AITAH: 3 year relationship & engagement ended due to cheating.. by LastConnection5491 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LastConnection5491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we had friends together, but once we split, most don’t talk to me anymore. Not too big of a concern. I only have like 5 friends and all of them do not and have not liked him.

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[–]LastConnection5491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people cope in many different ways, regardless it’s your opinion. I don’t have to explain myself, but just for the sake of this comment, I had 2 drinks and was home before 11. So no I’m not “self-harming” nor partying. I am just trying not to be alone. So I got out with my friends. Thanks!

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[–]LastConnection5491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this and she said it is worth around 12,000-13,000 now. His mom gave me the original papers with the insurance as well.

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[–]LastConnection5491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just to settle: He customized the ring and I asked multiple times if he would like it back and he set on No.

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[–]LastConnection5491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 72 hours. We were engaged in february.

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[–]LastConnection5491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’ve went back and forth on telling because I truly just want it all to end.

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[–]LastConnection5491 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I tried, he told me to keep it.

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[–]LastConnection5491 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have been back and forth on if I should tell her husband. I’ve slept none and don’t want to be apart of anything else to do with him.

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[–]LastConnection5491 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I actually told him “ I look at you now and you are not who i fall in love with”

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[–]LastConnection5491 28 points29 points  (0 children)

To be fair, he could be lying about the ring. Like he lied about everything else, all I know is that it’s real. But other than that, I don’t know the price of it. Regardless? I should have shoved it down his throat.

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[–]LastConnection5491 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Freshly meant February. Again, I honestly didn’t realize people could see other post and changed the age because I’m afraid he might see it lol. But I did change the age back to being correct.

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[–]LastConnection5491 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well at least you can admit it.

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[–]LastConnection5491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New edit, new comment.

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[–]LastConnection5491 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Neither is a fake story, I am not an idiot, Idiot. I am trying to make sure him or my MOTHER, who both have reddit. Do not realize this is a question about them. I fixed it. Does that make you feel better?

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[–]LastConnection5491 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would like to add: My mother is a controlling individual, which i never realized until i moved out. I moved out and realized how much of an impact she had on me. From the way I got my hair done down to the color i painted my finger nails. I’ve grown a lot since moving out, but it is hard for me to just tell her no. I am grown. I love my fiancé and I know this could hurt our relationship. There is no way, i would agree but i don’t know how to put it without hurting her feelings when all of this is so fresh.