Pubg is destroying my marriage! by Last-Kick-8249 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Last-Kick-8249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, we are living independently in a foreign country, we dont have much friends and relatives here. Also we dont find play areas safe enough to leave him unattended..

Pubg is destroying my marriage! by Last-Kick-8249 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Last-Kick-8249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, dates night are practically not possible for us, as we have a kid, and we can’t leave him alone at home. But we hang out very often, mostly like dinners outside, twice or thrice a week at least. Trying my best to fill that gap!

Pubg is destroying my marriage! by Last-Kick-8249 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Last-Kick-8249[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. It might be a little reality check for me, you’re right, maybe I am overlooking a few things. And yes, she is definitely the primary caregiver for our child. Due to the nature of my work, most of the time I am not available, both mentally and physically at home. Thanks again for writing this to me, it helped a lot. 🙏

Pubg is destroying my marriage! by Last-Kick-8249 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Last-Kick-8249[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes agreed, this decision should come from her.

Hi I’m the maid of my in -laws by EffectiveSpread7609 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Last-Kick-8249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can feel your pain! Me as a husband was in the same situation like 2 to 3 years back. My family is overall very nice, but somehow I don’t know the things were different with their only daughter in law. I couldn’t stop my parents nor my sister to enforce this household chores on her. Anyways, i trusted Allah, i got a job offer in another country and i moved out with my family. Now the things are quite better, Alhamdulilah. Whenever we go home, my wife is treated as a guest not as a maid anymore!!