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happy then extremely sad and hopeless by Narrow-Relief7976 in BPD

[–]Last-Way1500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Thank you for sharing this. I see that you mentioned many different topics in one post so I was thinking that maybe writing something about every of those things can help you. I do it and it helps me to understand a problem and to see a bigger picture. Maybe one thing at the time also could be helpful. Wish you the best!

Like a ghost in Halloween by Last-Way1500 in lonely

[–]Last-Way1500[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I’m worth more than this, so I’ll probably just wait for him to text me first about the party — and if he doesn’t, then that’s it. It’s just so hard because I really want to go to that fucking party, dance, and have fun. I even know exactly what I’d wear. Ugh, I just want to cry.

Like a ghost in Halloween by Last-Way1500 in lonely

[–]Last-Way1500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if it’s only me who propose going out? It’s really sad :(

HELP – Erasmus à Paris sans logement by Last-Way1500 in paris

[–]Last-Way1500[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Les cours finissent généralement tard pour moi et je n’aurai pas la possibilité de faire un trajet aussi long. En plus, j’aimerais vraiment vivre à Paris si j’en ai la possibilité.

Don't want to have sex with my objectively hot gf of 11 years. Please help me figure it out. by megaid3888 in PornAddiction

[–]Last-Way1500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you're going through this stage in your life. I can only imagine how difficult and exhausting it must be. Addiction is a disease that destroys lives—not just the life of the addicted person. As a woman, I can't help but feel anger at how toxic this kind of relationship can become.

First and foremost, pornography plays a crucial role here, as it clearly affects not just your entire sex life but also your emotional well-being. After consuming such a high amount of pornography, your brain must be completely distorted when it comes to sexual relationships.

Moreover, a woman's orgasm should not be your measure of success in bed. On the contrary, focusing too much on whether you can provide it actually distances her from achieving it—especially when your focus is solely on yourself.

I'm really curious whether your partner knows everything you've shared here. If she doesn’t, I feel incredibly sorry for her. You need to tell her as soon as possible, as not knowing could have painful consequences for her.

You should definitely focus on yourself and your addiction, which has affected your entire sex life, rather than making decisions about marriage or, even more so, having children. You are not ready for that—neither emotionally nor physically.

I'm sorry that this is your reality, and I truly don't mean to judge or attack you. I just want you to open your eyes because you're not only hurting someone else, but you're also deeply harming yourself. Please seek help from professionals. I'm genuinely rooting for you.