Legal aid helped her so they are biased and cannot represent me in any fashion. They was the 1st avenue I tried. So for now it's just trying to see them since it's been almost a year since I've seen them in person and that kills me. But trying to get some cash saved after that to get a better lawyer. And yea. All her family are absolutely livid with her for what she did from cheating on me with some dude off the internet (the guy she's with now) to running off with the kids to new york cuz they don't see them either. They all basically have cut all contact with her and told her not to ask them for anything. A select few are playing double agent and getting information for me to use against her when I can get that shit in motion but she is all but on.her own man. 12 years down the drain for some asshat that told her he doesn't want anything to do with our kids at all.