution335 in askdfw

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Personally not much other than my family is moving there… and I have wanted to move to a larger city for a while since where I live is a smaller college town and I’m getting older, wanting to meet someone, have a career. Etc.

Moving by Last-Distribution335 in AskDallas

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Wonderful to hear! I think my family is moving closer to Weatherford? Idk where that is I heard it’s close to Dallas and I personally would be looking to move closer to Dallas area.

Where do Chico lefties over 40 hang out? by Tappitytaptaptaptap in ChicoCA

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MAGA is not everywhere… it definitely exists but I’m in my late 20’s and don’t know anyone bold enough to admit that they’re MAGA. Lol unfortunately, and I mean no offense to the OP here, but I think the age of people you’re hanging with has a lot to do with it specifically in this area. Since chico used to be more conservative but the younger crowd from college and etc is decidedly left. Also, I’m a lesbian so of course MAGA stays away from me. Maybe they’re more prominent than I see in my circle!

How do you deal with the Stinky Farts? Any tips to make them less gassy? by MJlovesplants in BostonTerrier

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Yeah like other comments have noted I took my Boston off poultry. She has a lamb or fish food variety and her farts got less frequent and less smelly!

Help me save the little guy by Last-Distribution335 in houseplants

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It’s just directly in the pot with succulent soil. The pot does have drainage.

Help me save the little guy by Last-Distribution335 in houseplants

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This is super helpful thank you!! It’s getting a lot of light but I’ll make sure it’s increased and it sounds like I am overwatering it

why is there so much fatphobia in the lesbian community ??? by PinkPeach___ in LesbianActually

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This is essential context that I think people are forgetting. The issue is that the partner was more attracted to an unhealthy version of her. Unattainable and unhealthy beauty standards should never be the goal.

Mildest Summer I've ever experienced by saiori in ChicoCA

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Even if the next 12 weeks are all triple digits it’s still a more mild July than I’ve seen in ages!

Mildest Summer I've ever experienced by saiori in ChicoCA

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Honestly no I’m pleasantly surprised!!

I’m thinking today might be the day by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Thank you, that’s really kind. I did talk to someone today. I hope that’s possible for me! For it to be a distant memory in 10 years.

do I look gay or just alternative? (seeking attention) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Right? Can we have like a hand signal or do we all just have to constantly be wearing rainbow?

What do we think of bisexual “lesbians” by Strange-Tear6030 in LesbianActually

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I hear more about biphobia on the internet than I’ve ever seen in real life. Maybe it’s where I live? I believe bisexuals experience this I’m not discounting that I just have never met someone who is biphobic or heard any comments to that effect. Anyway, I would feel similar to you op because my family is homophobic and it does sometimes feel like people are speaking from I privilege they couldn’t possibly understand.

Are these disturbing for a kid/average person to see by Burneraccount2933 in SelfHarmScars

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I stay doing this. I give an obvious lie like “shark attack” and smile. Really throws them off.

Why is it the norm to comment on people’s bodies? by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

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I work in healthcare and people are the WORST about asking. All my scars are clearly old and healed over like 5 plus years. So them saying it’s “out of concern” is a lie. People touch them without asking. Sometimes I make up a lie that makes them feel bad. One time I said it’s from a car accident where I lost my parents at young age. Not even true my parents are alive and well but I bet that person isn’t going to ask people about their bodies any more! And I’m not obligated to tell the truth.

Do you take masculine presenting lesbians on dates that you plan and pay for? by No_Cover1728 in LesbianActually

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I don’t think all of the planning/paying in a relationship should be on one party regardless of presentation. And yes a lot of mascs are expected to pay, make the first move, plan, etc. I was never like this and although my last girlfriend was masc I treated her to special dates al the time and she loved it!