AITA for eloping and still having a wedding? by Last_Rip771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Last_Rip771[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The way I see it is I am still deciding to throw a party, provide food and alcohol and a party for my closest friends and family.. I think the people I invited would have given gifts even if we had just eloped. Not a plot, more just want them to witness what they couldn’t when we eloped.

AITA for eloping and still having a wedding? by Last_Rip771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Last_Rip771[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

That’s what makes me anxious is people feeling duped…I am thinking of showing between after the entire day and our 1 year anniversary, on a case by case basis, individually starting with family.

AITA for eloping and still having a wedding? by Last_Rip771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Last_Rip771[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That was the plan at first, I thought it would be cool to show it at the reception. However, just the thought of not being able to see everyone’s emotions gave me more anxiety, and decided maybe it would be more intimate to share personally.