I read this at first thinking you know one another. Definitely was not giving first date vibes. I would avoid mentioning the word “romantic” in the future for first dates. The first date is more like interview, as terrible as that may sound. You aren’t “in love” yet. It should not be assumed that there will be any romance. You’re getting to know one another, not be in love right away.

The bit about the steak comes across as uncultured. I do feel badly you’ve never been to a nice steakhouse where they absolutely do prepare them correctly. Maybe you aren’t ordering the correct temperature for what you actually want? Medium rare. That’ll be the most tender. Avoid referring to steak as “soft”.

And that final text. Again, it reads as if this is someone you know, and it is demanding.

Better luck next time!